I don´t see why not. People have preferences, it´s about the same as posting "Asians only" or "Blacks only". I mean, no need to be an asshole, but you can´t force people to like everyone, and it helps to avoid disappointing people.

@nickys1177: just because you think you look good that any person out there from any country would be drooling over you Two words. Reading comprehension. @Domosuke: I notice this shit as well. I think it's crazy they play with your emotions and waste your time like that. I was talking to this one guy who lived nearby me, (and mind you, he was the one that messaged me first) and asked if I would like to get a drink sometime. I said yes, and to cut the bullshit agreed to go out for a drink that following Friday evening at a gay friendly venue in town. He later replied and said he would love to, be he's swamped with work (so why did he did ask if I wanted to grab a drink then? lol) So I said okay, rain check. He woudln't give me an answer back, I think he blocked me. I was talking to another guy that contacted me. We were sending lots of messages back and forth for a couple days, and I up front asked if he wanted to go out for lunch one weekend. He replied and said that would be great. (Mind you, he picked out this place.) He messaged me a place to meet up at. So I arrive there, and the asshole never shows up. I later find out he blocked me on the dating site. So yeah. Lots of gay men do this. Why I don't know. But it's getting on my nerves. That's exactly what I'm talking about. Like fuck. Why do these people start a conversation or agree on meeting if they don't even intend to. Mental illness?

It could be painful if it's not done correctly. Well so could most anything else we do for kicks. Otherwise, it really just generates a different sensation. Some enjoy that sensation more than others. Like everything else.

Ew..  Really.  Good anal hygiene is a must.  Accidents can happen sometime, but pure laziness and poor prep would be a MAJOR BONER KILLER for me.    Next…

@JohnAllenson: My thoughts, as a queer Jew.   If you'd like to meet Jewish men (or men of any specific minority religion) consider going to events within the culture.  I know there's a Gay-Lesbian synagogue in Los Angeles.  Consider going to some of their events.  Learn some stuff about our culture - there are Jewish restaurants, film festivals, concerts…. You are unlikely to be the only Black person in the room. I see.

I’m not into it as a bottom at all and personally don’t understand the appeal or enjoyment of it so that bit I do get.

@Kekkaishi: …..It's cool that your sisters agreed to it, but aren't you worried that before they delete your porn they would check all your "perversions"? Dude, I'm already dead when/if ever they will do that, so worrying will be past beyond me. :funny2:

I use to be the same way.. HATED going out HATED most people … disguised by the gay community and its standards for beauty and attractivness.. I hated myself really is what it was... had a boyfriend for the frist time it didnt go well, ended up not wanting to be around him.. and resenting him for wasting my time.. lol - but i REALLY didnt love myself.. after college I made it a goal to find things about my personality, body, desires, interests that i rly liked.. even if it felt like i was lying to myself i did it anyway.. and kind of thought of it as "these are things i would like to love about myself" and just be honest with yourself, dont compare yourself to people. everyones different and have different journies. Also everyones attractive to SOMEBODY, and everyones deserving of love and acceptance, if not from other people atleast from yourself  :hug2: :hug2: :hug2: :hug2: :love: hope this helps a little !

Not really surprised. But I sort of was able to gain the power to realize why people do the things they do. Being a feminine boyish black gay man in his late 20s, who's always felt excluded from society, I just learn to pick up on common things and patterns. For example, I learned that men who are always picking up trash in the street, hold the door open for others, give their seat up on a crowded train, guys who you can go up and ask for help or directions and give them to you are gentleman and nice. Guys who litter, guys who don't hold the door open when walking into a building, guys who spread their legs and crotch wide open when sitting on a train, guys who you go up and ask for help give you a shitty or rude comeback, are usually assholes and not nice. Just stuff like that.

It depends on what you're doing and who you're doing it with. Like if you are just shooting the shit with random people, then that's probably nothing. But if you are having intimate webcam sessions and developing feelings for this person, then yes to be that would be cheating. It also depends on your partner and how they feel about it.

I wouldn't necessarily call myself a chubby chaser, but I do like more bigger and stockier chubby guys with meat on their bones.

What exactly is it supposed to do? Other than give you low hanging balls.

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Open communication is key. If everybody in the relationship is talking through the issues, the main issue (jealousy) should be avoidable.

Is there any advise on what position to do first?

I've got one word for you: vegetables. That's where I started with anal play. Wander through the fruit and veg section of your supermarket… all sorts of shapes and sizes  :cool2:

@ckslad: is brother in law incest? Nope Go for it