Every answer so far has been exactly what I would have said.

@slimsf888: Jealous of the 13% who have it daily! Newlyweds or professionals. 

I'm of "a certain age" and came out just as the health crisis was hitting panic mode in the early '80s.  As a consequence, I've had relatively few partners and less sex than one might think of a healthy gay male.  Sex has been fun when it happened, but there was considerable worry and angst associated with it as well.  (Frankly, I harbor a lot of jealousy over the life I should have had: I paid the price for being gay, but didn't get the supposed benefits.) Within the past year, I started PrEP.  I can't say that I've become particularly slutty, but I can say that the worries I used to have have been greatly reduced.  I love to bottom and it's made all the difference in the world for me.  I still check my partners' statuses and play safe if bottoming for a positive guy; but I'm more inclined to bareback for a guy who is also on PrEP. Does that make me a slut?  I don't think so, though your mileage may vary.

Avoid regular use of medical enemas as this can lead to lasy bowel syndrome. Instead, go for water or saline enemas/washes.

Highly recommended for solo play and with friends/partners.  :cheesy2:

Catfishing is evil. I know people of all kinds, gay, hetero, etc who manage to have relationships, so there's no excuse.

"Without" is great but have to make sure the safety. Just mentioned STD and STI can be infected even you use Prep. Just make sure the one you want to do bareback is totally trusted. Do not recommend unsafe sex.

I'm 33 and more passive/submissive, so I'm not really looking for too young or inexperienced. Though I've had several recent encounters with guys in the 21-24 range. I wouldn't go under 20 and is usually looking for 28-ish and up. Biggest age difference is when I was 16 and he was 45. Oldest guy I've been with (that I knew his age) was 57 and I was 30 at the time.

I like those.

Don't assume anal sex is gonna hurt!  I mean, it can, a bit, depending on your tension level, anatomy, etc., but it can also be completely pain free and pleasurable.  Take it slow, only go as far as you're comfortable.  99% chance you'll get the hang of it soon enough.  It's a dick, not a dagger, so don't worry too much.  ;D

If porn stars count, then yes…. Marc Dylan

@torrhuz: From what you say I am assuming you may be Asexual, Demisexual or Pansexual. Asexual being that you truly have no sexual attraction to either male/female Demi being that you need a strong emotional bond before attraction Pan being that you may not care for their genitalia nor their gender-identity and may end up liking them for who they are By the way everything I'm saying here is by my own logic and understanding of sexuality, I do not have formal training in psych/sexuality aside from what I've done for my major in college. In any case you may be one of the above or something else, you'd have to do more research on these however. That aside, it is possible that you have a narcissistic attraction to yourself. As I understand it, regardless of sexuality it is entirely normal to do something like looking at yourself in the mirror while masturbating. Of course you know yourself best you know how to please yourself and you probably really like how you look physically. Nothing wrong with that. I suppose its really a pretty complicated thing. It could be that because you haven't known anyone else your best choice is you and therefore you turn yourself on. If you end up dating someone and after getting close you prefer to fantasize them instead of yourself then your current issue is just from lack of experience. Then on the other side of it even if you do date someone what will matter is your perspective on it… That is, did you get with that person because they happen to look very similar to you and that was the majority of the reason you're together? Whether yes or no the other part is that even if you did get close with someone else if you still prefer to exceedingly turn to fantasies of yourself versus your partner then it is most likely that you're narcissistic. I think I understand what are you talking about and wow, it does clear up alot of stuff up. Based on what you said, I think its highly probable that the lack of experience is the case. In the past, I've been attracted to others before regardless of gender, though then I leaned more toward the guys XD. Its also a matter of experimenting with things, dating etc, that will help to find myself sexually but living in a part of the world where exploring ones sexuality is difficult and looked down upon does make it tough. But, I appreciate your thoughts on my current predicament ;D ;D ;D and as of now, I kinda see a tie to demisexuality. Thanks!!

My spouse and I were both sluts when we met 39 years ago and fortunately for us an open relationship has worked all these years. Talking about our other sexual encounters has made our sex life even better. Sometimes we have shared others with each other or enjoyed watching each other having sex with others.

I wish I could blame the economy for the incident!

Talk to the other guys about their experiences. Say things did not turn out how you expected (true), and ask them what their expectations were before hand, and how it actually turned out for them.

I am 6'2" and I think I have only had sex with one guy that was taller than me and two that was almost the same height as me, it was actually really nice not to bend your knees and you could stand tall and kiss. Younger guys seems to be taller today, but guys at my age is usually almost a head shorter than me.

@Waldo1215: There is a guy that works at the Subway across the street from my workplace, I go there every Saturday to buy cookies, he always seems to get a great mood when I come in(been going in there for about 5-6 months), the other day he asked me if I wanted to sit down with him while I eat my cookies(I said no since my brake is only about 10 mins and if things go a bit differently than I think then it will end up being a 30 minute brake). What are your thoughts on that? I wouldn't look for anything more than friendship tbh. Start with a friendship, and see how he feels about gay guys.