Kinda nice pics, although I tend to have more interest in guys that post up less 'posed' photos and more natural photos and then if getting sent more,  in a number of different places or outfits, if they are all the same place in the same outfit then my mind begins to doubt if they are from the guy i'm messaging. Don't send the butt pics, unless you're specifically asked for it, I mean you don't wanna give all the goods away too soon. If its on Grindr, then I guess 80% are time wasters wanting wank bank pics!  Also, on Grindr be as blunt as possible with what you want, like  'looking to fuck a juicy ass right now'  I hate it when I message a guy with an interesting if slightly vague profile and find he's just there for the chat and isn't clear what he wants or what he doesn't want. I'm not sure about the race issue that people are bringing up, I've not really experienced it in that way.  I'm a white guy and do like a bit of variety in my sexual partners.  I mean I don't just read one book over and over again or watch just the one tv show over and over or eat just carrots for every meal on every day. Variety is a wonderful thing,  make the most of it before it's too late.

Not sure which one it is,, but if it is anything like this one it's called "anal beads" [image: 107180_41c5T8tJX7L._SX355_.jpg]

wear condoms still. it prevents HIV not other STI

People have but he's an online guy and y'know, he won't admit cuz he might alienate female or conservative viewers. Just seeing if there's a finely tuned gaydar guy out there who can tell, hehe

Sorry but I've known too many who lost their lives to HIV to trust just a tablet to protect myself if I was to have sex with a PREP tab. I still have blood tests annually for HIV. Going to a clinic to get the all clear and to be asked about my sex life, partners and sex health and to be given a clean bill of health matters to me. As to orgies? Not for me in practice but I do like the fantasy of one.

Monogamy doesn't work for me. To each their own.

I did eat something once in high school  :crazy: and no I would never do that again. I don't really care if someone else wants to drink or eat in a restroom tbh, however I found the idea of drinking (something/anything) hot…

I always thought that after I hit puberty it was just downhill from there. Nope! I reckon it's still twice a day, most days unless I get fucked.  ;D

In theory, I think I would prefer a menage a trois relationship.  {I'm not fond of making up new terms for something that has been around forever.)  Having to rely on one person to handle all the pressure of a relationship wouldn't be fair to either of us. I've known a number of long-term stable group marriages - mainly with bisexual people.

i jerked off my stepbrother… and he blew me.  we were 15..

Kind of. Once at uni I got into a bathroom stall with a gloryhole by accident. On the other side was a guy who looked trough looked trough the whole. I 'm pretty sure he was fapping. Didn't take advantage of the situation at the time. Not sure if I would now. I have also so been in public bathrooms were there is cum all over the toilet seat. I'm not exactly a prude, but IMO exposing unsuspecting people to sexual acts is not really okey. Uh, it does turn me on, though.

Most of what you have described constitutes abuse. Any behaviour that make you uncomfortable emotionaly or physically.

That's something for you and your partner(s) to decide.  The rules of a relationship are decided by the people involved in the relationship, not by we random forumgoers.

Don't bring them home and wait to come out after you move out? You can still date. How do you know for sure your parents and friends are homophobic? People will surprise you. It took me a while to learn that I'm not a mind reader. Any of your friends who reject you were never your friend anyway. Better to wait to come out until you're independent and can take care of yourself if your parents truly are homophobic. I thought my parents were homophobic too, but I found out they weren't. Now I have a lot of regret over all the time I lost being closer to them. Come out as soon as you feel you can, it's one of the best things you can do for yourself.

@nickys1177: so 25 is the new 18? there are so many 30 plus and still certified virgins. The funny thing is, it´s really easy to get sex with other men, testosterone gives you one hell of a sex drive.