Depends where do you live. In my country, there is like a special gay forum where 90% of people are there primarily for dating and not sex. Just write in your profile that you are looking for dating(and don't trust no one).

you will find a way to solve the issue.  if you love him.  good luck.

@mcoguy: I like missionary because I like to kiss and also look him in the eye while we are fucking.  But also, doggystyle feels so damn good! :love: :love: :love:

@calichef: I personally never have pre-cum but many partners have. I'm always slightly envious for some reason! :cheesy2: :cheers:

It doesn't really work, neither of them. Neither any of those exotic oil that promise to 'enlarge' your dick. Your dick is not some rubber band that you can forcefully stretch.

Nah man straight dudes doing it too. But it's always inside the stalls.

@league318: That man can fuck GOOD! that hip action  :cheesy2: I know right? And that belly button tattoo  :crazy2:

I have a few bottles of poppers and I will admit I am no expert on the subject. I honestly don't know the answer I just read reviews online if there are any. However what I do know is that not all poppers are made the same and this is what I look at mostly. There are several different formulas. Isopropyle Nitrite Pentyl nitrite amyl nitrate Isobutyl nitrate isopentyl nitrate All these are available depending on where you live in the world. I myself have tried amyl and Pentyl and I was fine with those. I avoided Isopropyle as it can give you eye problems apparently so it put me off them. From my experience more money doesn't guarantee better quality, but then as I said Im not expert. Buying bigger bottles is cheaper, but in the long run if your not careful wont stay fresh any extra. To keep things fresh the only other bit of advice I can give is get another empty bottle (preferably glass, avoid plastic as poppers can melt some plastics. An old empty poppers bottle would be great for this) and use this extra bottle as the bottle that you sniff from. Add some cotton wool to the bottle and pour a bit in from the main bottle. The more your open the original main bottle, the weaker it will get as its more exposed to oxygen, hence the use of the extra bottle. Saves you money in the long run Good luck

@cale: Ok so this happened tonight…going through the usual hookup aps..this guy has a  profile im interested in so i kinda 'woof' at him letting him know im interested. We go on to trade pics and he says hes into domination and is a top - that's fine with me as I am a btm. We talk about what we would do...he tells me to wear a zip up hoodie with no shirt underneath, shorts and no underwear and ankle socks. I tell him I'll get ready and douche and to get the condom/lube ready. He tells me to not wash my pits...and yes they were smelling ripe after a long day at work. So I clean myself down there and msg him again getting ready to head down. All of a sudden he asks these questions which I found kinda alarming..let me know what you think. First he asks, "are you taking transit or a car?" Then, "is your number a Vancouver number?" Finally, "is it ok if i tie you up and blindfold you?" After seeing these questions I thought to myself...wtf am I getting myself into!?! I asked myself, wouldn't a killer ask there types of questions? Also he wouldn't send me his 'location' but preferred to type it out instead even tho I asked him to do the former. My other question is..who here has trusted a complete stranger to tie and blindfold them up? I don't think I'd ever be comfortable letting a complete stranger do that to me. Thanks for the replies. P.S. I didn't end up meeting him cause while douching I kept getting the urge to go even after I finished douching so I told him and he got upset and thought I was just playing with him and decided to block me saying, "Then don't fucking come. I hate when people lie." creepy but did u find this could your fantasy too? lol

I definitely advise against it unless his wife knows he's on the down-low. While I would have done it when I was younger, trust me since I'm older now and (hopefully) wiser. Unless his wife is OK with this, you're helping someone cheat on their wife. As you get older, you'll only regret it.

I've always thought it depends a lot on the person's emotional maturity, but I can hardly conceive it happening before being 13-14 years old. For me the keys are: 1- Do it with someone who you trust/feel a connection with. It's pointless to do it if you don't feel confortable around the other person. I'd say it's better if it's someone your age, especially while being a teen. 2- Try to be as best informed as you can (i.e know about how protection methods work, which ones to use, proper hygiene, the importance of lube and playtime…) 3- Communicate how you feel to the other person, do not keep your fears to yourself 3- Do not rush it, especially if you're dating someone that pressures you to have sex when you still feel scared about it.

I don't think he can have sex with so many guys, maybe only chat online.

When I was a teenager, I was with another guy in a stall at the bus station. Just we about to pull our pants down, I look up to see this grown man looking over the stall wall at us. He was smiling and said "go ahead". I was so shocked and embarrassed. My friend and left quickly.

Just go ahead, then you will know your real thoughts

Never been into toys. Never seen the point of them, when there are enough men around with the real thing.