If there's a next time, eat mustard - that will always work.

@Adorabledude: Dude I was the Football jock and a guy with a crush many times in my life… Just learn from this. If you make friends and hang with a "str8" guy, then know thats just what your doing... Your hanging with a friend. I'm not saying that something might not happen but stay real. Dont be the guy thinking it's a date, while the other guy thinks it's a beer. I lost so much time on this... it's going to be hard but you will be fine!! I agree, as I agree with many of the other posts here. I wish I had the good sense when I was your age to have asked for advice like how you did. It will be hard, and you will lose a lot of time thinking about him and guys like him, but as Adorabledude points out, you'll be fine! D

from a bisexual, these are the possibilities: 1. he is thankful that finally he has a close friend to hang out with who would understand his being half-gay. in my experience it is harder for a bisexual to find gays and straights to accept us. the gays would think we are all in denial and the straights would live in fear that if we would not snatch their girlfriends, we'd definitely molest them or something! (sorry for using the words "snatch" and "girlfriend" in the same sentence in a gay forum… LOL) i think he's just basically thankful to finally have someone to talk to about gay/bi stuff. 2. he could be just joking. i have more straight friends than gay/bi friends and they tend to joke a lot about these things when they are already comfortable with you. majority of the times, they don't mean it seriously. the open-minded straight guys even have a lot of questions about gay/bi people (albeit, most of those questions seem stupid to us) 3. he could be attracted to you and was lightly flirting with you or giving you enough hints to see if you like him too without sounding/appearing like a desperate man-slut! these are just the possibilities that i can think of. the wrong thing for you to do is to assume any one of these and act accordingly. the right thing to do and the decision that will not damage your friendship would be to talk to him about it.

well i never but filthy sex is good with anybody….. geeks - like scientists can be absolutly filthy as hell - it is so hot doctors too and plasterers and friut sellers in the street market - why stereotype your look - if it's filthy sex you desire.....