Being the piss poor excuse for a human that I am I had to consult the old urban dictionary & when I saw this: 1. French General from the American Revolution that was sent with 5,500 troops to help the Americans defeat the British by King Louis XVI. He is best known for the defeat of the British at Yorktown (1781). I thought to myself "how fancy" & then began planning what I was going to do with the 5,500 troops I wrongly assumed you were swapping for my man.  Then I got to this: 2. A nut-kicking contest, usually performed between two males, taking turns to see who can take the most kicks in the nuts. And began plans to recruit a private army of 5,500 troops (not the first time) then I remembered how well I mix cocktails, especially Molotov varieties but then Kenny called me back to bed.  Try to comfort yourself with the thought that he is the brain & I am the looks in this relationship.  Where are my dragons?

@MrMazda: Speaking from experience, if you should discover that you have a problem with hemorrhoids, I would suggest the use of Annusol in the cream format instead of the suppository format. That has always worked wonders for me, moreso than Preperation H. Before having anal sex, I do an enema, finger myself to help make penetration easier and use a lot of lube. I must admit that I can't get enough of being fucked in the butt. Love it. In case of having haemorrhoids, I will try Annusol. Thanks.

it seems really gross, so not really something that I want to do. I assume you have to do it standing. you'd probably have do to some foreplay or something in the seats so that you can just get in, get off, get out

Right hand all the way for fapping and writing.

Two reasons one is psychological and the other is chemical. for the chemical instead of attempting to explain I'll copy and paste. Chemical: When a cigarette is smoked, nicotine-rich blood passes from the lungs to the brain within seven seconds and immediately stimulates the release of many chemical messengers such as acetylcholine, norepinephrine, epinephrine, arginine vasopressin, serotonin, dopamine, and beta-endorphin.[28][29] This release of neurotransmitters and hormones is responsible for most of nicotine's psychoactive effects. Nicotine appears to enhance concentration[30] and memory due to the increase of acetylcholine. It also appears to enhance alertness due to the increases of acetylcholine and norepinephrine. Arousal is increased by the increase of norepinephrine. Pain is reduced by the increases of acetylcholine and beta-endorphin. Anxiety is reduced by the increase of beta-endorphin. Nicotine also extends the duration of positive effects of dopamine[31] and increases sensitivity in brain reward systems. Psychological: This is more of the addiction kicking in. And well to tell you the truth smoking after anything pleasurable a decent meal sex etc Is amazing.

It can be exciting but in a relationship it is dangerous, maybe the third wants it more often or wants one of the couple to be his boyfriend or something like it.

I have two dildos, but I use them by myself more often then with someone else during sex.

Gently shaved pubes turn me on

I think you should ask him out, but not exactly for a "date" just hang out as friends. Then, when you have more interaction with him, you'll find out if he's actually gay or not. Those things might come out when he talks about relationships, his experiences, or the lack of them. After that, yo could make a move on him.

the thrill of getting caught would definitely excite you! esp if you are having sex with a guard or police… haha

@LEVI: I see no reason to kick you out of bed. ! LEVI - you are HOT!

There isn't a rule. If the person is right, you should feel free to talk about sex right from the start. Having sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date doesn't change the prospect of the relationship.

@uzuzjh: yes. i am tall and annoyed by that lol Coming from a rather "short" person myself (5'5"), be glad that you're tall…. It comes in handy with a lot of things. I'd classify being short as a disability if I could lol

@ivanunss: Vintage porn is not my kind of thing. A bit too soft for me. While I would agree with you on the most part, there are some vintage flicks that get me going pretty well every time. Most anything Chad Douglas for example falls into this category.

I've been to UAE/Abu Dhabi/Dubai for 2 days free stopover just to see the tallest building there. Really boring places with nothing left to do after the easy sights were done. I'm East Asian and I don't fancy ME men. But I went to those cruisy gardens near the seasides, out of curiosity. It's very obvious there with men shuffling in the dark parts or sitting on the benches waiting. I sat and waited and got cruised. There are 2 very distinct groups there who don't mix. The Indians were despised by the ME. The ME were generally quite snobbish and wore white flowing robes. After getting to chat with a few men, I got to know about the gay cultures there. The ME consider themselves rich and masters of the foreign Indians. Hence they'll only play with other ME. I'm not sure how East Asians were looked upon. But I soon found out after talking to 2 rather snobbish ME. They liked my smooth fair skin but expected me to thank my lucky star that they fancied me. So they told me straight off that they considered me as fuck meat. That was so rude and their actions were more disrespectful. They began to paw me and even rudely tried to pull off my pants. Seeing that even though we were in some dim parts, those were still public parks so I was not afraid. Though I wasn't actually interested in them, I allowed them to pull my pants all the way down to my ankles just to see how far they would go. I also got caught in the illegal excitements of the moments and went with the flow. He went further to bend me over and fingered me. When he flipped that white robe over and showed his hard-on ( there's no underwear beneath), I realised he was seriously going to bonk me on the spot! That's where I told him no, too dangerous. He understood and didn't force himself upon me since he wouldn't want a scene when sex alone was dangerous enough. He merely walked off in a huff of anger. When I talked to a young Indian who saw us, he told me that the ME was daring because if we get caught by the police, he would be let off but I would be charged and deported immediately. The police seldom want to stir things up to avoid publicity.

its interesting o know everyones viewpoint

have not seen one yet

Keep trying?  Don't mind if I do. Until I am able to accomodate a fist (or even just that butt plug that I bought while thinking to myself "That's a large one?", 5 years on I have yet to manage it & so that's 5 years without a butt plug in me because I won't accept defeat, stubborn, who me?) I will just have to satisfy myself (giggle) with the knowledge that although girth is not my forte I have yet to find the length where I have said "That's too far".  On more than one occasion I have wondered about monetizing my abilities (hey, they do say you should like your job) but have never been sure how to contact the drug cartels and let them know of my capabilities.