I see what you mean, but again it is to the common logic and individual logic? I duno if I make sense. Like for example, eating someone might be bad for me but not for others. But also, it might be good for me but bad to society. And no I didn't mean psychology as a person, I meant the "idea" or psychology. (I cannot express my self very easy in a foreign language, sorry…)

but there are long lasting relationships between guys of course. it's just that they do not have a love life anymore…

i'm a men and i'm attractted with both men and women fisically, romantically only with women. I suppose that's my definition of bisex

;D

Fuck labels. What porn you watch when you masturbate is a good gay test. Enjoy sex in all its forms

It seems like some people has had some success with nipple suction cups to increase the size and sensitivity.. read these forum posts from arenas (https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/11524/nipple-stimulation/p2) J

Fingered myself?  Sure.  Tried putting anything that wasn't firmly tied down in there?  I don't know what the kitchen sink has been saying but I do have certain limits.

@saivron: Definitely eyes closed for sure. I find kissing open eyed is creepy…. This.

Just because someone doesn't find black people attractive doesn't not make people racist.  If you want people to respect your preferences, than respect theirs.  The phenomenon of liking people within your own race is nothing new, weird or mean spirited.

I'm not going to even touch that one.  I would just try to forget about the "mentor."  Mentor's shouldn't be fucking the people involved with th ones they're helping.  Not in my humble opinion anyway.  There are tons of other hot fish in the sea to play with rather than getting yourself into an even muddier situation.  Do you really care about this guy?  Stay away from the horizontal mambo with the hot mentor and figure things out with your boy friend first.  Then if it doesn't pan out, spread your fins and find another (hopefully more stable) fish.  Just my humble opinion.

There are lubes that have MINOR muscle relaxants in them which can help but you must use a condom or they ten to make the guy penetrating go flat plenty of lube also remember your average dildo or but plug is harder/firmer than a dick even a rock hard dick has give. also cheap dildos use a condom over them because the tend to have imperfections which can cause scratching similar to fingernails. go slow make it easy and by yourself do something that makes you really horny or pulls you out of your mind a bit alcohol (small amounts get you to tipsy or auto-erotic asphyxiation or go on a HARD LONG run) help in the beginning they take away a lot of the apprehension that can cause tensing and tightness make sure to masturbate while your using the dildo or but plug or your fingers the first time. Douching not in the shower but with a bulb is a great way to train your muscle to relax and tense on command also helps loosen you and get used to the feeling of something inside you USE WARM water cold is a fucking shock and quite frankly AWEFUL. Now as far as soap goes if you use any you don't have to make sure its an enema soap as regular can dry out the mucous membranes and make it itch dry and painful. small vibrators help to loosen you up in the beginning. Do not use a numbing agent like anal ease until you are aware of your limits afterwards use at your discretion. Porn or hell  your favorite tv show with hot guys can distract you and allow you to do the initial penetration and discomfort without issue.

because when they unleash their desires you can get the best wild sex ever

I only use skype for talking to my friends. I don't do anything sexually on skype. its just weird, but i enjoy seeing other people do though. lol

Well, I don't like it, but I had a crush on this guy, and all I wanted was to see him as a cross dresser. I thinks there's excessions haha