@pornofan: There is nothing more exciting than hot, fresh cum directly deposited and used for a second breeding. Amen!

I always try to keep an open mind… There's no harm in getting to know him better and seeing if it goes anywhere, right?

Thanks for sharing your story and please don't lose faith.

My suggestion would be to start with fingering yourself. Make sure to use lots of lube as the initial friction of the finger may cause some initial discomfort. Before you begin though, it is important to make sure that your finger nails are very short. I would also recommend the use of a non-latex glove (surgical glove) for a few reasons. One of the biggest reasons is that finger nails (especially when they're longer) can cause a cutting sensation when they brush against your insides the wrong way. If they have an end or a corner that is not completely smoothed out or has a little bit of a point to it, this can even cause scratching on the lining of your insides, especially if you have never inserted anything in there before). The other big reason is because between the under sides of your finger nails as well as any small cuts or nicks you may have in your hands, bacteria (and if you're not clean back there, potentially E Coli) can linger can get under there and either fester or possibly lead to infection. In both cases, a glove will prevent this from happening, similar to the way that a condom prevents the spread of STD's. When you do start, I would recommend using a lot of lube. If you want to keep your lube supply more discreet for some reason, I would recommend Crisco. It is one of the top choices among the fisting community, but certainly is not the only option available. Start out with one finger and start to get a feel what feels pleasurable and where the spots are that you get a rise from. As you find them and get comfortable going with one finger, start adding more, one finger at a time. As an experienced fister, I can tell you that one of the keys to working it in is to turn your hand as you do it. For some people, going in like a cork screw is best, but others seem to respond better to pushing it in, holding it at a certain distance, then turning the hand/finger slowly. You may also find that just wiggling your finger a little and/or bending it slightly after it is in will help to reach some of your sensitive spots. This can also be helpful at relaxing yourself to allow your muscles to "open up" as it were. When you get comfortable with 2 or 3 fingers, you may want to try upgrading to a small dildo or other such toy. Depending on how you respond to the fingers, I would recommend starting with something that is not too thick. Remember… Initially, the goal you're going to want to reach is to be able to fit a penis in there, so I would recommend looking for a toy that is about as thick around as an average penis, without being too small. I would also recommend that you be very careful if the length that you can insert is more than about 5 - 6", as that generally seems to be the point where your insides begin to bend inside of you. Depending on your body, this is the point where you will either feel a little bit of discomfort or even a mild pain deep within, OR, in my case, is the point where all of the sudden it starts to feel real good. Before you begin with the dildo though, I would strongly recommend working some lube up inside there with your fingers for two reasons. The first is that it will help your muscles relax to be able to be more accommodating for the dildo/toy, and the other is because the added friction inside of you can cause a sharp pain (almost like the feel of cutting yourself) or even cause small tears in your linings to occur, especially if you are a cherry pop virgin. With all of this being said, remember to take it slowly at first and work yourself up gradually as you are comfortable with it. You may experience points where the feeling may get a little too intense. If this happens, your best bet the first few times is to ease back just a touch to just before that feeling becomes overwhelming, relax, then slowly experiment with turning or wiggling your finger to find where your pleasurable spots are that will help you relax and open up. After all, you want this to be a pleasurable experience, rather than one that will cause you harm, even if it is only a small "flesh wound" for lack of a better term. EDIT: I forgot to mention one thing… If you like the sensations that you can bring on (especially when you hit the prostate), you can work your way up gradually. If you choose to go far enough, I will tell you now that if you start going with all 4 fingers in and the thumb tucked under your fingers (pointed in the same way your fingers are), you will experience an interesting sensation that will almost feel like a block once you hit the knuckles. There is a way to get past this if you choose to go farther, but it will take some time and work. If you want to know more about how to get past this point and the things you can do once you do, let me know. I would be more than happy to give you some tips.

Taboi. Thank you. Interesting and informative and helpful. You sound like good fun for anyone fortunate enough to meet up with you, a man of experience who is not solely interested in himself, but who cares about his partner(s). And it is a useful contribution to the topic of what people do. Obviously, everyone is different. It may not take all kinds, but we Have all kinds. Finding out what some of those active men like to do is also, I think, important. These things can now be talked about, and I think it is a Good Thing that people like you take the time and trouble to contribute.

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42% pure: Somewhat Debacherous 

40dayes

Because each sexual experiments were with the elderly I can not answer

@zomboise: well, it's always a good thing learning something new, I had just a partner older than me, my first time, he was 19, I was 14 (just 5 years, but at that age, I mean, for me he was the one that live the life and "knows") since then I always looked for someone quite my age, I am boringly normal I guess… good for you But the love of the elderly has its own sweetness

Life in the United States[edit] Christopher Isherwood (left) and W. H. Auden (right), photographed by Carl Van Vechten, 1939 Don Bachardy at nineteen (1954), photographed by Carl Van Vechten While living in Hollywood, California, Isherwood befriended Truman Capote, an up-and-coming young writer who would be influenced by Isherwood's Berlin Stories, most specifically in the traces of the story "Sally Bowles" that surface in Capote's famed novella, Breakfast at Tiffany's.[14] Isherwood also had a close friendship with the British writer, Aldous Huxley, with whom he sometimes collaborated.[15] Isherwood also befriend Dodie Smith, a British novelist and playwright who had also moved to California, and who became one of the few people to whom Isherwood showed his work in progress.[16] Isherwood considered becoming an American citizen in 1945 but balked at taking an oath that included the statement that he would defend the country. The next year he applied for citizenship and answered questions honestly, saying he would accept non-combatant duties like loading ships with food. The fact that he had volunteered for service with the Medical Corps helped as well. At the naturalization ceremony, he found he was required to swear to defend the nation and decided to take the oath since he had already stated his objections and reservations. He became an American citizen on 8 November 1946.[17] He began living with the photographer William "Bill" Caskey. In 1947, the two traveled to South America. Isherwood wrote the prose and Caskey took the photographs for a 1949 book about their journey entitled The Condor and the Cows. On Valentine's Day 1953, at the age of 48, he met teenaged Don Bachardy among a group of friends on the beach at Santa Monica. Reports of Bachardy's age at the time vary, but Bachardy later said, "At the time I was, probably, 16."[18] In fact, Bachardy was 18. Despite the age difference, this meeting began a partnership that, though interrupted by affairs and separations, continued until the end of Isherwood's life.[19] During the early months of their affair, Isherwood finished—and Bachardy typed—the novel on which he had worked for some years, The World in the Evening (1954). Isherwood also taught a course on modern English literature at Los Angeles State College (now California State University, Los Angeles) for several years during the 1950s and early 1960s. The 30-year age difference between Isherwood and Bachardy raised eyebrows at the time, with Bachardy, in his own words, "regarded as a sort of child prostitute,"[20] but the two became a well-known and well-established couple in Southern Californian society with many Hollywood friends. Down There on a Visit, a novel published in 1962, comprised four related stories that overlap the period covered in his Berlin stories. In the opinion of many reviewers, Isherwood's finest achievement was his 1964 novel A Single Man, that depicted a day in the life of George, a middle-aged, gay Englishman who is a professor at a Los Angeles university. During 1964 Isherwood collaborated with American writer Terry Southern on the screenplay for the Tony Richardson film adaptation of The Loved One, Evelyn Waugh's caustic satire on the American funeral industry. Isherwood and Bachardy lived together in Santa Monica for the rest of Isherwood's life. Bachardy became a successful artist with an independent reputation, and his portraits of the dying Isherwood became well known after Isherwood's death.[21] Isherwood died at age 81 in 1986 in Santa Monica, California from prostate cancer. His body was donated to the UCLA Medical School.[22]

Yes there is a right way, for a start it's a "handy jay" and once I learned I could charge for my angry ones money was never again an issue.

@harryme: First someone accused me of posting to get points which you are allowed to. It is in the rules how you're able to get points. There is no rule where I can't post 100 posts at one time You are absolutely right, you haven't haven't really broken any written rules but you risk getting reported for spam. But on a practical note, the catch-up for recent forum posts is limited to 10 pages. If you post 100 posts  in this forum and then someone else posts 100 in Jokes, say, that soon uses the 10 page limit. So when someone comes to check recent posts they hit the 10 page mark before they hit the point where their new posts review starts OK, there are other ways of trying to catch up but they are not as simple. And there is NEVER a reason for anyone to post 90-100 forum posts in a short space of time. It's called being considerate.

Cuddle.. just stare at each other.. no words necessary

With…him. But sadly, he is under the spell of a witch for over a decade. Anyway… the most romantic sex scene which i would wanted to live with him is the one from Gone But Not Forgotten.

I can't write in Italian, but surprisingly, I can understand it perfectly! hahah Well… I'm all for honesty. Maybe you should tell her you are bi and express your will of having male partners. On the other hand, that's something that should have had taken place right at the begining of the relationtip... which means that telling now can be problematic. I don't know what kind of chic is your wife... maybe she's open minded... maybe she's not. Life is full of possibilities and diversity. What I mean by that is that this question has no right answer. It will depend on the nature of your relationship, of your wife's way of seeing the world, with how much you care for your marriage, etc. Unfortunatelly, you will have to be your own judge.

@MrMazda: I did back in 2007… At first I thought it to be the biggest mistake that I have ever made, but little did I know that a few years later, it would turn out that getting married was a blessing in disguise.... Long story made short, when my name got dragged through the mud over something that I didn't do, it wasn't my last name that was associated with it, so people that I've known since before I got married never made the connection, since they all knew me under my original birth name. Instead of my family being the target of the harassment that ensued after everything went down, it was my ex-husband's family that got the brunt of it :lolp: Just shakes his head and walks away.