Thank you guys, I'll have a good conversation with him.

I am definitely in the middle!

@BDEinz: Mine was pretty lame. I made a post in a site that's similar to craigslist, and said I was looking for guys that were into bondage. I got a few replies and they gave me their emails so we could chat in windows messenger. Most of them didn't know what bondage was (I live in Mexico), and others added me so they could fuck me. Eventually I found a guy that seemed kinda cool. He asked me if I wanted to meet him, and I invited him over to my house. I still lived with my parents back then, so he was just going to come over, we would chat for a bit, and then he would leave. He arrived at around 10pm. My father was in his room sleeping, and my mother was out. I invited to my room, he sat on my bed, and the first thing he did was grab my dick through my pants. That really caught me off guard. He then asked me if I liked that, and I just said yeah. He then got up and we made out. A few minutes later he told he wanted to fuck me. I told him that my father was in his room, and my mom could arrive any minute now, but he just said that it would be quick. I was curious about how it felt to be fucked by a man, so I said yes. He fucked on my bed, and he came on my chest. I honestly didn't feel much. It wasn't painful, but I didn't really felt any pleasure. He gave me a handjob after that, but I couldn't come. I told him I'd do it by myself later, and then he left. I wouldn't be able to operate if i knew that my parents were in house, even sleeping.

Love this!

i would not do it, not because he is straight, but because he is cheating

@Minerboh80: It's still sounding scary! Less scary than sounding ….. 

I talk to them about banging girls or point out girls walking by if they wear something revealing etc, so that: a. I get turned off by all the mention of vagina. b. It maintains my straight cover and I can continue peeking at their cocks/plumbers crack c. It gets them turned on so if they're not getting any and are the slightest bit bi-curious they might be willing to fool around (this has only happened with one guy) I'm not saying this is healthy or a good idea, it's just what I do and it works out okay with most of the time and worked out extremely well once. It helps if you know the guys specific preferences so you can point out specific girls or tailor conversations to hit specific key points and horn them up.

Sounds like you're gay to me. You can still have a family while being gay, you know.  You could even get a female surrogate to have your child–or you could adopt.  There are many children already in the world who need a home.

Kissing might help understand your partner better.

Dude, don't worry… I'm 19 too, and i can say to you that everyone have their time. I was devasted when i'm 18, because i was virgin, and i felt horrible, because all my friends (straight, and i'm still today discrete) had girlfriends or a active sex life. I was shy too and i lived in a small city. One day, I traveled to pass a week in another city in a friends house. He went to work all day long, so i decided to walk around and meet people. I met an older guy (he is 32), a very nice person, via chat. I said to him that i'm intrested in sex, and he asked me to went into his house. I was terrified, i was like: omg he'll kidnap and kill me. But when i met him personally, it wasn't so bad. I had an awesome sex, omg... I went into heavens. I realised that fuck loose virginity early or after. I was ready for it, the sex doesn't happen with one person, you know that you're prepared when you have the right time and the right person, or any person inclined to it. You feel ready and he or she wants? go for it

I think its one of those situations like, all terriers are dogs but not all dogs are terriers. Being on the dl could mean their closeted, or it could mean they are in a relationship, or don't want friends to know about their promiscuity, or even used as a way to heighten fantasy elements.

Mostly a Top nowadays used to love playing the bottom role, but somewhere along the way guys just stopped being able to please me that way. I guess it's all part of getting older

Im still do believe in true love

what sort of risk do you mean. Like the risk of bruising from the pressure, from suffocation or from eating ass for so long?  :cheesy2:

@rickydrexel: @bear1515: It's because many people attribute it as being a thing that women do. That's why there is that stupid thing: The woman of the relationship. Its just a extremely stupid concept that many people still use. I really hate that, but I don't feel like the gay community has made it any better by accepting this. I hate when guys refer to their assholes as "pussy"!! But you hear it in porn, and all over the gay community. There's nothing attractive about that. Indeed!  I was once in a scene where one of the guys kept going on about my "pussy".  At the first use of it, I excused myself for a couple minutes, second use of it I corrected him & third use of it I was out of there. Also, real men take it up the ass!

It can depend on the situation and especially who you're with, I have managed 5 times in 5 hours with the right man in the right mental space, other times it's once and that's it for hours Take life as it comes