Yes there is a right way, for a start it's a "handy jay" and once I learned I could charge for my angry ones money was never again an issue.

@harryme: First someone accused me of posting to get points which you are allowed to. It is in the rules how you're able to get points. There is no rule where I can't post 100 posts at one time You are absolutely right, you haven't haven't really broken any written rules but you risk getting reported for spam. But on a practical note, the catch-up for recent forum posts is limited to 10 pages. If you post 100 posts  in this forum and then someone else posts 100 in Jokes, say, that soon uses the 10 page limit. So when someone comes to check recent posts they hit the 10 page mark before they hit the point where their new posts review starts OK, there are other ways of trying to catch up but they are not as simple. And there is NEVER a reason for anyone to post 90-100 forum posts in a short space of time. It's called being considerate.

Cuddle.. just stare at each other.. no words necessary

With…him. But sadly, he is under the spell of a witch for over a decade. Anyway… the most romantic sex scene which i would wanted to live with him is the one from Gone But Not Forgotten.

I can't write in Italian, but surprisingly, I can understand it perfectly! hahah Well… I'm all for honesty. Maybe you should tell her you are bi and express your will of having male partners. On the other hand, that's something that should have had taken place right at the begining of the relationtip... which means that telling now can be problematic. I don't know what kind of chic is your wife... maybe she's open minded... maybe she's not. Life is full of possibilities and diversity. What I mean by that is that this question has no right answer. It will depend on the nature of your relationship, of your wife's way of seeing the world, with how much you care for your marriage, etc. Unfortunatelly, you will have to be your own judge.

@MrMazda: I did back in 2007… At first I thought it to be the biggest mistake that I have ever made, but little did I know that a few years later, it would turn out that getting married was a blessing in disguise.... Long story made short, when my name got dragged through the mud over something that I didn't do, it wasn't my last name that was associated with it, so people that I've known since before I got married never made the connection, since they all knew me under my original birth name. Instead of my family being the target of the harassment that ensued after everything went down, it was my ex-husband's family that got the brunt of it :lolp: Just shakes his head and walks away.

My most obvious guess is that maybe the partner tells that because some guys find bottom virgins a turn on.

@hhsq: kumar777, I am quite shocked by some things you are saying about fems and flamboyance. But I'm trying to be understandful. Here is a piece of advice, if you are open to it, of course - which I belive, you may be -: work on your judgements. Think about them. Think about how they could aply to you and hurt you. Think about how they are directed thowards people who feel, who suffer, who laugh, who are people, like everyone else. Empathy, I believe, is the right word for it, and the right thing to pursue. Besides, those people don't shame the gay movement, they don't make it feel weaker. Femininity is not a synonym for weakness. The sheer fact that they are men who act in a feminine way in a super conservative country makes them VERY strong! Think about that! Apart from that, I wish you luck on dealing with your dificulties. We all here, in one way or another, have our dificulties, no matter where in the World we are. You are right. It is so wrong of me to label people so easily. Its their way of life and I should respect it

In my case, I had a lot of extra wool available at my disposal, so I took to making my own custom creations as a valentine's gift because much like you, I am flat broke this Valentine's day.

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@harryme: Watching Fifty Shades of Grey? or? My boyfriend have birthday on 14.02! We make romantic party with friends! :love:

**I travel quite a lot.. :plane:**

Very much so… It's a much more pleasant sensation than the feeling of teeth.

@chatnoire: … but I straight act (as in I don't sway every now and then, if you know what I mean). I don't know what you mean but then again I am proudly a gay being!  Also in bed, naked where I am most gay & it is the moist important I take it up the ass like a man as well as stuff it into my partner's ass like he is a man (unless we are role playing but even then it's usually man to man). Tell me more about this "acting" straight.  Wouldn't you be more comfortable just being your self?  I know I am. Next time your at the Statue of Liberty pull the fire alarm and watch how she lights up.  It's like I always mince at the stupid breeders who yell "Fag" as they drive by my friends and me, I do, first I spit, then I mince out a "Was it my lisp that gave me away?"  Then, whenever we get where we going the first thing we do is hand out awards for the best actors but girl with those hips ain't no one buying that act, uh huh.

Well maybe the guy has just gotten out of a relationship and you were signaling you might want to get serious so he bailed (my opinion). I myself met my man on Manjam (even worse place to look for genuine relationship) but I got lucky and we've been together for going 3 years now. Online dating is not all bad, though most of the time, it is.