Reminds me of the two gay guys who went to the zoo one day. As they are admiring the animals, one of them notices the gorilla. "Oh", he says. "just look at that magnificent beast. I've always wanted a man like that to give me everything I've always wanted". The gorilla hears this and pulls him into the enclosure and gives him everything he's always wanted. Three weeks later when he has been let out of intensive care, his friend visits him and asks "Are you hurt"? "Hurt!" the injured party exclaims. "He hasn't written, he hasn't visited, he hasn't sent flowers…...".

When I was a TOTAL PIG, and before the days of the dreaded disease, the Orgy rooms of the Thermos Night Sauna, and the Cockring Club in Amsterdam. I'd be there until throwing out time, blinking into the sunlight.

Yes once. 1. A retired Ballet dancer (sorry no name), retired about 15 years at the time. No need to out him as he is very out, in fact I'd say he was never in. LOL 2. We were both staying at a friends place. He for two weeks , myself for two nights, separate but connecting bedrooms, Bathroom in between. First night before retiring for bed, he made it pretty obvious that he was interested. I left my connecting door ajar, and he took the chance to come into my room. Of course I was naked on top of the bed. 3. He took off his gown, to reveal a fantastic dancers body, and a very hard thick lengthy dick. slid onto my bed, kissed and fondled me. He didn't have to get me hard. wonderful skin and amazing tone. plenty of sucking muscle play, rimming (fantastically muscled and tight butt), requests from him for me to do things, and a long session of horizontal jogging in various positions around the bedroom for about 2 hours plus. Tidied up my bed and we slept until woken up by our host, who knew we were together as he tried the dancers door first and had no reply. Showered together, dressed separately, and went downstairs for breakfast to be called sluts by our host. 4. Yes we repeated the next night, but without the bother of having to leave the door unlocked. Never met him after that, but I hear from my friend that the dancer occasionally asks after me, and that he is in a great relationship. This was in the late 80's btw.

I was with a guy, when he called the asshole "boy pussy". The sex stopped immediately because that term is about as bizarre as anything else.

I agreee with you on this. Should be very careful nowadays. I always try to pose as that too. As I told someone and everybody knows where I am. So I kinda get the idea of using something like this. But not during a day lol. The worst that happened to me was guy not coming lol. But the danger is there and it's real.I didn't have a situation like you but been with guys alone of course. Sometimes it could've been a trap or something so I'm always suspicious but what saves me too probably is that I'm also very cocky. If someone is like "what if I tried to kill you" I'm like "you can TRY, but you don't wanna see what happens".

No but I was close to try with one of his acquaintances. My family and friends were drinking at a place and my family decided it was time to go home. I decided to stay with my friends and the rest of the people there and this man told me he could take me home later. He was married and in his late 40s and I was 18. I thought he was really hot, every time he greeted me by hand shake. My dick would awake. His arms are big and hairy with big hands. And his handshake is strong. His chest is so hairy too. When it was time to take us home he took some of my friends and I for a ride and then drop them off first and me at the end. When we were alone on our way to drop me off, he said he wanted to buy some more beer and if it was ok to go there first. He bought them and asked me if I wanted one and open one for himself. I said yes of course. Then we had more beers and went for a ride listening to music, talking and stuff. Then he started talking about sex and my dick got hard. It was about women but still. Then he asked me if I had a girlfriend and I said no. And then he goes, How long has it been since you had sex? and I was like oh not too long ago. Then he says he hasn't for a few months and that he is tired of his wife and wants fresh meat but it's hard to find girls who wouldn't cause trouble with his family. I wanted to say what about some gay guy out there, they are pretty slutty. But I couldn't, I was so afraid of a remote possibility that I was seeing things wrong back then. I just said oh I see and swallowed some saliva. I was so horny but I couldn't talk much. We then stopped by for more beer and then he says It looks like piss, did you know some people drink piss? it's supposed to be therapeutic. Then he goes have you ever tasted it before? Then I said oh no that so disgusting. In my mind I wanted to say No but if it's yours I'm happy to do it. Then when we were getting home he stopped to car to pee and then he peed right beside me on the passenger side. I could see his big wet semi hard uncut cock peeing. I wanted so bad to get out and suck it, but I couldn't. I was terrified. He then drop me off and I jerked off thinking about him all night. I still do sometimes. I recently saw him on a grocery store wearing shorts, sandals and wife-beater with his family. I could see his hairy big body, I pictured his big uncut cock under those shorts. I got so turned on. He is in his late 50s now but looks amazing I sort of regret I didn't do anything back then because it's pretty obvious to me that he wanted sex.

That sucks. I get it. It seems to me like you both saw the relationship differently. No matter how perfect he might be, if he didn't like the relationship, it's over. Mourn the loss and get better, because becoming more obsessed will only push him further and hurt you in the process. It's better to see that someone is not for you sooner than later. I also think it's natural for us to get lost in a hopeful dreamy future. But I think it's a good idea to keep ourselves in check about the reality of our relationships. Sometimes our desire to love someone is projected on someone who has nothing to do with that love, which might feel weird for some people. I think some people might perceive an affection that isn't in sync with the relationship as unbalanced and might scare them away. Being closer to the reality of our relationships is pragmatic, you can build a better organic relationship, don't scare people away and don't hurt yourself in the process. I understand that this isn't a come cry on my shoulders type of comment, but I really do get it and hope you feel better soon and learn from the process.

My boyfriend has a lot of pre-cum. It's like a constant drip. He uses that as our "lube," usually rubbing the head of his penis all over my hole. Finger me a bit, add some more pre-cum, and I'm good to go. He enters slowly, and my ass ends up dripping with pre before he's balls deep!

@warpaint: @AimlessThund: warpaint, I am sorry about your experience.  :hug2: That guy sounds really superficial. :blink: What if you for example gained or lost weight.. :crazy2: Would he have ended things because of that?  You are better of without him and people like him. I guess everyone is a bit superficial, but I don't understand how a "small" penis could be a deal-breaker. I could understand if it's a micropenis, but 15 cm is more than enough, especially if it has girth. Aww cute, thanks. I don't understand it either. Mine is a little over those 15 so not big, but I fucking love it. It could be bigger but at least I can fit it anywhere without lube and guys noticing I'm trying to fuck them hahaha. And I though this guy is a decent one… So it doesn't matter for you guys. But there is a lot of dudes on grindr who won't even talk to anything under 21 cm. This is so funny. At least I know who to block. I find that people have distorted perceptions when it comes to penis sizes.  :cheesy2: I bet most have not seen a 21 cm penis, since a lot of men are not completely honest about their size.  :blink: To be honest I don't understand why you would even want to talk to someone who only cares about penis size.  :crazy2: I mean.. That's such a limited way of thinking.  :cry2: There are more important things when it comes to a relationship.

@Mcjl: Like blow jobs are my thing. But hate when cum gets in my mouth. Is that weird ? It's not weird, it's just what you prefer. There's nothing wrong with that. You should only what you feel comfortable doing.  :cheesy2:

@hylas: I get the impression that it's hard for people to be monogamous, period. Gay or straight, in this or any other day and age. But if monogamy is what you desire, rock on with what works for you! I agree. This myth that only gay relationships struggle with cheating partners is damaging to our psyche. I hear all sorts of things about failed straight marriages, even in somewhat conservative communities.

I dont get outdoors sex. Unless its just the front porch or a balcony. Either way, inside and on a soft surface (bed, sofa, thick carpet, pillows etc) is the way to go for me. Cant be bothered to be… "adventurous".

I am a top only. My opinion is that being a top just means that you do not enjoy in any way to be penetrated, and only like to penetrate. Aside from that there are other preferences and behaviors that can be tied to being a top, but arent necessary. That includes not liking sucking dick, being dominant, being distant, not kissing and generally displaying a "straight" behavior. Until you get to the ultimate stereotype that combines all these. For me its a matter purely of biology. I have tried many times to be the receiver, with different guys but I just dont get any satisfaction mentally or physically. Even when it doesnt hurt, its boring me out. Sucking dick, I dont mind it but it also bores me out. Oh, and I do like to kiss of course. Its a big turn on. So yes you can be a top only.

Well… if you have this fetish, it sounds like you're the person who can answer this question?

If you are not really into one night and all that sh*t, I guess tinder is the most realiable one. They cannot upload nudes and even trying to get something quick does not work there so that would be my first choice to try something serious.

Have you ever seen some of the "porn" that's made expressly for women? I mean, the men are extremely fit and handsome, but the films can take 60 percent of the time on the "meeting," the "seduction," the somewhat endless kissing and caressing.  Then, the "cock shots" are done in hazy light, the the BJs and sex are nowhere near the, um, reality of gay OR straight sex, lol. So, maybe women who are just more "real sex"-positive are the ones who will watch your gay porn.

Wise words, US dude.   :cool2: Pot was a staple of my college days, but I didn't get laid (in a small town) with enough regularity to report on any pot-sex synergy. Anybody else enjoy a toke, followed by a poke?   

@Mcjl: I don't do well with ignorant people.  Use your words sweetie.  Maybe your dumb ? How do you cope with yourself then? Believing bisexuality is not a thing is extreme ignorant.