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The thing is, you used to watch porn, and watching porn makes you become selfish, you can please yourself without other help. I think you should stop watching porn for a while, and don't over fantasize what would you do with him. Go with the flow. You've found a great man, please hold on to him

Pre-cum, cum tastes nothing and sometimes smells like cigarrete (if your partner smokes)

I think the proper term is blueball?

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Vac-u-loc dildos/toys could solve your problem. Mount the base to the wall, bed post or whatever, then when you're in the mood, you can grab your favorite toy and add it to the base.

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It is so dependent on the material. I've got my own personal favorite words that sound degrading if used in public conversations, but turn me on amazingly in bed. That's how words should work…. I'm your horny little fucktoy/slut in bed, but in public we're friends and equals. Getting ahold of the right directions, that's a little harder. If you want something you aren't getting, ask for it in a lewd manner, such as "spread your legs and show me that tight little hole of yours", or "come over here and take advantage of my ass!" In the middle of sex,  I have trouble thinking of sexy talk. "Pound my,  umm, asshole... with your peepee!!!!!"

@mirko69: or XXY chromosome mutation :crazy2: Yes, but people with Klinefelter syndrome (XXY) are usually sterile, and since homosexuality requires two successive generations to have an effect, this would not be a factor.

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Interesting chart, except most of my straight friends (more than 10%) said they would prefer not seeing gay sex (male-male). Then again, saying what they prefer and actually meaning what they say are two different things. Still, I would not want to seduce my straight friends, even if they act as if they can be persuaded.

When I meet someone new and we start with oral sex, I always insist on a condom..

I say let people do what they want. It's common now days for married women to keep their maiden name. My nieces use both the surname of the father and their mother depending on the circles they move in. If some gay men want to adopt the name of their partner so be it. Maybe they can bring new meaning to the convention. Rather as a form a patriarchal submission, it might indicate a level of personal sublimation or alteration of a selfhood which is all about something else. It might mean many things including simply imitating an established convention but does it really matter ? The whole pincer movement of appropriating equal access to the marriage ceremony and it's status is in some sense a long called for levelling off of common ground. The initial focus isn't so much in diversifying it but simply in having access to it. I suspect we need to spend time with that for a bit without being so self concious. tzz

I wouldn't be too hard on yourself - you obviously want to move on. Real but not fatal abuse has an edge to it. It can be exciting and incredibly sexually charged. Seems like you've had a preference for receiving real abuse over 'managed' and 'consensual' abuse. The two are not really the same thing at all, the second is careful to remove the danger which the first thrives off. Moving into consensual and recreational abuse is really a hall mark of maturity and you most probably will thrive in such a crowd. You'll find it mixes the D thing you like with an ability to nurture respectful and loving open relationships. You could well meet the partner you seek in such a milieu. Occasionally i've ventured into such a world by attending nite clubs and theme nites. It works well as like tend to seek like. Generally a well adjusted lot. With some I found the s/m routines a bit cliche, dressie and lacking the verve of real abusive relationships. But with others i saw, largely through a like minded sense of understanding,  how there was a place I could go and negotiate some of my own rules safely. I did that for a while in Germany. it was quite addictive for a time - a new buzz - a lot of possibilities - but much more manageable than the quiet violent intimacy and personal devastation i experienced through passionately abusive affairs with head cases.

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No one really knows what you are going through. Remember it's not his fault that he is autistic, not to guilt yourself into staying, but to leave him the best way you know. No one should judge you for it. He is lucky to have you the last 3 years. Good Luck