:hehe: This may be the best Pick Up Line of all time!!!

We love cockrings  :cheers: I use a Metal Ring 2" and my husbear uses a Leather Strap with snaps for easy removal. We use them all the time just for fun but they do help with ED problems.

I do sincerelly hope people only do this with their trusted boyfriends or husbands, this said since I'm solo it's oral with a flavoured condom.

That's actually sort of helpful. I guess I'm not really the kind of guy who is grossed out by stuff, so that's a motivation I hadn't thought of. He does seem to have a low self image all around. I've noticed lately how much he puts himself down, etc. It bothers me. The rest just sounds like bad experiences, really. I'm just going to resolve to bring him good experiences and doing my best to get him to trust that 1) I respect him 2) I care about him too much to hurt him and 3) that I'm not interested in a sex slave but a true sex partner. Maybe then he'll open up his horizons with me. Thanks.

I've met boyfriend of 3y on manhunt, I guess you get what you're looking for. I find okcupid pretty interesting as well, even though most of the (gay) friends  I've made online came from specific social networks, like last.fm or goodreads.com  

@Amazonios: How do you react in situations like this? That spark that lights up, when you see some great looking stranger in the street?" Usually people do not want a person who wants them too badly too early that they'd be willing to approach them out of nowhere to say hello. Someone who does that risks being ignored, as the person being approached will believe it shows the person approaching them may be desperate, and that they should wait for someone better. It also shows the person being approached that this person approaching them may have their emotions too easily triggered by people (hence too easily triggerable by someone else). The contradiction involved in courtship— flaunting your desire while playing hard to get— is too-complicated a task for people passing on the sidewalk.

@leatherbear: When I was 5 years old I was the Ring Bearer in my cousins wedding. Ihihihihihihihihi Have you seen? t'was a sign of thy lord! Since those times your destiny was already written!! So repent yourself impudent and heretic plantigrade!!!!!  :pope: Butt, just a moment,  ??? written by whom/whut?  :hehe: Ok, like all the vigorous and handsome bears I'd say you were much more advanced than me. The thing I remember very well when I was 3/4 is my discovery of the noble wanking art. Have you seen? t'was a sign of thy lord too! My destiny was already written!! I had to become this blind, lustful, ignominous underground animal  :crazy2:. Nobody had to be closer to the divell than me etc. etc.!!!!! :pope: :hehe: Joking apart there were not at all things we could deem as sexual in the pleasant little games I played with that baby dick. It was one of the many discoveries concerning my body and, believe it or not, I don't even remember t'was a thing I did so often. I remember there were lotsa amusing things to do/make and when I seldom happened to feel bored there was always this opportunity. My problems of course started more or less at 11 together with my puberty. Suddenly my obedient dick had got undisciplined. He did on his own the things I needed my hand to do before. Obviously when I saw some more or less little male friends. How did he dare to do that on his own??!!!!!!! Breach of discipline!!!!  Insubordination!!!!!  :bithfight: ;D

thanks will give it a read and other tips for the newbie

If you don't like boring gay sex fims don't buy them, and the industry will take the quote and get real gay actors which actually enjoy the sex.

Well…I am looking for a young gay man who has a bisexual sister willing to do a threesome.

Very nice and well written LBC ^_^. So strongly molapproved. I was wondering though how many of the guys Mike has dated/dates/will date would be up to follow from the beginning to the end his own tale. Other authors have written about a nowadays visual (or eidetic) summarizing culture which,  ironically, would make outdated this very kind of communicative exercices you and me are mebbe still up to appreciate…

Trouble is good, when they come in nice packages. ;D

Dude, no matter what… USE LUBE! The micre-tears it can create internally can become an issue in the future... INSIST on it. If not, there are some lube caps, you put them inside your anus, and they will melt and lubricate your insides. You put 1 or 2 inside 20-40mins before going at it and he won't even notice it's lube. Here are some: hxxp://www.lubrin.nl/contents/en-uk/d4.html hxxp://www.shytobuy.co.uk/lube-in.html hxxp://www.condomsaustralia.com.au/wet-stuff-silicone-bodyglide-lubricants-capsules-p-1850.html I'm sure you'll get the idea... the rest is up to you.

My suggestion is that it's kind of like racism.  I personally reject racism because I'd rather take the effort to hate people as individuals instead. The reason you see them as clones is that while they may share some characteristics, you have yet to examine them closely enough to discern the differences.  I suspect that a little conversation could be just as helpful as genetic testing to expose them as distinct, unique individuals, and not clones.  Of course, they may be interchangeable in many areas, but I would consider it shallow to think of them as all the same. You will find the same sort of thing in many other environments, including, for example, sports bars, where the majority of the patrons are supporting the same team, often wearing the same team colours and uniforms, chanting the same slogans, and cheering in unison, as if they were synchronized robotic automatons. As far as "What's wrong with a regular bar", in many of them, you could be putting your life in danger if you kiss another fellow, or even do something as explicit as holding hands, or looking at each other the "wrong" way.  Some people find it enjoyable to be able to relax, and act on their feelings without having to self-censor every action, thought, and deed. Oh, and that uninhibited sex behind a building may be interpreted by law enforcement types as lewd conduct in a public area, which has the potential of getting you confined in a locked room (with walls, or bars), and they may not be terribly quick to react should some of the other people in said locked room choose to act in an uninhibited way that may or not have your consent.

The choices: With time, gay people will get more and more rights everywhere in the world. Gay rights will improve in most countries, but there will be a few places where gay rights will be denied. Nothing will change. Countries that respect gay rights will always do it, while countries that don't will never change their views. In the future the number of places that respect gay rights will be much smaller than the number of places that deny gay rights. The "Gay Rights" movement is just a thing of the moment. As some people become more open minded, the majority of people will become more violent towards gay people and will deny their rights. Choice # 5 is identical to choice # 4.  Choice # 1 appears to be just another way of describing choice # 2.  And choice # 3, which admits of a world where nothing changes ― is a counterfactual.

You need to find venues where you can meet other guys. He's not the only one out there who you could be "madly in love with". The good thing about "mad love" is that is usually burns itself out in time especially where there is not much chance of anything. So - activity groups, bars, or anyplace you can meet guys. None will compare to him at first but eventually someone will be there for you. It sounds a bit like a crush….

Good words Ballard 

if you're not too particular, get a pair of handcuffs, a ball gag (you know, something like a strip of rubber with a ball to put in his mouth and you tie the strip of rubber around his head) a small leather whip or maybe a small wooden paddle (ping pong rackets come to mind) hehehe. I'm not up for these things, though.  some guys are a bit more adventurous with the ropes and tying the hands to the feet then forcing your cock into him, but that's not for me. My most adventurous fantasy would involve a sling hehehe.