I've met boyfriend of 3y on manhunt, I guess you get what you're looking for. I find okcupid pretty interesting as well, even though most of the (gay) friends  I've made online came from specific social networks, like last.fm or goodreads.com  

@Amazonios: How do you react in situations like this? That spark that lights up, when you see some great looking stranger in the street?" Usually people do not want a person who wants them too badly too early that they'd be willing to approach them out of nowhere to say hello. Someone who does that risks being ignored, as the person being approached will believe it shows the person approaching them may be desperate, and that they should wait for someone better. It also shows the person being approached that this person approaching them may have their emotions too easily triggered by people (hence too easily triggerable by someone else). The contradiction involved in courtship— flaunting your desire while playing hard to get— is too-complicated a task for people passing on the sidewalk.

@leatherbear: When I was 5 years old I was the Ring Bearer in my cousins wedding. Ihihihihihihihihi Have you seen? t'was a sign of thy lord! Since those times your destiny was already written!! So repent yourself impudent and heretic plantigrade!!!!!  :pope: Butt, just a moment,  ??? written by whom/whut?  :hehe: Ok, like all the vigorous and handsome bears I'd say you were much more advanced than me. The thing I remember very well when I was 3/4 is my discovery of the noble wanking art. Have you seen? t'was a sign of thy lord too! My destiny was already written!! I had to become this blind, lustful, ignominous underground animal  :crazy2:. Nobody had to be closer to the divell than me etc. etc.!!!!! :pope: :hehe: Joking apart there were not at all things we could deem as sexual in the pleasant little games I played with that baby dick. It was one of the many discoveries concerning my body and, believe it or not, I don't even remember t'was a thing I did so often. I remember there were lotsa amusing things to do/make and when I seldom happened to feel bored there was always this opportunity. My problems of course started more or less at 11 together with my puberty. Suddenly my obedient dick had got undisciplined. He did on his own the things I needed my hand to do before. Obviously when I saw some more or less little male friends. How did he dare to do that on his own??!!!!!!! Breach of discipline!!!!  Insubordination!!!!!  :bithfight: ;D

thanks will give it a read and other tips for the newbie

If you don't like boring gay sex fims don't buy them, and the industry will take the quote and get real gay actors which actually enjoy the sex.

Well…I am looking for a young gay man who has a bisexual sister willing to do a threesome.

Very nice and well written LBC ^_^. So strongly molapproved. I was wondering though how many of the guys Mike has dated/dates/will date would be up to follow from the beginning to the end his own tale. Other authors have written about a nowadays visual (or eidetic) summarizing culture which,  ironically, would make outdated this very kind of communicative exercices you and me are mebbe still up to appreciate…

Trouble is good, when they come in nice packages. ;D

Dude, no matter what… USE LUBE! The micre-tears it can create internally can become an issue in the future... INSIST on it. If not, there are some lube caps, you put them inside your anus, and they will melt and lubricate your insides. You put 1 or 2 inside 20-40mins before going at it and he won't even notice it's lube. Here are some: hxxp://www.lubrin.nl/contents/en-uk/d4.html hxxp://www.shytobuy.co.uk/lube-in.html hxxp://www.condomsaustralia.com.au/wet-stuff-silicone-bodyglide-lubricants-capsules-p-1850.html I'm sure you'll get the idea... the rest is up to you.

My suggestion is that it's kind of like racism.  I personally reject racism because I'd rather take the effort to hate people as individuals instead. The reason you see them as clones is that while they may share some characteristics, you have yet to examine them closely enough to discern the differences.  I suspect that a little conversation could be just as helpful as genetic testing to expose them as distinct, unique individuals, and not clones.  Of course, they may be interchangeable in many areas, but I would consider it shallow to think of them as all the same. You will find the same sort of thing in many other environments, including, for example, sports bars, where the majority of the patrons are supporting the same team, often wearing the same team colours and uniforms, chanting the same slogans, and cheering in unison, as if they were synchronized robotic automatons. As far as "What's wrong with a regular bar", in many of them, you could be putting your life in danger if you kiss another fellow, or even do something as explicit as holding hands, or looking at each other the "wrong" way.  Some people find it enjoyable to be able to relax, and act on their feelings without having to self-censor every action, thought, and deed. Oh, and that uninhibited sex behind a building may be interpreted by law enforcement types as lewd conduct in a public area, which has the potential of getting you confined in a locked room (with walls, or bars), and they may not be terribly quick to react should some of the other people in said locked room choose to act in an uninhibited way that may or not have your consent.

The choices: With time, gay people will get more and more rights everywhere in the world. Gay rights will improve in most countries, but there will be a few places where gay rights will be denied. Nothing will change. Countries that respect gay rights will always do it, while countries that don't will never change their views. In the future the number of places that respect gay rights will be much smaller than the number of places that deny gay rights. The "Gay Rights" movement is just a thing of the moment. As some people become more open minded, the majority of people will become more violent towards gay people and will deny their rights. Choice # 5 is identical to choice # 4.  Choice # 1 appears to be just another way of describing choice # 2.  And choice # 3, which admits of a world where nothing changes ― is a counterfactual.

You need to find venues where you can meet other guys. He's not the only one out there who you could be "madly in love with". The good thing about "mad love" is that is usually burns itself out in time especially where there is not much chance of anything. So - activity groups, bars, or anyplace you can meet guys. None will compare to him at first but eventually someone will be there for you. It sounds a bit like a crush….

Good words Ballard 

if you're not too particular, get a pair of handcuffs, a ball gag (you know, something like a strip of rubber with a ball to put in his mouth and you tie the strip of rubber around his head) a small leather whip or maybe a small wooden paddle (ping pong rackets come to mind) hehehe. I'm not up for these things, though.  some guys are a bit more adventurous with the ropes and tying the hands to the feet then forcing your cock into him, but that's not for me. My most adventurous fantasy would involve a sling hehehe.

As there are no ages given in this scenario (and hopefully Toby is above the legal age of consent!) some guesswork is required. If Walt and Jon's friendship extends to them meeting each other's families and given that they have known each other for over 20 years, Walt could have known Toby as a child. That fact alone could have freaked Jon out. ilijah specifically asked if anyone was in the wrong. On the available info, I'd say Toby was. Why on earth would he want to tell his uncle that he'd been having sex with his uncle's friend

If you're pulling out before you cum and you do not cause any bleeding in the process, the chances of HIV transmission assuming that the person you're having contact with has a manageable Viral Load count are not very likely. Don't get me wrong though, it is still possible for transmission to occur, it's just not very likely. That all being said, even if you're in a partnered relationship, take it from someone who learned things the hard way, you still don't want to run that risk when you know the factor is there. The type of moral and mental strain that it puts on both the person who infected you by knowing what you're going through, as well as what it actually puts you through when you find out really isn't worth the risk. Did you know that in Canada, the cost of the medications required to stay alive (using my case as an example) is a whopping $1,533.53 Canadian every 30 days? When you do the math, that adds up to a price tag of $18,657.95 Canadian per year for the medications required to live. What's worse is that the average wage job with somewhat decent pay assuming that you work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, 50 weeks of the year, and get paid for 52 weeks of the year only adds up to $23,400 per year before taxes. That means that on the average, for someone that has managed to obtain a more "decent" paying job would only be left with some $266.46 per month (or $4742.05 per year) after paying for the medication you need to live. Such a task is simply impossible to do. Also keep in mind that these income figures are before taxes. On average, an income of $23,400 Canadian would only equate to approximately $18,500 Canadian after taxes, thereby effectively forcing you to either bite the bullet on expensive insurance that's at least substantially cheaper than the cost of the medications, or forcing you to resort to a disability pension to be able to cover your medication costs and provide you with a slap in the face by dropping you from a take home income of $18,500 Canadian per year after taxes to a mere $1053.00 Canadian per month in my case, for a now grand total income of $12,636 Canadian per month. Either way, it's a substantially life changing adjustment that one must make to accommodate for such a thing. While I'm on this topic, I'm not even going to get started on the issue of insurance companies either refusing coverage or terminating people's drug coverage for being HIV+. It's a sad thing to say, but it is a reality. Aside from the financial burden of the matter, it is commonly known that 95% of persons who become infected with HIV are diagnosed with depression with depression within 5 years of finding out their diagnosis. Of that 95% of the population, 90% of them would not have otherwise been diagnosed with depression. What's even more frightening is that 80% of persons who are diagnosed with HIV attempt suicide either as an initial reaction to their diagnosis, or generally shortly after diagnosis. It should also be noted that of the 80% who attempt suicide, 98% of such cases occur within the first year following diagnosis. I truly can't emphasize the importance of playing it safe enough. It's not just your own well being that you're taking into account, but it's likely also the mental state and well being of the person you catch it from if you know who they are. Those points as illustrated above in this post are only a few of the highlights of some of the things that you can learn about HIV in the textbooks. What they don't teach you however is what it's like to actually live with the virus, how it changes your body, making you adjust to a new "normal" as it were. In some cases it can cause weight gain or abnormal growth such as a hump on your back. Did you know that in some cases, you have may have to be reduced to Depends under pants because of the incontinence (literally) that can be caused as a result of the drugs that you need to live? For that matter, did you know that you can spend time on a semi-frequent basis getting well acquainted with the toilet as you're delivering the gospel according to puke so violently that people around you are wondering how in the hell you can still breathe or fit that much stuff into you? All I'm saying is if you choose to have such a practice, make sure you understand what it is that you truly are opening yourself to the possibility of. I am not saying that barebacking or that your way is "wrong", because what is right for one person may not be right for another. I just want you to truly understand what it is that you potentially open yourself up to by taking such an approach.

Not likely - they would have to be damn hot! Surprised so far I'm the only one voting that choice.

Heteros already have total acceptance. Sorry I don't feel I owe them anything and I'm not saying that unkindly. But I won't go out of my way to be nasty to them - for example if I see 2 heteros kissing in public I will be neutral about even ignore them. But don't expect me to smile at them though if I feel cheeky I may say "Can I join in?"..haha Equality is more a legal/political issue - well it effectively comes down to that. I don't think you can really give equality. But you can respect others regardless of their orientation. Your post is a little confusing.