@edwardgaming: if some one hook up so easily…it's not a safe choice........... the problem is to know how, when all you want is no strings attached

rubber;leather;beefcake get fucked,tied up…chained...control willingful...socks...

don't like it….have too much to prepare and usually get suffer

painful….but you can get used to it

i think it's the real life, most people do not want to have the any chance to get infected…so the best choice is to choose one in a same condition

any place have the chance get exposed..get caught

3-5a week

Sorry about your partner. I also have that kind of friend. He shares a lot, treats you nicely or "too close" like it was somehow weird since he is straight and I know that he knows that I'm gay. The one I cannot decipher in your story was when he uttered your name in a whisper. But honestly, I would pretty much feel the same as you do with the situations given that his actions were somehow inviting for a much deeper connection/relationship, although he might just have that attitude, or he sees you as a best friend material. I don't actually know what to think. I just avoid assuming since it is the very core of disappointments. Maybe it will help to be more open to possibilities but not investing on them emotionally.

@manojwilson: @eastonkellan: I like the "orgasm" face of the hunky guy…..he's gorgeous   True that…. I wish I could kiss him during the scene.. I wish I was the one giving him head….. :laugh:

This is really important! Did you repost it in the news and in the health sections too? Maybe it's a good idea!

Actually, it was I who did something like that once. This guy I know is really noob with his computer and needed to have it fixed. It was a really stupid thing, he clicked on every crap online and got his PC full of malwares and viruses and now pop-ups spawned everywhere and the machine was getting slower and slower. I told him I could make it as good as new - which I really could, it was a very easy fix - but he would have to let me suck his cock or give me some weed in return. He chose the blowjob, of course.

I think this kind of sexual evolution as we age is a lot more common (maybe normal, for people that fully explore their sexuality and allow themselves the harmless, daily joy of cumming, haha) than you may think. I'm in my early 30s now, but when I was just barely getting on the Internet at 17-18, the only thing that would turn me on were super fit, tanned bronze, flawless, gorgeous model-types. I would seek out porn and I'd basically be stuck with Bel Ami (incredibly hot to the younger version of myself), or Vivid entertainment or something. Oh, and um … I've been jerking off to both gay and straight porn for as long as I've been watching porn, so don't feel weird about it. What kind of imagery can get my motor running has changed since then, though. I totally get it. I never used to like scrawny little feminine twinks, but Staxus and Helix make some of my favorite scenes now. Probably my favorite type. Also, I used to be really really confused by "tranny" porn, allegedly made for straight guys, but I've since watched a few things along those lines and been really turned on. I always understood wanting to fuck a pussy, or a guy's ass, but for some reason a woman with both tits and a dick just seemed like "someone else's thing" for me, and then all of a sudden ... it was different. I dig the BBC (big black cock) interracial things too, a monster of a black cock penetrating a petite white partner (male or female). The imagery is intense, of course it's hot! There's a few scenes from Staxus that are gay but inspired by interracial white porn you should check out, if you're finding yourself like this. Also, look up the performer "Goldie" for the straight videos.

i'm top. And must confess that only have been with daddies few times! i'm more likely to feel atraction for young buddies but those who i've tryied were nice on bed, amazing bottoms and great company.

Mostly one night stander! But rarely find someone whose i'd like to invest. well, the short ones or the fast fuck and bye are the most interesting, NSA offers less risks and drama!

You don't need this motherfucker in your life. It's kkinda clear that your connection is emotional while his is just sexual, you can start looking at him as a sexual distraction or just move on..

it's permanent.

wow I love the replies in this thread and really took comfort in all that was said (my partner just dumped me) unfortunately, I have to agree that the gay scene is not so friendly and it seems almost a dream to meet anyone new after so long in a relationship - because I'm not young or thin and have imperfections.  I also don't dress trendily or feel like gossiping about other people's clothes I wish there was a gay hippy commune to run away to and live the simple life, but here in the city is chaotic and stressful I cling to the idea that we are all someone else's "cup of tea".. pretty much based on the reasoning that I have a taste in men that other people would probably find gross - so here's hoping someone else out there has the same ideation and wants some of me hehe

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