Thare are already a ton of topics on this very subject in this Forum, man…

u can cover  it by your lips

The intro article sounds like the author didn't appreciate that the other guy 'got dominant'. But he let him have his way anyway, because it was easier to just go along with it. More a maturity issue than anything else.

Inferiority complexes. People that purposely seek out risky sex in a receptive manner most likely despise themselves.

No I think animal rape is wrong.

@Latinuncut: I think this something related to open relationships. It's about the fact that many people want to hide under the mattress that fact that is very likely that you find other people attractive and you wish to have sex with them. People pretend to be in a monogamous relationship, because why to see the reality, and then go and cheat. If open relationships have the risk that someone will "steal" your boyfriend, at least porn won't.

It's about a compromise between partners. I prefer if we both are enjoying than somebody giving me what I want but not enjoying the moment. Also, if it's rough, I like it authentic not porn-like.

When it comes to married men. I mostly do married guys who are married to females and who initiate. Because I think they cheat for different reasons than gay men married with men do. Although I think people who cheat are not the worst people ever, people cheat for many reasons. However there are actual home wreckers out there who tell the the cheated person about it. That is purposely and decisively wrecking a relationship for the fun of it.  It hurts when someone you love cheats on you, but it's not the worst thing in the world. Also, it really depends on what about it makes it cheating. Loss of intimacy? Sex doesn't have to be intimate. STDs worrying? Punch on the ego? Of course the problem about fucking married guys is that you don't know what's really going on in their relationship. So why the trouble.

Sounding feels really crazy, but in a good way. I think the only word for it is "intense". I didn't actually start experimenting with it until after having to have a catheter put in once, which was both oddly exhilarating and unpleasant at the same time (the sour man-nurse who put it in was kind of rough about it). Prior to that, just the thought of sounding and catheters made me squeamish, but it's actually not that bad. I haven't done it in a while, but I used to go a bit crazy with it. I was kind of careless. I will spare you any gory details about it, though. Needless to say, I gave it a rest. It felt good enough that I could cum just "fucking" my urethra with a sound, but it wasn't really worth the stinging pain it caused shortly after while urinating. To tell you the truth, I kind of plateaued after a point where the sensation didn't feel quite so intense and amazing anymore. I basically got bored with it. It still feels good, and it can still make me cum, but I think the "novelty" of it wore off, so it's become less exciting for me. Either way, my urethra is fine… I do it very seldom now, but it's perfectly safe if you're careful and use the right kinds of sounds, lubricants and sanitary procedures.

Easy answer. When you see them on television in those tight hugging sports clothes, they've already worn those same clothes at least a 1000 times or more. It takes four to eight years in order to reach Olympic levels, if not longer. By the time all the cameras are pointed at them, they'll have become so accustomed to everyone looking at their junk, that they won't care that the audience has increased a thousandfold, as it's a non-factor in their mind. And athleticism itself changes how a guy deals with nudity. They're forced in so many situations with communal nudity, fast clothing changes and almost-nude physical examinations that they won't care after a period of time. Their nude form is just something that's part of life. And if some people enjoy the sight and become sexually interested, it's just a fringe benefit of their way of life.

If he harbours bisexual feelings it'll happen spontaneously and certainly not due to any overt 'seduction attempts' at your part. He already knows you're gay and single. If he has any ideas regarding the subject, he'll most likely take the initiative.

Wish I hadn't clicked on this thread.  :blink:

i'm not from a Chinese neighborhood. I'm from a place where they look up to white people. they cherish white skin people more. it beyond any race. they don't justify the beauty by the ethnicity, all they like prefer is a brighter toned people. well… for me it's different. when I was living in my town where my whole childhood passed ... I tend to like people from my place but the truth is I was always been fond to asian particularly chinese. Now I have moved to chines populated neighborhood and I feel like it's where I belong. I don't need to look to any other people even though this place has a residents of lot of different nationalities  :cheers: :cheers:

You mean have sex with them and not be in love? Or mutually fuck around with a friend on occasion to have fun? Those are different. Yes there are a ton of straight guys who hook up discretely via Grindr, Craigslist, BBRTS.com, etc. to get a blow job or bust a nut in a tight ass. Maybe they're girl won't do anal. Maybe he likes looking down upon a "fag" to degrade him or make him his bitch, somehow that domination gets some straight guys off. Maybe they're just super horny and haven't had any luck with girls when they need it so they try guys. SO MANY REASONS. Tricky subject. Not two minds of men are alike. I absolutely can't get hard or aroused to the thought of a girl, let alone a picture or physical encounter. VERY repulsive actually. If you are asking if you can fuck someone and not develop feelings for them, that's another story. If you have a really close friend fucking them will most likely make it awkward. If it's their first time or your first time, people tend to develop feelings for their first. Or if they make you have an ultra intense orgasm. I wonder how many straight guys have a gay friend they casually fuck around with on occasion and don't let their experiences and secrets cause problems. That's how porn is depicted. Especially hidden cam anonymous hookup clips. Or roommates.  I personally don't think if the guy can be entirely straight if he's messing around with another dude. Just as I can't mess around with chicks due to the intense repulsion. Seriously pussy looks like a crime scene/ axe wound and wouldn't be surprised if they had retractable teeth. I can't even stand the word.

All has been said. Just make sure he doesn't have STDs. Nope, you're not pathetic. I'm a virgin too. Just saying haha

before…I am too sleepy in the mornings