I wouldn't tell him, I would show him how you like to be kissed…make it a game. make him do as you say. hopefully he will pick up on it without being criticized...when you start criticizing in the bedroom...can be a bad thing

slim to none

I find this "style" can help build…say if you are texting with a friend about sex all day...your cock gets hard in your pants...lots of precum...over and over and over all day...until release sometime that night. great builder and similar and I do it all the time

online

lights (almost) off

nope

poppers are awesome… for head, for fucking...mmmm

what's morning sex?! night!

Anonymously or meeting up with someone for some fun? If anonymously, your best bet is an adult bookstore with video booths or, if your area has one, a bathhouse. If you are strictly looking to meet up with someone you know, I'd try a forested/wooded area, backseat of a car or a private beach area.

if the bottom is open enough, then yes….you can put a hand in or two...so you could get your balls in with enough effort

For jerking off? either his cum or Gun Oil Force Recon (it's a blend)

Outdoor

@jdo143: J-Lube? Ive got some of this and its the best ever. Me and my other half played about with it in an empty paddling pool once (just to try it out as an experiment of slippy sex) and it was so funny we couldn't stop laughing. We couldn't stand up, you cant grab anything we just couldn't do anything for slipping about all over the place and laughing. J-lube + pvc/plastic are a NO NO unless you like that kind of thing. It really is the most slippery lube I've ever used.

I've tasted myself on several occasions and have had another guy cum in my mouth once. It is definitely an acquired taste and not something I can say I enjoy by any means

a dick?  ;D

He's gay and that's a plus  ;D

@Ellis: was a guy who ended up being what I’ve termed as my “live and die guy”–the one I live for, and the one I’d die for, the one who continues to put up with me and my shit, and has always been there for me since we got together in 1982. Thats mine right there. I'm still seeing the guy and I should know better but he moved on and found another boyfriend. I still slept with him knowing he had another boyfriend. I guess it's easier being the guy who isn't being cheated on. I've been asked by guys for sex, who cheating on their boyfriends, and I can easily say no. But with my ex, I can't say no to him.