@Gianni89: One way attractions never work out well, forget him, delete his info so you aren't tempted to even try because trust you are only going to hate yourself later. Find a new tutor, pay for this one, at least you won't get sidetracked. Never make anyone a priority in your life when you remain a mere option in theirs. Jesus, I'm Ann Landers. :afr: I agree with Ann Landers.

I am wondering why you think you are going to be relegated to sex toys. A few years ago while I was in grad school I rented a flat from an older guy, say 60 ish. He was good looking, a few extra pounds - sort of average but very pleasant company. The guy was getting more dick than any five hot twinks I knew! He found a "groove" as it were. At the time, he posted on Craigslist for anon married guys - no strings hook ups. DUDE! Seriously, he was getting pounded some times three times a day. No exaggeration. He also had a bevy of first time teens who had daddy issues - my point is - maybe you are tossing in the towel a bit prematurely? Sex toys are fun I suppose, but hardly a replacement for a hot human. But if you are intent on such things - there are a lot of vids on Pornub https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5604d294c292d with guys loosing their shit on chatterbate, I think it's called Ohmibod?  They seem to really REALLY love it. Nipple thing - not sure.

@grasslandman: for me, the sound of pelvis hit together and my ball shake makes me easier to have orgasm. even sometimes only touch my testis can make me cumming. how about you? Its same for me!!!

My husband and i are having a activ sexlife. It seldom i use my cock to jerk off (Im Bottom in our relationship) but i often (3-4 times in week) use my trusty dildos and cum hands free

What do you mean?

My husband and I can speak openly about everything. And we like to explore both of our respective roles as Top and Bottom. It's me who's Bottom. We have done almost everything except scat.

I love then my husband tie me up.

I Have several dildos, but my favourite is 17 cm long and ordinary girth..

@horkheimer89: I have two safewords. the first is Pumpkin Patch and the second is Weltschmerz. I can only imagine how easy it is to scream Weltschmerz  :funny2: :cheers:

I'm attracted to masculine people with a penis so the answer is no!

I think when someone needs to jack off 5 times a day that could be a problem, but if you jack off once a day off of porn then it is normal. You are just filling the gaps ;D

Over the years, I have seen adverts or reviews of multiple kits to cast a mould of your willy at home.  However, as I have not used any or even seen one in person, I cannot offer any useful information.

you can start by rimiing them, relaxing the asshole, and if you're too big you can finger him to star loosening the ass, go to like 2 or 3 finger slowly. And let the bottom choose the position he wants to star with and go slowly, for me when i'm bout to get fucked by a hung guy i prefer to start on top sitting and going slow until he can star thrusting hard

probably because you now have more energy and self-confidence.

Remember that there will be a balance where the three of you will play together, sometimes you will be the star of the show sometimes the other two will me more into each other at a certain time, just accept that threesomes have their own dynamic. I find that taking time and playing for a long time help because all participants can drift in and off the threesome

@junior: A US Chemist who makes his own formulations   http://www.uspopshop.com/ Are you still ordering from USPopShop? The last two or three orders have been duds. I can understand getting a bad bottle here and there, but two have 3 orders back to back with all of the bottles of Eruption fizzle without a good hit was really disappointing. I miss them though. Eruption really reminded me of the old days.  >:D

@tassa0: @calvingrey: You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love Right. instead of hooking up randomly we could built a community with more love. this way jealousy would reduce too. and not to mention about the sexual part. that would be great as well.  :cheers: :love:

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