I doubt most people who are into the myth of BBC are disappointed.  If one has bought into the "concept" of BBC, then that person also likely is not shy about asking to see or feel the "goods", as part of play in getting comfortable with one another.  That is usually done before bringing someone home.  (Picture it. You meet someone in a bar. Have a few drinks. Both retire to the restroom to take a piss and get a look or feel.) I doubt very few people bring someone home who isn't up to the standard of what they are looking for these days, unless they are drunk or it's last call; you haven't found what you are looking for; and standards have to be lowered, lol. If you bring someone home without sizing them up first, you deserve to be disappointed.  There isn't a dating site, or app, in this day and age, that doesn't ask for cock size as a vital / required statistic.  See how much interest you generate by not putting a number there for cock size (if a Top)…..Even if you didn't meet online, ie. you literally met in person by chance that night,  I don't think any top would be surprised by your asking his cock size.  It's simply a standard, given question these days, and one is expected to not only answer but also confirm his answer. Now, I am not saying that all black men are hung (we aren't) but with the way dating, hooking up, or meeting happens today - there is very little room for surprise, unless you are unusually shy or passive. Most tops have that cock size field filled with a number, and we know we will be held accountable to it.  Nowadays that accountability usually comes long before we ever go home with someone to have sex. Hence, the large number of cock pictures with rulers, tape measures, or objects of recognizable size so as to give a relative size comparison. Again, if you are waiting until you get him alone at whatever place you have decided to "do the deed", and you are JUST getting to the "confirmation" step, you deserve to be surprised.  Most tops these days are used to having to confirm way earlier... so as to avoid surprises and wasting everyone's time. I do the same with my bottoms.  I have a "finger check" test.  If two of my fingers has you asking me to go slower, and three has you pulling away from me, you are not ready to ride this ride.  But if three of my fingers has you moaning and begging for the last one, then you deserve front row center seats to this show!

I read a good article some weeks ago about the "gender theory" that some chatolic fundamentalist are seeing in the proposition of teaching in school in Italy that we are all equal and we must be free to be ourselves. So, the "gender theory" (in italian is called "teoria gender", keeping the english word just because they don't know how to explain all their bullshit) is that at school in Italy teachers will teach how to masturbate, how to be gay and so on… none of these thing will be teached, obviously, and the author tried to explain the different level of the sexuality of a person. This article, written by a psychologist, said that there is male and female, but there is also masculine and feminine, and these are 4 different things and neither of the four is tied from the start to the fact that someone is straight or gay or trans. There are gay people very masculine and straight very feminine, but if male and female are biological, masculine and feminine are concept that depends on society. We think a boy cannot play with dolls (well... he-man is right but barbie is not... then when it grows up and has an obsession for muscle men, make yourself some question... :P), a girl cannot play soccer and similar, or men don't cry for emotion and women cannot lead the family (not as a "man", at least, they clean...), so we think a man very sensible must be gay. On the other hand some gays tend to adapt to the role society created for them. I know a good number of gays (I didn't searched for them... they came in a group of other friends) that don't know (or at least if they suspect something I said nothing to confirm) I'm bi and they mostly behave like the stereotypical gay... they seems having their menstrual cycle in every moment, talk in falsetto even if they can have a very deep voice, they talk about themselves as fags or queers and so on... Most of the time this annoy me and in this occasions I must have a disgusted face because they begin to exagerate this... I'm not acting "straight"... I'm not punching other people, I try to not burp in public and other gross things, but I'm not talking like the stereotypical gossip girl either... I'm me, but this doesn't mean that other maybe don't like how I behave, like I don't like how these friend behave... everyone has his preferences...

i really like to sit on a big dick of a ball bellied man

Love morning sex then a nice cup of coffee!

@jonas32: Standing against a wall, doggy ofcourse with me bending over the bed or kitchentable. On my back in our sexswing and on my back with legs on his shoulders….. That made me hard reading that tbh

I don't know why people get so worked up over this. Those on Grindr are well known to be the nastiest Queens around to be avoided. For bears, we have Scruff and Growlr. For oldies, we have DaddyHunt and Mr. X. For Asians, we have 9Monsters and Jack'd. I qualify for all of the above  :mob: So who cares about those nasty Queens of Grindr? If sex is what you are looking for, you get more than enough to keep your bum toasty for the whole week. :anal2:

A kiss!

The larger the better. Get ready to scream. :crazy2:

better find a new partner! AHAHA just kidding! "sometimes being hard is difficult than being soft"

a lecturer at university used to turn me on so badly. I would literally be sat with a boner under my desk every week

or designer underwear

str8 lads undies

@bigballs100: My three way fansintys is amazing and I wish some day it would come true. Before i tell it, I'd like to warn anyone who arn't like me so…. The Following story is rated Bi-3, for strong sexual three way with two men and a woman. Readers discretion is advised. This is just part one, I got to horny to finish it So I've at an EDM concert and there with this guy. We are both pretty jacked and in bro tanks grinding along to the music. The lights are flashing so hard and we are so disoriented. I'm behind him as his ass grinds up against my bulge. I rap my arms around him and and feel his big muscly chest. Are giant biceps brush up against each other and he turns his head to look at me. He has a great chiseled jaw line, blues eyes and spiked forward short blond hair. I grab the back of his head as the bass drops and we begin to make out in the crowd of people. But even with everyone around us, it feels like we're alone. Out of nowhere I feel behind me a hand running down my back, but I know it's not his. I feel nails… long nails. Another arm comes over my shoulder and rest on my chest playing with my nipples. The long nails pinch at them. We stop kissing and I look behind to see how it is. It is this drop dead gorgeous brunette that is a little bit shorter but not by much then me and my man. Were both 6' 3'' and she is 6' 0''. I start making out with her, switching partners I watch them kiss. Eventually that concerts ends and we all go back to my hotel room. To be Continued. To be continued huh, I can't wait lol

Amature yes.  The worst part is that my ex has the videos and pictures.  I asked him to send them to me and he said he didn't want to because he is in them….....BUT I'M IN THEM TOO!!  LOL If I had it I would probably edit it a bit and share it here.

I love the fresh smell but i also drink my husbands pee from time to time

I saw many pornstar place the ruler under the cock (where they can go much behind the pubic bone) or "hiding" the first digit under their thumb, so they can start from 1" instead of 0, some other are never publicly measured. Many of them are also paired with smaller guys and we also have to remember that a lean framed guy or a short guy (5'5") with a 6,5" cock could seem hung and a 6'3" with a big cock just normal… even in that case we don't know their real measure. And then there are overweight people (like me, but I'm trying to lose my fat) that have obviuosly fat even in the pelvis... i have at leat 1" on cock hidden by that at the moment... some other have a curved dick (yup... me again...) so it's hard to know how to measure it (tryng to correct the curve or following it), and some other have an oval cock instead of round, so if you see them from the front it seems a beer can, but from the side a pencil... some are showers and hang down at the same size they have erect other are growers (me) and when in underwear seems non-existant (so if you haven't had sex with someone but only saw in lockerrooms you can't say if they are bigger or not)... There are indeed hung pornstar, but many of them are just well framed in the camera (perspective can do miracles)... Unfortunately our eye is very bad at comparing and if your mind is convinced that you are small your eyes will tend to understimate. The only way is standing right to your favourite porn star and realise if you are better or worse, but I don't think is something so easy...