I'm finding that more and more gay male couples are in an open relationship. I guess it's just to easy to see who else is out there with all of the different website and apps out there to meet other people. Most male animals in nature will have sex with as many others as they can. They law of survival of the fittest and all. Humans really aren't any different. A lot of it is about self-control and the willingness to make things work and have open communication. I am currently in a monogamous relationship and we both want it to stay that way. We don't play with others, we trust each other not to cheat, and have conversations about our feelings.

Nah, just being careless has but that's an individual thing.

Yes… I would tend to agree that you must be young and relatively unmedicated from medications such as Sertraline. I only wish that I had this problem, but I have the exact opposite problem. I can tell you that in my almost 30 years of existing, I have discovered the fine art of how to manipulate and edge for a while. The only trouble is that sometimes you will make yourself cum, even though you didn't mean to hehe

I would be inclined to make use of a lovely device known best as a shower shot. It's like a little mini shower dildo designed specifically for cleaning out back there before you start playing around back there. The only ones that I know of are available from Fort Troff. There are 3 main types that they seem to offer currently. They have the more advanced model, which runs into the shower plumbing with a diverter so that you can alternate the water flow between the shower head and the shower shot. That one is available HERE… It's the version that I have personally, and I swear by it, especially on days when I know that it's not going to be a whole lot of fun back there. The other two versions are quite similar to each other, yet different from the previously mentioned model. Simply put, you hang the bag over the end of the shower head and it's an instant shower shot. The more basic model of the two is available HERE, however I quite prefer their "ultra" version, formerly known as their piggy version, which you can find HERE. This should help you to avoid such an undesired and ultimately, rather "shitty" situation (pun intended)….. Just a suggestion.

No.

We live closeby a church so one night at midnight my husband fucked me there against a tombstone. I havw blown him while he was driving. I have ridden him while he was in the tractor at our farm. In our barn….for name a few

Well i give my self a quick doushe every other night and we have no problem  :cheesy2: [image: 90144_618VCnOhoCL._SY355_.jpg]

0  :- Im a virgin 

Ofcourse! In the car, our barn, the e´next door cementary at midnight, in our garden. At the beach (i was standing doggystyle and my husband fucked me, and i had water from the ocean around me….It was so hot and romantic

It's all good, you are not related, so it's not incest. Plus if you did not know about each other, then your family ties are not that close anyway. Even if it was full on incest it's not like you can have inbred babies. Two adults can do whatever they want.

I just cant see how you wouldnt end up prefering one over the other and/or wondering if the other 2 were more into each other.

Poor kid, I think you just love him because in your deep mind you can not own him. So do not misunderstanding your true feelings, and by the way, it is definitely wrong to seduce married man.

**Spain :cheesy2:**

The whole thing's basically a huge put-on. You can't 'act straight' any more than you can 'act gay'. Statistics on the matter will always be inaccurate as long as being non-heterosexual carries any sort of stigma. You can't depend on honest answers in any study related to orientation. A lot of gays are conditioned into insecurity and as a result, try to latch onto the hyper-masculine ideals that don't really exist in the world. In porn, this is played off of. There are also plenty of them who are enchanted either by straight boys 'playing gay' (when in reality they're probably not so strictly straight), or by feeling like they're getting a glimpse at some sort of forbidden secret. The reality is that straight boys are just as pressured, on the whole, towards that same hyper-masculine nonsense. In many cases it's 'the grass is greener on the other side' – it becomes alluring when they feel they're privy to something they'd otherwise never be able to witness...or at least, that's what they imagine. I do think it's always troubling when one comes across these obsessive, often self-loathing types so fixated on playing pretend that they end up being just embarrassing and sad. There are people of all kinds, male and female, gay, straight, and everything else, that believe in these stereotypes. But what people don't often think about is that putting on a 'straight act' is often as embarrassing and insulting as the other way around. Funny thing, I was shocked the one time I can remember seeing it pointed out once on a show...Dante's Cove, of all things!!

be honest and trust each other

Have sex with them? Not a tough question at all to answer haha.