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  • "Agony Aunt" column

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    I would love to answer your questions on health and romance so please drop me a line! [image: 1658952997902-360_f_388333407_i3ponvaueyj7yjdyw3lyh6a9r4stx0cv.jpg]
  • Worshiping "Alpha Straight Guys"

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    The whole thing's basically a huge put-on. You can't 'act straight' any more than you can 'act gay'. Statistics on the matter will always be inaccurate as long as being non-heterosexual carries any sort of stigma. You can't depend on honest answers in any study related to orientation. A lot of gays are conditioned into insecurity and as a result, try to latch onto the hyper-masculine ideals that don't really exist in the world. In porn, this is played off of. There are also plenty of them who are enchanted either by straight boys 'playing gay' (when in reality they're probably not so strictly straight), or by feeling like they're getting a glimpse at some sort of forbidden secret. The reality is that straight boys are just as pressured, on the whole, towards that same hyper-masculine nonsense. In many cases it's 'the grass is greener on the other side' – it becomes alluring when they feel they're privy to something they'd otherwise never be able to witness...or at least, that's what they imagine. I do think it's always troubling when one comes across these obsessive, often self-loathing types so fixated on playing pretend that they end up being just embarrassing and sad. There are people of all kinds, male and female, gay, straight, and everything else, that believe in these stereotypes. But what people don't often think about is that putting on a 'straight act' is often as embarrassing and insulting as the other way around. Funny thing, I was shocked the one time I can remember seeing it pointed out once on a show...Dante's Cove, of all things!!
  • In love with my bestfriend?

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  • How to make your relationship strong?

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    be honest and trust each other
  • How do you deal when your partner asks for sex?

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    Have sex with them? Not a tough question at all to answer haha.
  • When to have sex in your relationship?

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    When u feel it
  • How do you keep your relationship strong?

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    Lotsa sex!  :churn: :ride: :anal2: :missio: :tf: And lotsa trust. No jelousy. And above all, good talking topics.
  • Is it really dangerous to suck someone without condem?

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    I have sucked a looooot of anon dicks and I'm neg =P The risk exists, but it's ridiculously low.
  • Older men

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    I think you're just over thinking about the situation. Live free meaning fall in love who you want to fall in love and not think about it. Obviously, it's not normal to bring home an old guy to mom, but you have an opportunity to change what is normal. And it seems like you want the security and all the other good stuff from the older guy but not willing to put up with the cons. All relationships have pros and cons. What you're feeling is normal. You just have to let go and fall for someone without any hesitation. It might be the best love ever in your life. @johnsnowgay: I have a problem(weeeell,not sure if it is a real problem) that i mostly like older guys. I'm 23 yo and I like men from 40 to 55-60,depends of looks. Of course,there are exceptions but I'm talking in general. I like kissing them,cuddling,sucking them and them sucking me…AND TALKING WITH THEM. Older guys make me feel secure,they are usually not too nosy and full of questions,and I feel like I can learn from them and I respect them :cheers:. It isn't a problem to be frends or sex partners but for a longterm relationship...not really sure :blownose:
  • Do you accept cross-generation relationship?

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    Usual rule of thumb with dating is minimum age would be half your age plus seven. So like someone that's 40 would seem perfectly fine with someone 27 or someone that was 60 would seem fine with someone 37. When you get more distant age gaps things can just feel odd as it's not really a single generation difference, but rather multiple generation gap and that's just requiring enough bridging that it usually doesn't work out.
  • Skip the kissing?

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    Depend on the dude I think Hot = kissable
  • Bottoming hurts?

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    I do? I don't think I am very good with the written word. But Thanks for saying so!   The truth is it is a hell of a lot of fun. @harryme: You make bottoming sound so HOT! @Redrooster: The first time it hurt like a bitch.The second time not so much. It got to be where it didn't hurt.But it never really felt good. Then I got fucked by this guy who made me feel like I was just on the edge of a orgasm, just by screwing me. He was pushing along my prostate with every thrust. Bottoming went from something I would do, but didn't enjoy. To the top of my list of ways to make me cum.
  • 6 Things You Didn't Know About Men And Sex [With Questions]

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  • Do you enjoy having your balls played with?

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    Nothing rough, and no sucking on my balls unless you want to see me climb the walls to get away from you. My balls are sensitive and strictly require a gentle touch.
  • Bottoms? What does it take to make you feel good?

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    A bunch of tops queuing up to fuck m ass… one oafter the other... each one leaving his spunk inside me. :cheers:
  • Favorite fetish

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    I love hairy, sweaty and smelly men and also being throatfucked and drinking piss.
  • Random boners?

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    @2222: I use uniform to work and my motto is "never leave home without a bulge"  :laugh: haha good moto :laugh:. your co-workers are lucky to have you ;D
  • Favorite sex position game!

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    To be taken aganist a wall
  • What is the horniest thing you've done?

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    i jerked off at the park on the way home 
  • Reserving?

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  • Percentile reading about penis size and some numbers…

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    Corrected last sentences to make some sense  ;D