@alma: @spam17: @alma: @4hired: every 3 months, if you are sexually active. I just came here to say the same , Though i'm not sexually active . I don't see the point of getting tested when you aren't active any longer.. ??? I am not getting tested , i say I think people should get tested .. Also i never had sex so i don't need any of this .. But it's good to educated yourself about sexual health and all . OK then..

@fresnopup: When a guy turns me on enough I can do anything–-even the things I don't particularly like---and enjoy the hell out of it. Got many memories of unexpected surprises. That's a good point! :foot:

@viscous: @TheNewt: If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all.  They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it. And if gay men marry and only have sex with their wives for the rest of their lives, are they therefore heterosexual? Sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things. I would totally agree that sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things! ;D

@BosnianPig: Top here, And I fuckin love poppers in moderation. Excessive huffing and it kills not just boners, but lust too. Note that excessive huffing has been known to produce undesirable side effects, including addiction, damaged sinuses, corrupted brains, which may lead to someone thinking they're something they aren't, and, in some cases, death! :blink:

@JohnEryn: That was quick (the way it happened and the way you wrote it). Hahahaha.   Well, when I was 14 years old I started to use Badoo. I did it mainly bc I wanted to chat with gay guys from my country and not elsewhere. One day, I was surprised bc I recognized one of those who talked to me through that social network. He noticed me too but we both were in the streets for doing other things, so we only stared at each other that afternoon. When I came home later I was hoping to find some new messages from that guy and I was right. He asked for a day, an hour and a place. He was 18, btw. So, to make the long story short, I was the bottom. And we made three or four positions. I know that it is a lot for the first time, but he was tender and savage at the same time. Nowadays I'm versatile and enjoy more being the top. :love:

@addic2porn: I have heard that nipple piercing would make your nipple always hard - is that so? For me, no. My nipples are more pronounced than the 'boy nipples' I had prior. Mine have been pierced about twenty years. I only wear jewelry rarely. I have stretched mine to a 6-gauge before and that made them too large, so I took them out and it reduced the size back to prior size (pre 6-gauge).

don't understand scat or piss

if I think about what's about to happen too much, I get nervous as well

I would not be happy if I was in a relationship with someone or dating them and when we got together on dates, they spent a lot of time on a cellphone texting other people or going online.

sex you can feel best without poppers but in certain cases I find it easier to take it when I sniff , like while getting fisted, or fucked by 8 inch penis (it hurts!) getting whipped, it makes it more interesting sometimes. most poppers are just shit, but certain few brands (if you can find one that's genuine ) actually does make a good popper as it should work.

Enjoy your HIV and other STDs? The idea that you seek out "young ones" is creepy and you could be HIV+ and not even know it.  This is why even though I'm a top and I only have anal sex with a partner who I am in a relationship with I always use condoms.

@tcxoat: only protected sex Same here.  I know way too many people who don't use them or who decided not to use one with a hook up, FWB, or even partner who cheated on them that they didn't know about who wound up HIV+ or getting another STD.  The ones that did not wind up HIV+ said how the anxiety and stress over wondering if they really were HIV+, was not worth it. I refuse to take PreP as it's toxic and it has not so fun side effects from what my friends who have taken it tell me, and it's expensive.

Never had, but I'm curious.

It just seems like such a commitment

Surely in the Country of sex this is allowed ;D

yes, english brand (white label black print)

@bostonpolar: It is not that any type of cooking oil is going to be harmful to your asshole or inside of your ass.  You COOK with those oils after all and eat them. The problem is it can interfere with the excretion process.  Things go too quickly. If you remember the fat-free cooking oil that someone created several decades ago, that was used to cook things such as potato and corn chips, many people experienced a side effect that such foods would go very quickly through them, because your body could not absorb this oil. (That is what made it fat-free!) Which is why food companies stopped use this oil to cook foods. The TRULY SERIOUS problem with any oil or petroleum-based lube is that they weaken latex.  In other words, you NEVER want to use an oil-based lube in you are using a condom, because the oil can make the condom break much more easily. But health-wise, remember that Crisco (the solid lard) was used for many decades for anal intercourse – and in particular fist-fucking. By the way, the solid Crisco makes the most wonderful and tasty pie crusts. . . . You're thinking about Olestra. And yes, it had very disastrous consequences. Consuming Olestra gave people cramps, really bad gas and diarrhea. If you Google around, I'm sure you could find some funny meme or video related to it. That being said, I'd be careful with what you put in your butt, but a small amount of canola oil shouldn't be too detrimental.

I've never been able to manage this. Once I'm "in love" and it goes sour, I usually need a LOT of distance from the person to even begin the process of getting over it (no matter who pulled the plug), and at that point, we've grown so far apart that interaction in the future is awkward. That's best case scenario, too … sometimes, old feelings get kicked up, which is even worse. I'm always a little perplexed by people who talk about hanging out with exes as friends long after relationships are over, but I've noticed that the people who say that they can do this are the sort of people that have very high relationship turnover (the folks who can point to a long list of exes, and always seem to be "with" somebody, never single for longer than a month or two). The only thing I can think is that their definition of being "in love" is very different from mine. Love, for me, is drowning in the concept of somebody, and if it goes on long enough, making them a secure fixture in your life. Comfortable and known and reliable. They should never stop making you happy when you get to spend time with them. I don't even cross into the "relationship" zone with them unless I'm literally getting butterflies in the stomach when I think about them. Others just go "meh" and say "let's see how it goes" and slap that Facebook In-a-Relationship status up at the drop of a hat. The people who have exes as friends never give themselves over to it as completely as the people who can't be friends with exes do. They're holding parts of themselves back, always guarded, so that they never risk becoming too invested. That's my theory.