@ChicanoDag: Interesting questions.  Not as simple as I first thought when I read the title. Upon reflection, I think that I act as if there are different types of virginity.  When contacted on a hook-up app, I never ask if someone is a virgin.  I'll always ask, "Have you been butt fucked?" and "Have you been throat fucked?"  The answer varies.  Someone can give great blow jobs but have never been fucked in the ass.  Someone can love being butt fucked but never been throat fucked. See, I can train a virgin, but it's not really something I want to do.  Helping a virgin with their first time being butt fucked or throat fucked takes a lot of time, patience and energy.  Not something I want to invest in when I'm looking for a quick fuck on a hook-up app. As for your last question, it depends on the definition of "gay."  In my mind, at least, gay and homosexual and queer are not all the same things.  I see gay as relating to culture.  Homosexual as the simple physical desire and attraction towards someone of the same gender.  And queer as meaning anyone who is not straight (gay, lesbian, bi, trans, asexual, etc). But then, maybe the question isn't important.  If you want to go to gay discos and hang rainbow flags all over your home, go for it.  I don't care who you're fucking.  If you want to fuck a man and then afterwards you want to fuck a woman, I don't see why anyone should have the right to judge you.  Pursue the relationships you want.  Have sex or don't have sex on YOUR timetable.  Resist the pressure to be something you're not.  Do what make YOU happy. Interesting answers.. 

@smbsmbsmb123: @UncleDolan: Install a keylogger on the pc without him knowing and see what comes up. that is a criminal offense in most of the civilized world. the lengths people go to avoid talking to each other, geez. Not really,especially if it's a shared PC. And it's not about talking,it's about being sure that you're not ruining a relationship with paranoia and that you have good cause. After all,the OP didn't report what the texts say.

I've known my wife since 1996.  Twenty fucking years this November.  From the beginning I have been open and honest about my sexual attraction to guys.  It's never been an issue between us.  The way I approach all my relationships, I tell you who I am honestly, no games.  Tell you what I like.  What I can accept.  And what I can't accept.  If it's compatible with your list, great.  If not, we shake hands, wish each other luck and move on. While being with my wife, I have had sex with guys.  One night stands.  Fuck buddies.  Even dated.  But it's always been the guys who have the problem.  Sometimes they can't get it out of their heads and act and believe that I am cheating.  Often they become jealous of my wife.  My wife and I have been together a long time.  We worked on our relationship for years.  Someone I've known for two months can't expect the same type of relationship as with a women I've known 5, 10, or 20 years. My wife has given relationship advice to guys I've dated.  Almost every time, they ignore it or do the exact opposite.  Than I blow up because they've done something that enrages me.  And attacking my wife is a very bad move.  My wife is capable of defending herself.  She has backed me up in physical fights.  I am not jealous where she is concerned.  She has dated and had sex with other guys.  I know she is with me.  And if there ever comes a time when she doesn't want to be with me, I trust in her honesty, trust that she'll tell me.  I am not a jealous man.  But once, someone I was seeing called my wife a bitch… So gay?  bi?  I no longer care.  I like what I want to like.  Do what I want to do.  Try not to cause too much damage as I live my life.  You don't like that?  You can fuck off. And as for stereotypes... I'll wear what I want to wear.  If it's a purple fucking tutu, I'll wear a purple fucking tutu.  I'll dance along to a Bollywood musical.  Scream out the lyrics to a punk song.  Bake some goddamn cookies.  I will not let anyone tell me how to be gay.  I will not let anyone tell me how to be straight.  How to be a "real" man.  I make the decisions for me.  I will live my life the way I want to live it.

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@helloitsmesf: 6 inches Something like that: [image: penis-next-to-tape-6-inches.jpg] ;D

@alma: @spam17: @alma: @4hired: every 3 months, if you are sexually active. I just came here to say the same , Though i'm not sexually active . I don't see the point of getting tested when you aren't active any longer.. ??? I am not getting tested , i say I think people should get tested .. Also i never had sex so i don't need any of this .. But it's good to educated yourself about sexual health and all . OK then..

@fresnopup: When a guy turns me on enough I can do anything–-even the things I don't particularly like---and enjoy the hell out of it. Got many memories of unexpected surprises. That's a good point! :foot:

@viscous: @TheNewt: If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all.  They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it. And if gay men marry and only have sex with their wives for the rest of their lives, are they therefore heterosexual? Sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things. I would totally agree that sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things! ;D

@BosnianPig: Top here, And I fuckin love poppers in moderation. Excessive huffing and it kills not just boners, but lust too. Note that excessive huffing has been known to produce undesirable side effects, including addiction, damaged sinuses, corrupted brains, which may lead to someone thinking they're something they aren't, and, in some cases, death! :blink:

@JohnEryn: That was quick (the way it happened and the way you wrote it). Hahahaha.   Well, when I was 14 years old I started to use Badoo. I did it mainly bc I wanted to chat with gay guys from my country and not elsewhere. One day, I was surprised bc I recognized one of those who talked to me through that social network. He noticed me too but we both were in the streets for doing other things, so we only stared at each other that afternoon. When I came home later I was hoping to find some new messages from that guy and I was right. He asked for a day, an hour and a place. He was 18, btw. So, to make the long story short, I was the bottom. And we made three or four positions. I know that it is a lot for the first time, but he was tender and savage at the same time. Nowadays I'm versatile and enjoy more being the top. :love:

@addic2porn: I have heard that nipple piercing would make your nipple always hard - is that so? For me, no. My nipples are more pronounced than the 'boy nipples' I had prior. Mine have been pierced about twenty years. I only wear jewelry rarely. I have stretched mine to a 6-gauge before and that made them too large, so I took them out and it reduced the size back to prior size (pre 6-gauge).

don't understand scat or piss

if I think about what's about to happen too much, I get nervous as well

I would not be happy if I was in a relationship with someone or dating them and when we got together on dates, they spent a lot of time on a cellphone texting other people or going online.

sex you can feel best without poppers but in certain cases I find it easier to take it when I sniff , like while getting fisted, or fucked by 8 inch penis (it hurts!) getting whipped, it makes it more interesting sometimes. most poppers are just shit, but certain few brands (if you can find one that's genuine ) actually does make a good popper as it should work.

Enjoy your HIV and other STDs? The idea that you seek out "young ones" is creepy and you could be HIV+ and not even know it.  This is why even though I'm a top and I only have anal sex with a partner who I am in a relationship with I always use condoms.

@tcxoat: only protected sex Same here.  I know way too many people who don't use them or who decided not to use one with a hook up, FWB, or even partner who cheated on them that they didn't know about who wound up HIV+ or getting another STD.  The ones that did not wind up HIV+ said how the anxiety and stress over wondering if they really were HIV+, was not worth it. I refuse to take PreP as it's toxic and it has not so fun side effects from what my friends who have taken it tell me, and it's expensive.

Never had, but I'm curious.

It just seems like such a commitment