@mufum69: @Thalion: @mufum69: If there's anything left of him once I'm done with him  ;D hahahahaha oh such a pity, seems like he has so much to share and i don't mind sharing If that's your sweet ass I think we can work something out  ;D It is indeed :3

Neither, brains, of course, being a musician myself I have fallen for so many piano players so far and my actual partner couldn't get a note from another and still, I love him, in the end, what matter here was (and still is) that for the first time in 7 years I can picture myself with this person, my head is not somewhere else or wishing I was with someone else, I trust, and that proved to be the most difficult thing to get, I both feel and think he is right for me and so does he so yes, in the end, it was brains, I have to admire in some way my partner, and I do, he is 10 younger than me (in my defence, I rejected him 3 times and I only tried because I found out I had a brain tumor and I could die so what the hell? And here we are, real partnership) and has achieved a lot.

@Domosuke: If you live in North America, there is Interactive Male. It is through the telephone. When you call, you must call in from an unblocked landline or mobile phone. (So sadly no google or skype numbers or pay phones lol) http://www.interactivemale.com Basically, it's like a gay personal liaison through the telephone. When you call in, you are asked to record the name you would like to be called on the system. Shortly after that you are asked to record a profile message which can be no longer than two minutes or so. After that you go into the live messenger, where all the guys who are currently dialed online (yourself included) names and profile are now available for other callers to hear. First you hear guys online that are in your city, state, or area. Then if you hear or skip all of those, you hear guys farther away or in other countries even. You can send guys winks, flirts, messages and even request to go one on one. To where you can possibly network with them, and give them your phone number, or decide to hook up and meet up at a spot etc. Be careful, this line is not moderated, and you will run into homophobes, racists, trolls and guys who are dangerous. They do have an ignore feature which is good. When you hang up, your profile is deleted shortly after. However when you call back within 24 hours, you are given the option to use your same profile or not. Every month, you get 2 hours free trial to use the live messenger system. However time is not deducted if you hang up or if you listen to advertisements commercials they play, which are usually adult porn sites, like every five minutes or so. Once your free trial is up, you have to wait a month to use it again, or pay for membership. Otherwise, I think it's ten dollars a month to use the service unlimited. I know people who are blind and gay who use this service and they say it works well for them.

nice play man!

I feel bad for you

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no idea

Yes, they would @motri: okay i just googled it. i think those penis cages qualify?

Only when I'm in a serious relationship after we've both been tested. Too risky to have casual sex without condoms.

I find if you jack off first, you seem to last longer second time round

@JerodParker: If you want to meet quality guys, you'll have to be social enough to meet your version of quality people who will introduce you to their gay friends. A friend said the best place to meet good wife material is at weddings and kids birthday parties.  I guess this may apply. I've been playing with an all gay table top gaming group and I meet guys when they bring new dudes and I bring new guys too.  But it's not a group orgy thing, haha hmmmm this is a lot more challenging than i thought it was….. i can't even find a table top gaming group in the first place to play with........

Maybe you could have an enema. I had them and I'm a woman. If you hadn't, it's not a big deal. start witd 2Dcl so you don't push it further up or you can eat fish oil..juck. Or magnesium cloride, but it's expensive and if you don't know about how to make it, you better not. Do you have mineral water with lots of magnesium in it? That could do a trick. Sauerkraut can also help.But eat it half a kilo. You can cook it. Normal cabbage also works, tho sauerkraut is better.  I think you can help yourself in so many ways before you try to see doctor. They would just do you an enema themself or something like it. Oh to me also helps if I drink more than a litter of chocolate milk. At least this is jummy. But if you eat or drink one of those things, make sure you can stay home for a day or two or at least be near toilet where you won't be bothered. It might hurt a bit or a bit more. but it'll be ok.

Thanks again! @junior: I like them all(small bottles), except the injection and overdrive.

@Eridanos: Now, considering that we can't afford it here and up there in the States you have groups of assholes using it as a pretext for not using condoms (while your AIDS organizations have stated it should be used in tandem with condoms, not to mention the fact you need to take it religiously or it loses effect) I daresay I would love to skewer and burn every one and each of those so self-called 'Truvada Whores'. I agree with you about people deliberately misrepresenting the usage for the drug to have bareback sex (against the advice of the manufacturer) but disagree with calling people who do take it and follow that advice as "whores" that's too far.

@ramoverkill: I WAS SINGLE FOR 10 YEARS.  I GOT INTO CAMMING AND I QUITE ENJOY IT.  I LIKE TO SHOW OFF.  IT TURNS ME ON AND EXCITES ME.  FROM THE BEGINNING I TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT IT.  HE WAS COOL WITH IT UNTIL ONE DAY I WAS CHATTING WITH SOMEONE AND I CLOSED THE WINDOW AS HE CAME IN.  I TOLD HIM I WAS JUST CHATTING, WELL HE GOT ALL BENT OUT OF SHAPE SAYING I SHOULDN'T BE DOING THAT AND THAT ITS JUST FOR FANTASY SO WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO THEM?  AND EVER SINCE HE'S BEEN THREATENING TO LEAVE ME IF I DO IT ALONE ANYMORE. I CAN DO IT WITH HIM, BUT NOT BY MYSELF.  I THINK IT'S RIDICULOUS AND HE SAYS IT HURTS HIM IF I DO IT?  I DON'T WANT TO BE INSENSITIVE, BUT I JUST DON'T SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.  I HAVE NEVER MET ANYONE I CAM WITH AND NEVER WILL. I have been in a relationship for well over 30 plus years now and from what I have observed in mine and a lot of other long term relationships are that they started off being open and almost definitely non monogamous.I totally believe men wether straight or gay are not supposed to stick to one partner.It's only natural to seek different partners.As for marriage ect(gay or straight)I find the whole concept ridiculously silly and was developed in order to stop men wandering.If I  or my partner get horny,we tell each other that were off to the sauna or were off to fuck a certain guy that we've contacted on the internet.We just make sure that for safety reasons that the address were going to is genuine..ect.The bottom line is..Be honest with each other right away with EVERTHING.I honestly have never met anyone who is in a long term monogamous relationship.

@Domosuke: I'm younger than 30. I'm 25. I have never been in a bathhouse. But I got to the entrance of the one near my house three times and chickened out. Does that count? I want a man who loves me for me, not because I'm a shadow in a sex club. What a cardsharper !!! ;D Like a mocha "to take or to stay ?"  >:D

Yeah I remember you writing that. Haha surprised about the marriage though : D

rude boy…hits the spot every time