i love getting pounded by a big dick, so 80% of the time yes

It seems to me that if you want to have more meaningful relationships the only real solution is to go out there and make them. Easier said than done, I know. You have two main ways- meet them online- yes even on a porn site like this. It's possible to get along with and find some connection with the people you meet on chat or on forums. The second way is to take on activities you enjoy and hopefully meet someone who enjoys the same things you do. Even if it is only as a friend- who knows–someone you know might introduce you to a future relationship. If you feel that porn is holding you back though, you have a decision to make- you may want to give it up and push yourself to find more meaningful connections.

I love it

:cheesy2: why?/?

blue ball ?  never  hahahahh

i like safe sex only

:afr: :afr:

Try out different positions. I usually get most pleasure when I'm on top riding. I also agree with what others said, the guy and his dick is a big factor.

Honestly, I doubt it. It might be theoretically possible, but not realistically so without doing it pretty much constantly. Also, there's no telling what that could do to the functionality of your penis. I remember seeing an old documentary on TV as a kid about Indian nanga babas or something (closet thing I could find with google) who would stretch their dicks and literally roll them up in sticks and stretch them around large stones they'd then swing swing from their dicks (that's how I remember it, anyway). Doing this rendered them impotent (incapable of erections). I remember the narrator saying that specifically. Extreme example, I know, but it's something to think about. At any rate, the best thing you can do is to learn to be happy with what you've got. Size really isn't everything in terms of sex appeal, at least for most people. Confidence alone can add a couple of inches. Guys with "small" cocks who are confident and willing to take charge (as opposed to acting like insecure macho douchebags) are pretty hot, honestly.

I gotta be riding the top. Only can do it with particular individuals or if I haven't had sex in a while.

I have also resigned to the fact that relationships don't last. Three out of 4 guys cheated. I'm readily available for sex as well so I'm not sure what it is. Our society has evolved so fast that sex is available through a little device. We are not mentally developed for that sort of thing.

Yep. Not liking it. Maybe I still need that special man to show me.

Generally speaking porn stereotypes ruin reality. The expectations that come with connecting with a live person are altered if we expect what is found in porn. Porn is for fun. The best idea is to just find someone with a like mind.  :cheesy2:

Performance anxiety can be a vicious cycle and is probably not something that will go away on its own. Identifying why you're anxious would be the first step. If you have the ability, talk to a counselor to get an objective assessment and to work through issues that might be causing your anxiety. ED meds can help in the short term but with anxiety issues it's possible that they can add to the problem by you feeling dependent on them.

@killerbody14: If you are bottom, its ok i guess, but if you are top having sex twice in a day can damage your lovely main vein Wut?! How so?

i wat to  try it again and again

and i dont know how to eat it by other ppl?

@qwerty47666: Thanks. We have sex according to a formula, with lights off. I like his body fine, even though it's not perfectly my fetish. He is sturdy and strong, but very insecure, considers himself too fat, and doesn't like his body. I don't think we ever talk about sex. Whenever I brought up masturbation he would say "you're not allowed to do that" in a joking-but-also-not-joking way. So that pretty much shut off all discussion of sex. ….are you implying he has a puritan / strict view of sex, or a...domineering personality? We did have some discussion about how we spend time together. He needs to be more social, and he likes to go out. I don't drink at all and while I like being social I need to spend a lot of time at my desk to meet the career goals I've set for myself. That was also part of the reason I didn't want to move in. I just really didn't want to break my groove. He told me he felt like I was judgmental when I counseled him. I mostly remember telling him he was being way too mean to himself. When he lets his guard down he is the sweetest most affectionate guy ever, and that makes me never want to do anything that could ever hurt him. I think this is a good step, but yeah; seems you need more communication, and given your next post…that's...kind of dangerous. And yes, I echo the professional suggestion.