Surely in the Country of sex this is allowed ;D

yes, english brand (white label black print)

@bostonpolar: It is not that any type of cooking oil is going to be harmful to your asshole or inside of your ass.  You COOK with those oils after all and eat them. The problem is it can interfere with the excretion process.  Things go too quickly. If you remember the fat-free cooking oil that someone created several decades ago, that was used to cook things such as potato and corn chips, many people experienced a side effect that such foods would go very quickly through them, because your body could not absorb this oil. (That is what made it fat-free!) Which is why food companies stopped use this oil to cook foods. The TRULY SERIOUS problem with any oil or petroleum-based lube is that they weaken latex.  In other words, you NEVER want to use an oil-based lube in you are using a condom, because the oil can make the condom break much more easily. But health-wise, remember that Crisco (the solid lard) was used for many decades for anal intercourse – and in particular fist-fucking. By the way, the solid Crisco makes the most wonderful and tasty pie crusts. . . . You're thinking about Olestra. And yes, it had very disastrous consequences. Consuming Olestra gave people cramps, really bad gas and diarrhea. If you Google around, I'm sure you could find some funny meme or video related to it. That being said, I'd be careful with what you put in your butt, but a small amount of canola oil shouldn't be too detrimental.

I've never been able to manage this. Once I'm "in love" and it goes sour, I usually need a LOT of distance from the person to even begin the process of getting over it (no matter who pulled the plug), and at that point, we've grown so far apart that interaction in the future is awkward. That's best case scenario, too … sometimes, old feelings get kicked up, which is even worse. I'm always a little perplexed by people who talk about hanging out with exes as friends long after relationships are over, but I've noticed that the people who say that they can do this are the sort of people that have very high relationship turnover (the folks who can point to a long list of exes, and always seem to be "with" somebody, never single for longer than a month or two). The only thing I can think is that their definition of being "in love" is very different from mine. Love, for me, is drowning in the concept of somebody, and if it goes on long enough, making them a secure fixture in your life. Comfortable and known and reliable. They should never stop making you happy when you get to spend time with them. I don't even cross into the "relationship" zone with them unless I'm literally getting butterflies in the stomach when I think about them. Others just go "meh" and say "let's see how it goes" and slap that Facebook In-a-Relationship status up at the drop of a hat. The people who have exes as friends never give themselves over to it as completely as the people who can't be friends with exes do. They're holding parts of themselves back, always guarded, so that they never risk becoming too invested. That's my theory.

i love getting pounded by a big dick, so 80% of the time yes

It seems to me that if you want to have more meaningful relationships the only real solution is to go out there and make them. Easier said than done, I know. You have two main ways- meet them online- yes even on a porn site like this. It's possible to get along with and find some connection with the people you meet on chat or on forums. The second way is to take on activities you enjoy and hopefully meet someone who enjoys the same things you do. Even if it is only as a friend- who knows–someone you know might introduce you to a future relationship. If you feel that porn is holding you back though, you have a decision to make- you may want to give it up and push yourself to find more meaningful connections.

I love it

:cheesy2: why?/?

blue ball ?  never  hahahahh

i like safe sex only

:afr: :afr:

Try out different positions. I usually get most pleasure when I'm on top riding. I also agree with what others said, the guy and his dick is a big factor.

Honestly, I doubt it. It might be theoretically possible, but not realistically so without doing it pretty much constantly. Also, there's no telling what that could do to the functionality of your penis. I remember seeing an old documentary on TV as a kid about Indian nanga babas or something (closet thing I could find with google) who would stretch their dicks and literally roll them up in sticks and stretch them around large stones they'd then swing swing from their dicks (that's how I remember it, anyway). Doing this rendered them impotent (incapable of erections). I remember the narrator saying that specifically. Extreme example, I know, but it's something to think about. At any rate, the best thing you can do is to learn to be happy with what you've got. Size really isn't everything in terms of sex appeal, at least for most people. Confidence alone can add a couple of inches. Guys with "small" cocks who are confident and willing to take charge (as opposed to acting like insecure macho douchebags) are pretty hot, honestly.

I gotta be riding the top. Only can do it with particular individuals or if I haven't had sex in a while.

I have also resigned to the fact that relationships don't last. Three out of 4 guys cheated. I'm readily available for sex as well so I'm not sure what it is. Our society has evolved so fast that sex is available through a little device. We are not mentally developed for that sort of thing.

Yep. Not liking it. Maybe I still need that special man to show me.

Generally speaking porn stereotypes ruin reality. The expectations that come with connecting with a live person are altered if we expect what is found in porn. Porn is for fun. The best idea is to just find someone with a like mind.  :cheesy2:

Performance anxiety can be a vicious cycle and is probably not something that will go away on its own. Identifying why you're anxious would be the first step. If you have the ability, talk to a counselor to get an objective assessment and to work through issues that might be causing your anxiety. ED meds can help in the short term but with anxiety issues it's possible that they can add to the problem by you feeling dependent on them.

@killerbody14: If you are bottom, its ok i guess, but if you are top having sex twice in a day can damage your lovely main vein Wut?! How so?