Straight dicks are always desired. Maybe I am just too desperate for anything to happen.

OMG I did to, different kinds of underwear turns me on big time.

Yes, you should stop. I'm afraid he's not interested in you that way. Good luck going forward!

@JohnAllenson: First reaction was use both hands. Serious hint on deep-throating.  The position for 69 straightens out the passage between the mouth and the throat.  On your knees puts an angle that's difficult to work around. bingo

Flavoured lube, to me, tastes just as nasty as the original.

Ohhh you meant literally dirty? LoL

@KissMyAirs: Gay date apps and websites help but you cannot trust them. so i've heard

eeeek. like not being fully clean and ruining an expensive pair of sheets. then doing the laundry LOLs 

Getting HIV is my greatest fear

No.  The only thing you could do would be to reply to posts and ask for a picture.  If its his picture you know he's lieing to you.  The CL relay is designed to be anonymous.  For exactly this reason.

is there a way to eventually like bottoming? i play with my ass on occasion but i've only ever liked it a few inches in….never all the way in

@cteavin: @detroiticus: Ho old was your first sexual experience? Which experience? First masturbation? First group masturbation? First oral, anal, heavy petting? With gay men that question is harder than with women.

@cteavin: It depends on which virginity.  ::) I'll tell you a funny story. When I was 16 I worked in a shoe store in a quiet mall. It was a "traditional" shoe store where I, the clerk, was expected to take off the customers shoes, put on the new ones and lace them. Well, some random evening this youngish Asian guy comes in and after a lot of talk, and a lot of shoes, offers to massage my feet. He started coming buy about every week or so when the mall was dead and it always ended in my getting a foot massage. A couple of times he even brought me socks, those fun specialty sock taking my old tube/sports socks  with him to "throw away". I didn't even think to question why. Long after I came out I started hearing about all the fetishes out there… I had no idea. I don't regret a thing.

@warpaint: LOL. Definitely my first time seeing it. What the fuck. It looks like stages of a fucking Mangekyou Sharingan. :hehe:

@warpaint: Hmmm… definitely not the whole history. I don't do hook ups , just dates. So it's easier. I get to know a person and see when they are lying or not. I also try to do condom sex (which I hate) and even then I almost always ask. But it's always such a weird moment. I don't talk about it until I know something happens for sure, cause why would I ask if something won't happen, but when it comes to the penetration well that's when I just have to ask and it's so hard because it ruins the mood, but we never ended an intercourse after that question. I have to admit I had few bareback sex without asking before. And that was stupid. But I was fine after all. One guy actually told me when we had sex and when I was about to fuck him that he is positive. We actually became friends later. He took his meds and stuff and I knew details of his health status. He visited his doctor every 3 months to check if the virus is under control so it was ok. Right now my position is - I just stay careful. I don't ask anymore I guess but as well I try to not suck dick of the other person I definitely don't swallow and just try to watch out for if I have small cuts or have my blood exposed or something. The most dangerous thing is when I actually don't want to have sex but I'm riding my dick up and down someone's crack. Sometimes I don't even know when it slips in. Of course nothing happens when you just stick your dick for 2 seconds in someone's ass but it's just so tempting to go on. Tempting..

@burgercat: I'm 44. Haven't had sex for about 4 months and haven't masturbated for about a month. The number 4 is three times included in your answer..

@dhardcastle: youll be fine dont worry  :cheesy2:

@cteavin: @motri: @motri: @nickys1177: andy Honda of cf before , ken ott, zakk of bsb before andy hoonda is cute…. imma check his vids only found solo vids of him…ugh I just downloaded this today. https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=541d33592189db6affe77adba390bc5bb3337ea5fab52e27 And they have his vids on pornhub, too.

@kikhumbira: @warpaint: The point that he's making - that he had an abusive ex, doesn't really excuse him from being an asshole. Agreed. And I agree with Warpaint about "serious conversation". ++1..