I should try the eye contact thing it might help. LOL…....

Doveryáy, no proveryáy. For this situation, you might translate that as "trust, but test" rather than "trust, but verify". It would be devastating to find out that your partner has been cheating and that you are both HIV positive or have gonorrhea or another sexually transmitted disease.  Many relationships that are monogamous don't stay that way forever.  Many times it happens without both partners being aware that the relationship is no longer monogamous.

That was dangerous and a very toxic relationship… better not to have any contact with that guy anymore!

If you think you can have a relationship like the one you had before ok but my advice at any sing of the same old shit run

That's the point, I agree: that it is a fun thing for sexual relationships 

it's a really good dildo

@xamnus: I would sooner date a cis-female than a trans-male. No offence, but I've come across some ftm porn and even though I was intrigued at first it was impossible to be aroused. IT was obvious those are women, no matter how good the surgery was, the chest always looks weird. (have no issue with the vagina though) I'm the opposite. I'm into the everything else except the groin area. Just the sight of a vagina just kills my boner when i tried looking at some FTM porn. i'm not sure about MTF though.

@andergarcia: I was very nervous the first time, too. I thought it was going to hurt as hell, but as suggested I used a lot of lube and even a dildo a bit before… and it wasn't so bad. It hurt, yes, but after a while, the pleasure was higher than the pain. Just relax and enjoy  Relax in every case! ;D

@Kipowen: with so much porn around, it is hard to resist jacking off quite regularly. easy to get turn on with so many videos in the internet. Isn't that an excuse?

@Kipowen: difficult situation. but who knows he may like you too. just be prepared for whatever outcome. Be prepared for every outcome!

@billd28971: like them all ;D

@rufusmc: Started out as a 5, but very soon realised I was a 6. :hug2: ;D

@andergarcia: I met my current partner in grindr two years ago and still together  I had met some others before and most of them were cool, but some others were a bit weirdos: one of them just wanted to fuck (no matter he included in his profile "looking for a relationship"), another one wanted to have a very serious relationshing (after having talked for only 3 hours)… Yeah. I don't think GR is a bad app. Just the guys make excuses sometimes… But if you click you click. Don't get why using an app or otherwise matters.

average 7 times a week but I'm trying to cut down

Talk about it first. It's important that you have set "the rules of the game" before you play. Remember that many fantasies should be just fantasies.

@pols1337: Hi, you're looking for romance on Grindr? I hope you know that during those 4 years while you were texting the love of your life, he was probably getting cornholed by every random Grindr  hottie he could message. I know this sounds blunt, but if you want a normal relationship, then take a step back and first identify the avenues where people might actually be looking for serious and real relationships.  I'm not saying you can't find love on Grindr, but I am saying it is your fault for pinning all your hopes on a Grindr hookup. Can you recommend alternative platforms? Tinder and Hinge and Chappy are the worst…. chat chat chat and never ever meet. At least with GR I get some physical interaction lol.

@SimonSaid: In my case no, I love big/huge guys but I'm planning to remain small myself Me too  ;D