Not a fan of shitdick so I would just kiss wank suck etc

Large ones can look pretty ridiculous. I can not begin to express how unfathomable I find people obsessing about the size of a body part you essentially have no control over. if you're shallow you can do daft stuff to change it, but honestly, who could be bothered?

At grindr, we've been two years now

Don't have to at all. How often do I actually do that is another question. Answer is anything from daily to once in two weeks, depending on whatever.

@ProjectDPM: I am a black guy and I have an obession with cute guys with proper rosy cheeks. i get so turned on by them. Whenever I am out in public and I see a cute lad with rosy cheeks I can't stop looking. I think this has come about from my childhood or something coz I remeber my best friend at school had cute rosy cheeks. lol. Does anyone else like them too or do any guys have rosy cheeks and do you like them or not? Am I weird for getting turned on my red cheeks? Rosy cheeks occur as a result of blood vessels widening near the surface of the skin. In many cases, the body will react like this for benign reasons, such as trying to warm the skin up in cold conditions. However, rosy cheeks can sometimes signify a more severe condition!

Trunks I guess. I never knew what they were called. I definitely hate boxers for sure.

For me, "race" could never play a role. I do have a sexual preference towards some "races", which is purely circumstantial and I am sure it would drastically change if I moved to a country with different demographics, but if he is the one that clicks for me then he is the one. Now in terms of religion, yeah that can be a little tougher to overcome. Thankfully, all religions have (what some people negatively refer to as) "lukewarm" believers that are level-headed.

I also agree with the opinion that if a man has sex with other men, then he is not st8 and there is at least some degree of bisexuality. I have noticed however that the "str8 fantasy" is very common among gay men so whatever floats our boat. I have met and had sex with many men who refused to identify themselves as gay or bisexual. What I have detected is some sort of guilt to them as they consider that sex with a man makes them lesser men. As far as pleasure is concerned, there were times that sex with those men was truly amazing, but there were also times when it was horrible.  I have noticed that that insecurity about their sexuality (thinking that gay sex makes them lesser men) drives them to be more agressive which can be a turn on at times. However most of them refuse or cannot show any sign of emotion, they treat you like a tool, they do not seem to care if you enjoy them and some of them also try to pretend that you are some sort of woman (for example, refering to me as a "woman" or having a "pussy"). Those are major turn-offs for me. I also believe that people who consider sex with straight men to be better by default are aroused mostly by the "turning a straight guy on fantasy". I understand that the idea that a st8 guy would be so attracted by me that he would bend his sexual orientation for me is so arousing that makes sex more pleasurable. This is the reason that there are so many "gay for pay" porn actors. They exploit the "straight man who fucks men" fantasy. But we must be aware that this is just a fantasy. We are not actually "seducing" str8 men, as they are not completly str8. They just refuse to label themselves as gay or bisexual. Thus, having sex with those men does not make us special. We are not that irresistible. If it was not me, they would easily fuck another guy easily. In fact, I couldn't help but notice that those men are more eager to have sex with men than gay guys.

@EchoAxel: @wonderkin: How did you get them into that situation? Are you a professional masseuse? I can get extra flirty with a hot straight guy. They usually like the attention and because there isn't a chance I find it way easier to talk to them (compared to a hot gay guy) I am not, but it was not that hard

@bibob: @gayfotoman: I recently order some fractionated coconut oil off of Amazon. It basically is coconut oil that won't turn into a solid like most coconut oils. I've always used Swiss Navy silicone lube and I have to tell you, this beats it.(pun intended). First, it's a whole lot cheaper to buy than Silicone lube. Coconut oil won't hurt you if swallowed and it's a great moisturizer. You may be able to find it in your local grocery store either in the baking section or in the beauty aids section. Where I live, coconut oil is local made and cheap. As virgin as it gets. Coconut oil turns liquid at body temperature. As it's churned during fucking, it gets smoother. As it  moisturizes, the skin contacts get soothing. One secret of our cheap and crude local coconut oil, it gets some whitish coconut milk mixed in that's good for fragrant coconut rice. However, vigorous fucking will churn it into a whitish cream, looking like fresh cum. It's not condom safe ofc. Virgin.. but not condom safe!  :cry2:

I also like guys older than me by 10+ years, but I'm 21 so it might change when I get older

Firstly, I think it's great that you are indulging your partner's cheese fetish, I'm sure he is going to appreciate it and enjoy it greatly! My cock gets cheesy pretty quickly, here are my tips for getting a lot of smegma : 1. Start with a clean cock, pull your skin back and wash with warm water but no soap. Then once you are dry, have a wank and get your entire cock head covered in cum, then put your skin over and leave for 2-3 days. 2. Have patience and refrain from pulling your skin back at all. Take showers instead of taking a bath and keep your dick pointed down so no water gets under your foreskin. 3. When pissing, pull back just far enough to expose your piss slit. When done, shake very gently, don't pull your dick to get the remaining piss out. If any piss gets under your foreskin it will break down the cheese because it is acidic. 4. When wanking, also don't pull back all the way. BUT when you cum, pull your skin back and get as much cum as possible under your foreskin, then put your foreskin back. Don't wipe the cum off, leave it there as that is what forms most of the cheese over time. 5. It goes without saying, but so sex or getting sucked off by your partner while you are trying to grow it as that will completely wipe it all off. 6. Keep your crotch as warm as possible for the cheese to grow. Wear brief style underwear as this helps to keep things warm and tight. 7. I have found that taking protein supplements makes my dick really cheesy, I think because of the excess protein. I use the whey style protein that you take after working out). It might not work the same for you, but worth a try! 8. The most important thing… PATIENCE! I can't emphasise that enough. The more often you pull back to check, the more air you expose to your cock head and the less the cheese will grow. I hope those tips help, I'd be happy to answer any questions and would also love to know if the tips work! Good Luck!

Never tried any of them 

Let us know if you manage to do it  @fun17: @andergarcia: Maybe watching this… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPrQ-nuHMLo :love:

In the Amazon offices in London, I was there for an engineering talk….

We had been talking for more than 3 months and we had seen each other through the cell phone. We met in Madrid a couple of months before I moved to London (he travelled to Madrid for vacation), and it didn't work because he was too busy all the time with his job and I got bored, actually. @simon92: @andergarcia: I did once: I moved to London, and I was there for a year… but it didn't work. I came back to Spain afterwards. How long did you guys speak for before you moved there? Had you met before hand already? Also why it didn't work out if you don't mind me asking