@umstud19: @jonas32: @umstud19: Yeah, in my experience it usually means one or both are bored to some degree either with the partner or the sex or both. Personally I think 3 somes are hot to watch but not nearly as fun to participate in, invariable someone ends up feeling left out to one degree or other. Never had a threesome with 3 random people, that might be different, but when two out of three are in a relationship of some kind it isn't as hot in practice as you would think. My husband and i have 3somes once in a while with a good friend. And i dont belive we are bored with our sexlive or eatchother. And i have never felt outside, because i have 2 cocks to play with. And i also have 2 holes and 2 hands so no one is left behind As with anything there are always exceptions, it's great that you and your husband are able to pull it off without any adverse effects to your relationship, I would venture to say that most people can't. They are both tops and my husband gets turned to share me and i get to cocks to play with

@hhsq: You may try Tinder. At least it's more focused on dating then sex. pfft not really. @boyjohn: What are the best dating apps out there to meet good quality guys? And by good quality I mean not the kind that send nude pics the second message.  Something that is a little more respectful than that. i don't think those exist. there are bound to be some jackanapes out there and there is still always a chance you will run into them online, since it is online. you could try dating agencies so at least you don't get dick pics…...wait do those still exist? dating agencies i mean.

@enterx: Hi everyone, I've always wanted to try watersports with my bf and recently I told him about my fantasy and he was cool with it. I'd like him to piss all over me  while I do the same to him. Now, the thing is that even thinking about it makes me rock hard that makes it quite impossible for me to piss. Any advice, how do you piss when you cock's hard? I Have to ask my husband how he do it. Because he can piss in my ass while he is hard….

why is there no special place with a little crown for rimming on the list? 

@bimarriedguy: Had a couple experiences while growing up. The first was with a neighbor boy. I had to have been 10 or so at the time and he was a year or two younger. We went into my grandma's spare room and put on some of her dresses and pantyhose, then rubbed against one another. The next time was with my brother around that same time period. He is about 2 years younger than me and we would catch some Skinemax or HBO porn from time to time. We'd get excited with it all and get naked on top of one another, but it all consisted of grinding. The next was a few years later for my brother's birthday party. He, myself and 2 friends played truth or dare. Suffice it to say, but a number of dares involved streaking, grinding and other stupid things while nude. That's about all I can really remember. I can't say I'm proud of any of it, but most of the memories are fairly foggy and I never speak of it. This is my first time ever writing about it all. That must be a whole story!!

the first taste of cum. i'm addicted ever since.

@detroiticus: I finally met up with this hot guy I have been lusting over on grindr for over a year, and it turns out he was in the middle of a week-long binge of little sleep and constant meth use. It was clear he was slightly disorientated at times, and I imagine that he eventually crashed and got back to his job and his life. Question: is it a given that he'll be dead soon? Can people go that long without sleep and not drastically shorten their lives? Maybe if he doesnt stop sooner than later. and like Porky V2 said @porkyV2: but expect him to lose his sex appeal as meth makes people ugly as fuck in the long run. There's a high possibility of him going crazy though as Meth messes with the brains sensitive biochemistry in the long run.  Actually Science has not proven that sleep is absolutely vital to human life, but studies have shown that having little to no sleep as being highly correlated to a shorter life expectancy. Also like Porky V2 said again Meth has been highly correlated to Heart attacks in the younger population, along with cocaine.

Practice and hope you have a high threshold for your gag reflex. oddly enough i can deep throat a dick but still gag with a tooth brush.  :bj2:

i'm not from USA, so i can't say where the rent boys are for you specifically. What a remarkable time you just described, in which i would've like to taken part of at some point. Also seriously high school jocks? damn  :dick: Gone are the days i think you have mentioned. Like most of the others mentioned, i think you'd have to go to a seedy part of the city to find what you're looking for. @pornofan: Certainly the Disneyfication of Times Square turned the whole thing plastic, and whatever peep shows and theaters that exist in the city, if any, have relocated. Maybe gloryholes are policed these days as well. But at least there used to be bars where horny guys would gather to meet friendly older men for an evening. In Los Angeles, John Rechy called it "The City of Night," but there may be no such place left on earth. Not exactly…..you could go to third world countries. there is a very good chance of you finding what you're looking for there. I speak as someone unrelated to the oldest profession, but someone who lives in a third world country. Though i'm not exactly thrilled to be someone promoting sex tourism..... I think Gay Gogo bars are the remnants of what you just described, but considering it's a gogo bar there's a good chance it'll turn into a sugar daddy type thing than the more casual thing you so eloquently explained. i really think i would've liked being a teenager at the time you keep alluding to. Though considering the whole Plague thing.........

@dpetry: What? You won't have a relationship experience with someone you pay because since you're paying them, it will be forced. You can pay to fuck, but you can't pay and expect something close to an honest relationship. No shit sherlock. I'm not doing it because i want a relationship with the call-boy. I'm doing it so i can have an entertaining comfortable time with someone one which ends in assured sexy time, with none of the hassle or let downs of a hook-up. Besides my past few hook-ups have been disappointing to say the least. i need a palate cleanser of sorts. @brianboru72: I agree that you can't pay for an honest experience- it will be an illusion- BUT- depending on the person you pay and how well you plan it out, it seems to me that it's possible to create enough of basics of the relationship experience. They can do the things with you that you'd expect a boyfriend to do- be good company, laugh at your jokes, and hold your hand as you go for a walk. which is exactly what i'm after right now. something to temporarily distract me from all the stress these past few months. a fake brief relationship wherein i can enjoy the benefits of having company i can have sex with but none of the hassle of actually maintaining a relationship. @brianboru72: In fact, the geisha of Japan have turned this into a whole art form of sorts. yeah yeah we all watched memoirs of a geisha.  :blownose: @GabrielK: A friend of mine hired a callboy for this for a long term engagement (not to confuse with a houseboy arrangement). In this friend's case it was his way to get back into the saddle after a serious heart operation and he experienced erectyle disfunction and serious trust issues in general. For him it was something that helped him getting his groove back successfully. wow i hope your friend made a full recovery. i get the first 2 conditions being connected but why the trust issues?

I tend to avoid thinking about exes in that way for the most part. It stirs things up. Although I do have the occasional bit of nostalgia and fantasize about the guy I hooked up with for the first time. We were each others first time and it was hot while it lasted.  ;D

1-2 times a day

For one million … I think YES, but first I need a better body

@humandoormat: always be on top :crazy2: :crazy2: ;D @detroiticus: Loosen up with a dildo on your own beforehand. Learn to recognize the sensation of your 2nd sphincter, the involuntary one. Use much more lube than you think you need! ::) Tell us your experience afterwards!

My husband works at home as a farmer, so…..YES! Big time! Love him in his overalls and naked beneath it. Or when he works in tight jeans and barechested

For me it is power bottom when my husband is on back (for instance) and i fuck him with my ass….

@detroiticus: I have never eaten ass, although I have licked around the general area a few times before. My biggest two issues are that it does nothing for me in terms of arousal, and the "ew" factor. But I have met a few guys with really hot furry asses and I would like to give it a try, if I can be sure it's absolutely clean. I would basically need it to taste faintly soapy in order to feel like it's fully clean. Any advice on getting past this? When i first did it (my husband took my virginty way back in 1992. I have had others in 3some, but we have been together ever since) i had tthe same feeling as you "ew". But i was at the same time freaking horny because i did it. Today i love to rim my husband in a 69. I dont care if he fresch from shower or after a long day. And i absolutley love when he rims me. He is top/ im bottom

The book Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms (2004) goes into detail about ways to shorten or eliminate the refractory period.

It gave me explosive diarrhea. I ended up trying viagra instead. The pills are not cheap, but if I take 1/4 the normal dose, 25 mg, it does everything it needs to do. A little ibuprophen to stave off the headache, and everything is fine.