Timely Delivery - Closing Words & Such Before anything… A thank you to all of you and the interest to have you read this–with a special thank you to those responding! In addition to whatever else, without doubt, there is a bit of irony here. A brief explanation came with the card I received from him yesterday. Apologizing, saying he had to "move on"–it also mentioned the return of some things and a package was on its way to me. The photo shown in the image below was one of the items in the package. The package came about an hour ago--ironically, yet somehow fitting with it all--the gift arriving today…today being my birthday. Oh well. ??? [image: 100820_Years%20ago%E2%80%A6I%20had%20fewer%20gray%20hairs--he%20had%20fewer%20pounds!.jpg]

@mendelsol: Hmm, let's see Fucked me: A plunger's end Marker A wooden spatula's end I fucked: The couch pillows Banana peel (not sure if this counts) A diy fleshlight Bed A stuffed toy socks A shoe That's all i could remember and most of these were back in my younger days. socks n shoes? what have i missed here >:D need to know more details of those experiences from u

@yaet: Also, it depends on your location. When I installed Grindr, it was full of young gym rats in my city. I stood out like a sore thumb there and was certainly overlooked. I switched to Scruff. Much more comfortable there.   Although it's starting to become the case the Scruff is young gym rats with beards.

@geox: You should cut it loose. Not worth the effort and time. The emotions will be there as always but, you need to love again and be loved. Don't get hung up on situations like this. Plenty of beautiful fishes in the sea. Go look.  :hug:

Never happened to me once but whenever I'm on the train and its really crowded and there's a really cute guy nearby, I try to go near him and just go elbow to elbow tryin' to bask in his warmth and get hard.

awesome experience i should know :)) we did it in one of the Bathroom stalls from work. to not make it awkward is easy.  simply never mention it and go on acting exactly the same as you were before i happened. after all work is work and what you guys did in your own time is another thing.  if it should happen again it will as long as you keep cool

I think it's so funny that a lot of people pick handsome face because they claim the body can be changed as if it were a cakewalk. If you take a look around, you'll find it's much easier to find a handsome face than a muscular defined body…

Doggy so the bottom can arch and turn around and kiss the top or the top can kiss lick bite the bottoms neck. I hate missionary because i don't like eye contact.

@spam17: @easun2hk: Lovely members, 29 years old Chinese guy here looking for Cross Culture Romance. 172cm, 60kg with a gym fit body. Love languages (can speak Mandarin, Cantonese, Spanish, German, a bit French, Russian & Arabic), hiking, climbing, working out, swimming, boating, skating, skiing and scuba diving. Originally from mainland, currently living and working in HK. Don't mind long distance if we match. Feel free to PM me so that we can exchange contacts. Thank you! Wow! You cover a lot of different languages..    :love: Hehe, how about you?

Black Velvet

Argentiniand, caucasian and I'm mostly attracted to mid-eastern, mixed and latino, said that I've dated very different people so far the only thing I haven't done yet is another caucasian.

@rickydrexel: Do you still consider a guy straight after you've fucked him? I have been doing this guy for almost a year now, and he still identifies as straight, which is cool by me. But wondering if anyone has had a similar situation?? Hell no, you wouldn't have sex with him in the first place if he were a real straight person, now, I don't to even go there to the whole "if he's top, is he less gay?" think for it's silly to say the least, they have to accept themselves and that's it.

I was married for 15 years, and I cheated a lot, I think he pretended not to notice, he doesn't like sex. I was the one who broke up because I was in love with him, but I was not satisfied sexually. My guess is you'll eventually cheat or break up, there's no right or wrong answer, since it's your life and nobody's else. Now, I look for relationships where I can satisfy my sexual needs and that I don't have to cheat, not an easy task. 

@Domosuke: I would also not have your standards high like that. You dream guy might not be buff or a jock, but he will still love you. Couldn't agree more. Everyone would love to date a hot, chiseled, sexy guy, but sometimes, that only happens in the movies (or porn). For me, I love rugby guys, but the guys I date have been skinny, chubby, tall, short… Expand your horizons and you may have more luck. Let us know how you get on  :hug:

I had a few gay friends, male and female, at University, but we kinda lost contact, and now I speak to them online once a year if that. I tried to be friends with a guy I was dating afterward, but he kept wanting sex and I wasn't into it, so that stopped too. I'm happy with the straight friends I have - our personalities and likes match, and that's all I'm looking for in friends. Sexual orientation doesn't bother me.

duh.

I find that all cock sizes having something great about them :- The smaller ones can really bang the prostate like mad, The larger ones go in deeper a really cause a great stretch. The important thing to me is that it is bareback, and that all tops shoot their cum into me.

NO

No! And i have no wish to do it.

@rfh005: I don't like amateur porn. I know it's more realistic, but the image quality is awful and the guys are not sexually attractive as a professional pornstar. There are some porn from independent companies that I really appreciate, it depends on the actors. But I'm definitely in love with big companies' porn. It's almost a masterpiece. The bodies, the sexual dinamism, the camera positions, lighting, acting, everything. It's better than in real life.  :cheers: I like amateur. Just for the same reason: more realistic and ninhibited. I think that many commercial vids are very good, depending on the actors. However most are stereotyped and unrealistic. Cheers