@kraykid Im into all kinds of shiny shorts. Love the feel an looks.

@martin526 & bi4smooth I agree with what's been said above, especially the "pulling out before you cum" stunt. One peeve of mine is bored actors. I realize that it's a paying job, and one actor might not be turned on by another actor...but hey, guys, you are acting. Act like you're enjoying it even if you aren't, but don't overdo it. Then there's lack of communication between actors. Yes, we know that the reason you switched from doggy style to missionary is because the director told you to. But again, it's acting: Have the bottom say, "I want to try it on my back." Also, let's be creative: It seems that 90% of the time the bottom sucks the top's cock first, and then maybe the top reciprocates before they start fucking. How about switching it up more 50/50 so we can be a little surprised at the outcome (so to speak). While top/bottom identification can be obvious from the start when there's some "macho" guy paired with an effeminate twink, if it's two Fratmen-type guys, leave us in suspense for a while. On a more general level, these problems don't occur as much in purely home-made porn. The lighting and camera angles aren't as good, but real people having real sex often make better videos than the "professionals." Maybe the pro directors need to get laid more often.

@martin526 said in I want to have sex with all men I’m attracted to: Anytime I meet a meet another gay man I’m attracted to, I instantly want to fuck them. It’s hard to have friendships with gay men, because I want to have sex with each one I come across. Whenever I hang out with another gay male, especially if they’re attractive, I can’t help but feel a sexual tension, and sometimes, it feels like they feel the same. There’s certain actions, the ways we look at each other, it feels like our eyes are screaming rip my clothes off grab my neck and kiss me. I would love to have more friendships based off common interests, but the common interests make me feel even closer to them, and then I want to have sex with them. Does anyone else have trouble like this with their male friendships? There is a difference between "attraction," "desire," and "action." I am attracted to a LOT of men... that attraction translates into DESIRE in some of them (that is, I might actually DO something to meet or converse with them)... and sometimes I'm luck enough that the desire turns to ACTION. If I am single (and I am currently), or I'm otherwise NOT in a monogamous relationship, the number of guys I sleep with is purely a personal choice. These are the days of online hookups after all! Never let someone shame you with words like "slut" just because you get more sex than they do! Consenting adults can fuck whomever and as often as they like! We are PROGRAMMED (genetically) to like sex - without that programming, we would have been an extinct species a LONG LONG time ago! However, when there IS a relationship in play, my desires should NEVER turn to action - out of respect for my partner (and myself). I can control my desires (to a point - I have been seduced before!), and if I lose that control (say, I'm too drunk to stop myself) I usually regret it. Still, if you cannot control your desires, you may need counseling. There is nothing wrong with needing or seeking counseling (I have found it extremely helpful at various times in my life!) FWIW - I'm "easy" when I'm single... I've had sex with 4 different guys (not an orgy - separate "encounters") in a 24-hour period before! But that is a rarity... these days (COVID days) I'm lucky to get laid more than 3-4 times a month. (Oh the pain, says Dr. Smith! ) But I think your question ALSO goes to mixing friendship with sexual activity. And that can be a tricky thing... BUT, in my experience, so long as you discuss and agree on the "limits", there shouldn't be problems (though there always will be - as with any friendship). What kind of discussion? Will this be a one-time thing? Or are we gonna be FWB? If we do this, are we gonna still just be friends, or will we be lovers? If "just friends", are we both clear we're not looking to BECOME "lovers"? Or are one or both of us open to this growing into more? You get the idea... TALK about it! (My current "candidate" for a boyfriend needs to be trained to talk about HIS wants and needs... he keeps it all bottled up inside him... I'm not clairvoyant (not even in drag!)... he's gotta tell me what works best for him and what doesn't! LOL Communication is REQUIRED for good sex AND for good friends! Why wouldn't it ALSO be needed for a good FWB?

@kamyk said in Advice for sucking cock and breathing: @kekkaishi If it really is your thing (and it's partially a thing of mine too) realize this: There are many people who do things like swim or dive, or other things of that sort who practice holding their breath. Some can hold their breath for up to two minutes, Some even longer, although that is not the norm. And of course, they are not forcibly inserting something down their throat at the same time, which complicates learning the technique. It is partially about breathing, learning to pull off far enough to get a lungful before going back down, but also about extending the time you can hold your breath. I am able to deep throat for about 1 minute before having to back off enough to get some air in through my nose at least. There is also a reason why you see people in porn lick around the head and shaft a minute, or rub it on their cheek, before continuing, and it's not purely cock worship. Also, if the idea is not abhorrent to you, some people like to make you gag, both for the feeling of control, and because it makes your throat tighten around their dick. You can also learn to control the gag reflex caused by choking, at least far enough that you don't throw up. Either way, gag or not, as the person above says, practice makes perfect. At 57 years young, I've never believed I had enough practice... I always need to "work on my technique"

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@kekkaishi Bareback started out as a gay term, but I would say most younger people in the west know what it means. Bareback can be used for either gay or hetero, despite its original meaning of unprotected anal sex.

@kekkaishi same

@nikolaos84 said in Testimonial from a boy who got gangraped in prison: There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. I have been fantasising about being gang raped in a prison or military. I have also read that the rape fantasy is very common in both males and females. Porn exist to exploit these fantasies. But porn does not depict a realistic situation. It is edited to be viewed as very hot and arousing. Reality however is different. Being sexually exploited without your consent is a crime it is not pleasant, it is violent and it has nothing to do with porn or what you have in your mind. ============== I guess in the old days, gays fap to this type of porn that require lots of imagination. In this age of porn online, this is tldr; not only r there plenty of porn videos for straight to the point fucking, there's plenty of variety to choose from too. Sure, reality is different but there's role playing. Sometimes it's almost too real if you dare to. Rape is violent without consent. I've being literally violently raped without consent. But then being at that kind of cruising park late at night, I'm obviously looking for sex. Maybe that's his thing bc he grabbed me unexpectedly, I thought he's gonna rob me so I fought back. He banged my head against the tree trunk. Though the trunk was soft, I was dazed. He literally tore off my t-shirt and pulled off my shorts. I remember his hot panting breathe on the back of my neck as he got his arms around me vice-like and pounded me with urgency. Smell of alcohol beyond legal limits maybe explained his behavior. Maybe that's not acceptable to most but just so happen I'm the willing victim. He didn't know and he didn't care. I played along with the pretended hurting and the "no,no,no...don't hurt me, you can take my money.." He never let up, banged my head against the tree to shut me up. That hurts, that's real. Then he hugged me tightly and deposited his load into me. I could feel every shudder of his orgasm. That stimulated me close to my orgasm. I was about to orgasm when he again grabbed my head, I was afraid he'll bang my head against the tree trunk and I covered my face with my hands. No, he flung me to the ground instead. With my shorts around my ankles, I was too tangled up to balance myself. I fell heavily onto the soft ground while I suddenly orgasm-ed, spewing sperm. In the dim lights he didn't see it. He gave me a hard kick on my butt side and walked off. In the heat of the warm night, I was dizzy enjoying the orgasm. It was intense, I was aware what triggered it. I'm an old man. An easy target to be bullied. He's that type.

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@kekkaishi said in Pozzing and Stealthing: Recently I've come across the terms "Pozzing" and "Stealthing" which basically is intentionally infecting a bottom with HIV/ADIS. Is this more of a buzz word? It makes me wonder if most bareback porn is considered pozzing or the actors perform tests prior to fucking bareback? (depends on the studio of course) have you ever been knowingly pozzed or unknowingly stealth-pozzed? what are your thoughts on the matter? These terms (as well as the term "bug-chaser") were far more common pre-PrEP. Porn studios today strongly encourage their actors to use (be on) PrEP - not just for their own protection, but also to alleviate "tension" on the set. Mind you, they still test - but when everyone in the scene is on PrEP (which implies being HIV-, and being regularly tested for HIV so that you can remain on PrEP), there is far less "trust" needed...

The Dorm Room Education scene from Encounters: The Heat of the Moment (Lucas Entertainment) with Blu Kennedy and Danny Bitho is still one of the hottest scenes I've ever seen. The sexual tension is so palpable. It's a really intense scene.

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@andergarcia There are lots of things you can do together, out of the house, that don't have to be in groups. My ex and I used to, for example: picnic in the park - for no special reason go for long walks around the neighborhood (we used to walk our dog together) go to the beach (or lake or river)... late at night! We used to put our beach chairs in the surf and have long, deep conversations. Once, we lost track of time and didn't get home until close to 3AM! Drive - and play your own version of carpool karaoke (our rules were that we got to pick our own songs on the way there, but pick each other's songs on the ride home!) if you're into it, play a board-game or card game together (David loved to play Uno!) we had a noisy and busy household (6 of my kids lived with us!) - so, sometimes we'd get fast food and just park somewhere... stay in the car and eat our meal with just us... I don't know if you live (or sleep) together, but for David and I, we never ever - even in the midst of fights - went to bed without saying I LOVE YOU (although it was sometimes: I still love you!). Additionally, we never left the house without saying goodbye and I love you....

I'm a switch hitter! Jerking off with the "non-primary" hand (in my case, as a right-handed person, that would mean my left is non-primary) almost feels like someone else is doing it - which is preferable! I like to switch tho... jerk right for a bit, then switch... HOWEVER, I almost always CUM holding it in my RIGHT hand!

Not often enough, maybe twice a week if lucky. Always the top

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Even if you can't, you should keep going for your partner who hasn't finished yet I have little respect for those that once they cum, they leave me hanging and I am forced to jerk off to ejaculation…. I never once stopped after I came before my partner

@phucknphreak: But back then I had certain hang ups about my hole, I thought once it started to show any signs of wear and tear from all the hundreds of guys and all the thousands of fuck it would be considered used up, and less desired. I, for the most part, have always preferred a visibly used hole