Here are some questions that need to be answered first: Are you sure he is gay? nothing in your description mentions that. Are you sure that he is over the age of consent? realy you need to be extra careful about that. Suppose that he is gay and legal. Had he any sexual experiences before? The answer to this question leads to a different approach. Now, approaching him depends on many factors, for example how open he is to older guys, the environment and social cycle etc. If you the town you live is a small town, and not very gay friendly, this could have severe consequences. 18 is still considered too young by some parents and it may cause drama. Check his social media status and try to figure out were he stands. This is a good and safe start. Again, be sure that he is over the age of consent.

@pornofan By what I've read, it really depends on person to person, there's so much difference between one person to the other that it's hard to say with certainty. The refractory time is really person dependent, can be 1 hour, can be 12 or even more. Now to go back to full sperm count it's somewhere between 2-5 days. And around 1 week the body discards the old and replenishes it regardless of having came. Now to my personal experience. Yes the more you abstained from sex/masturbation the hornier you get, I think most people work that way, but then again the sex drive is different to everyone, some people don't even have any. The cum amount definitely increases with time, I'd say for me is around 3 days to be the fullest. But sometimes only by being horny I already get a bigger load, so it's a combination of psychological and physical. So yeah, I think it's a lot person dependent, so you can't just say a specific number and call it a day, I think you should learn how your own body works.

Yes, I had and I really enjoyed.

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@ianfontinell Your definitely right about this. Cause this one guy says to me that he wants me to slow down and do it slow. I also found out that some guys like a little teeth stroking the head of their penises too.

@Kekkaishi Well, how could one ever surpass the fascination of: https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/58460/what-is-this-called-or-what-terminology-i-use-to-find-it-on-online-shopping?_=1663618054601 Must go, as I feel a strange fatigue coming on: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szGmZAPsILQ

@Bigfella

I'm far from a prude, but from my perspective, public sex -- in venues like store bathrooms, gyms, highway rest stops, and urban parks to name a few -- is inappropriate. Often enough, the participants are caught by surprise, while others find a thrill in the occasional exposure. In either scenario, when public sex acts subject other people to an unexpected and unwanted experience, it's sexual harassment. These third parties who stumble in on such antics can be parents with small children, for example. Watch public sex fantasies as porn, if it suits you. But in today's real world -- with the Internet, clubs and other ways to hook up -- it's time to move on.

There's a masseur in Manchester I'd love to visit. He massages whilst naked and doesn't mind his customers getting hard!

Bareback is so much better than condoms. But condoms are safer. It is a very annoying dilemma

I think it depends on what kind of homophobia... Like, it might be strictly moral, but still a place where you're not legally persecuted. In most countries it's common to have clubs and other places specifically for gay men, which are much safer spaces than any app could be. That being a possibility, that's pretty much the best start. But if it's not the case and the only way you have to get to meet gay people nearby is through dating apps, I think you should explore that. It might be much harder and frustrating than meeting people personally, but not impossible. Gotta be really careful because homophobia is cultural, if it's a really homophobic coutry that behavior will also be noticeable in gay men, one of the benefits of dating apps is that people are much more honest about what they hate.

@lmixxo I don't think what you're describing is "whoring out" someone in my opinion. In your specific example of Czech Hunter, never have I thought it an example of it. What I was referring to is very similar to the first post by @sissyphos. Being whored out not by your own choice, but by the chose of your partner/owner/master. The czech hunter guys choose to do it of their own free will. No one if "forcing" it upon them. In regards to the porn I saw (a few times). It was obviously a fantasy, and it was so long ago that I hardly remember anything. But, the depiction was as such: A master who had owned a slave has decided to let his slave be used by his friends and strangers. The slave was laying on a sling and the master was beside him (I think) and one after another men would come and fuck him.

simple yes hairy wolfies >>>>>>>

str8 men that have sex with men? this does not makes sense. I had sex with several married men who identify as str8 but they are so eager to have sex with a man. Well they need to accept the fact that they are bisexual if not gay at all. Generally speaking, my experience with married men did not leave me with good memories. Yes sex was hot sometimes, but their identity issues does not let them be totaly relaxed. Also, it pisses me off when most of them express homophobic opinions which I find both hypocritical and intolerant. In conclusion, I have decided to avoid those kind of men. Why? I feel that they are selfish. They think that we exist only to please them, but when it comes to equality they are against us.

It is very sad that you are involved in such a difficult and risky situation. I believe that maybe you should consult with a lawyer (find a friendly one) and conisder the possibility of legal action. Also check if there are organizations and NGOs that provide support to victims of abuse and ask them if they can help you.

@1983 I certainly do have a thing for soccer/football gears. Guys in socks and cleats are my favourite. Man they are incredibly hot 🥵