@wohdin: Doesn't Argentina have gay marriage? I think you should probably not worry so much. Find a guy who isn't ultra-hyper-omega-closeted and just go get laid mang. Of course, you should always practice safe sex as well, especially with hook-ups. But sex isn't something you should stress over. I know it might sound kinda weird but I live in a small city, where my taste in men is quite hard to satisfy. The men I find very attractive are straight and the gay ones I meet are all twinks / dark skinned / not attractive in my eyes. I'm just saying that they're not in my "to do" list, lol. If I lived in a big place like "Buenos Aires", well, there might be more chances to get laid for me I guess. I'm just too picky, but it's just my taste you know. Coming back to the main subject of this post. I've been talking with the guy I mentioned before when I started this post. For what I understand, he's a very busy guy. Working almost 24/7 and he's got a girlfriend, so I can't text him first. He told me that he haven't met another guy, he only texts me when he can and always sends me pictures of his cute butt. Last night he asked me to come to his place but it was midnight and it's risky to go outside when it's very late so I obviously refused. I would keep asking him to meet him in a public place when it's not too late. I still don't know if anything is going to happen between us someday. I really don't care if he has a girlfriend as long as she doesn't find out and I get fucking laid. So that's it guys, for now I think.

You did well 

Ahh, welcome to the world of one sided love. Minerboh, it's favorite resident, welcomes you!

I have this weirdest fetish to play naked outdoor in the heavy rain. As kids, we used to strip naked and play in the heavy rain at a big playground with lots of trees, shrubs and a big grass field. There's a big drain at the side of the playground that swelled with the flooding rain water and we'll jump into the fresh clean water to catch small fishes. We were all hale and healthy kids without catching a cold. Of course we were totally unaware of sex then and never thought about it. That's what made it so fun, being naked is so innocent, free and easy. Unlike now as adults, that sex organ creates tension and unease even among a group gay men wondering about to tease or to sex? So unlike most gays who go for nude suntan, I'll go to a sauna rooftop for nude rain drenching. :surprise: at the roof deck. But I'll first heat myself up in the hot sauna before laying down, feeling the cold rain drops pelting down on my skin and causing my contracting surface blood vessels to force blood to rush to my head and interior. I feel a euphoric rush to my head and ahem…to my engorged organ. I don't care if guys watching would think I'm weird laying naked in the heavy rain with a big hard on. They think that I'm just an exhibitionist.

Like the religious right says, "it's all just a choice," so ditch the bitch, flip the switch, and start banging your buddies, straight guys! Seriously, though, this isn't new or unprecedented - they're asking a different question (the key word is "mostly") and men feel more free to be honest in today's society. There was a time in parts of American society when male homosexuality was perfectly okay as long as one was the top. Read George Chauncey's "Gay New York," for example.

lube+dildo+more lube :cheesy2:

If you do opt for the douche, do it a couple of hours before the fuck and not much more then that, otherwise the efficience starts to expire.

It looks a lot like he's got the flesh piece of a fleshlight down his throat. You can take out the inside of one for cleaning, and the piece that's in his mouth isn't as large around as the casing makes it look. Could still be something else, that's just what it looks like at first glance though. Did you see it in a video? If so, I'd be curious to watch… 

Have you considered moving to a big city? Big cities are the natural habitats of gays. We do not really adapt quite well in the country…

@ckslad: what's the naughtiest place you've ever done it? church cementary at midnight against a tombstone. My husband and i live next door to a church and one night we was a little tipsy and very horny so we went to the church with only our robes on and nothing else…..

@TinyAsian: I have never been out on a date but sometimes I chat with people online, when do you think it's safe to meet with them face to face? Exchanging Snapchats, becoming friends on different social networks, or videochatting through Skype or another video platform can be good ways to get a reassurance for meeting them. :afr:

@notquiteme: Very sensible, brandon. Actually i've never been attracted to girls… ever.  I also don't think it's abnormal.  I mean undesirable if it were to become a majority of the population, because then we'd die out due to lack of offspring.  But it is by no means unnatural, because you're just responding to your person/gut/libido.  If it were abnormal there wouldn't be so many of us, and dating back millennia. The thing about population dying off is untrue. Gay men and lesbian women (as well as asexuals) can and are biological parents. You can copulate with someone even if you are not attracted to their gender or you could use artificial means. Look at Oscar Wilde or Malcolm Forbes. Both gay and they fathered children through sex.

this is a nice story

i love pain and humiliation, please do it for me

I love the dominated and enjoy constant anal sex.  I love being fucked and when I'm sandwiched - I moan like a proper bitch.  Hurt me big boy.  :anal2: :gs: :ride: :missio:

I feel ya, but seriously, I don't think we should change our appearance for other people. Let me give a something like an example, if I am in a loving relationship, sure my friend would like me for my looks, but also he should like me for my character and everything connected to that. And I think the character and all are more important than the looks. Now do not forget that time changes us, and if for example I would get wrinkles, or get very lean, or very fat, my partner should still love me for my character and soul and all. Of course, it can be very normal that if we are overweight and all our partners(if they do trully love us) they should point it out to us politely and tell us to fix it for health issues and not for appearance issues… (Keep in mind I cannot express myself very easy in english, I hope I made my self clear and didn't offend anyone) But overall it is us who should love our bodies and image.

I have used tingling lube, but it is certainly not the best when using big toys and all… They are ok for sex and normal to small toys... When used on my penis tho they make me loose my erection...

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