@Kekkaishi I don't do that stuff, but an optometrist I know tried it. The guy who showed up at his door looked nothing like the guy in the profile picture. The optometrist laughed at him and shut the door in his face. The guy he shut the door on then went online and was saying the optometrist had AIDS. So much easier to stay home, and jack off to a video. A similar thing hapened with bisexual actor Brad Pitt. He called upon the late pornstar Cameron Fox to service him. Brad was not happy that Cameron had aged and was not in good condition, so he paid him $250 and said he was not interested. It was not long after that when we first heard of a split between Brad and Angelina Jolie, which is ironic, because Angelina will fuck anything that moves, including her own brother.

Thanks for all the replies. I will set my logi mouse to play/pause while also checking out Stream Deck.

@Kekkaishi Just go to the LGBT section in the Kindle bookstore on Amazon and get all the free books they offer. Once you read them, you will figure out what types of stuff you like and which authors you enjoy. Then start with their cheap offers, since many authors have books for below $1.

@Kekkaishi If you include a shirtless selfie, you are likely to get LOTS of replies! lol

@jrewingwanna you are correct sir, but you can discuss other things besides porn, and also this is the only forum I'm active on

@Kekkaishi It is normal. It takes a couple of days getting used to.

@MrMazda thanks!

I personally just shower after a workout and head home. Shaving, moisturizing etc I do all at home, but as much as convenience of not having to bring it all with me to the gym as self-consciousness doing it in front of others. I see guys doing the full shave, teeth-brushing, etc routine in the locker room tho. Seems like overkill to me, but I don't know what their circumstances are, so maybe they have a good reason for it.

Both your brain and the porn are working as intended. It's hard for some people to realize that porn is a drug like any other, that you get self gratification from it like any drug and yes, you can get addicted. This addiction can present itself in many many ways, not all of them will be as harmful as completely killing your will to have real sex, but it can happen. There are two conflicting discourses that are popular in our current time. One saying that porn is actually good for you, that it gets you to discover and explore new things, that it's liberating, etc. And the other saying it's actually the opposite, that you should avoid it completely. Thing is, just like any drug, the frequency and amount will be key factors to what negative impact it'll have in your body. Quitting any drug is hard, but sometimes it's neccessary. As an addiction, you put a considerable amount of your thoughts and free time into using that drug, the primary thing to successfully rehab yourself is to occupy your mind and your free time with something else. You can go out with friends, go to the gym, run, binge watch movies or TV shows, start playing a new game, all sorts of things. The act of downloading and watching porn becomes just an habit after some time, you just do it and that's it. That's until you stop, then you'll definitely feel super important, you'll feel like you're missing out on good porn that you might never come across again, all sorts of thoughts like this. But just like any habit, it's just a matter of consistency and time. Whatever you pick to override your addiction, make it something you enjoy and are able to do with the same frequency that you watch porn.

@Kekkaishi I almost never like what I sound like.

@Kekkaishi There's your problem. Your torrent client is reporting that you are using port 64789, so either you have to change the port number in your torrent client or in your router and make sure that your computer has a static IP address on your home network. This can either be done in the router itself in the DHCP settings by binding the MAC address to an IP address, or can be done on your computer locally. If you take the latter option, you need to make sure that the static IP address you assign your computer is OUTSIDE the DHCP range. I cannot stress that enough.

@malcomma You may need to use a VPN to access it in that case sadly.

@Kekkaishi Very simple...the day of your massage, stick to a liquid diet. No solid food. Especially with a late evening appointment.

@Kekkaishi Well, how could one ever surpass the fascination of: https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/58460/what-is-this-called-or-what-terminology-i-use-to-find-it-on-online-shopping?_=1663618054601 Must go, as I feel a strange fatigue coming on: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szGmZAPsILQ

I'm far from a prude, but from my perspective, public sex -- in venues like store bathrooms, gyms, highway rest stops, and urban parks to name a few -- is inappropriate. Often enough, the participants are caught by surprise, while others find a thrill in the occasional exposure. In either scenario, when public sex acts subject other people to an unexpected and unwanted experience, it's sexual harassment. These third parties who stumble in on such antics can be parents with small children, for example. Watch public sex fantasies as porn, if it suits you. But in today's real world -- with the Internet, clubs and other ways to hook up -- it's time to move on.

@Kekkaishi I know a guy who did it for a lower budget shoot in the UK. Professional, but they go through a lot of guys. I honestly wouldn't do it unless you're wearing a mask and it's your kink. Also, make sure you're on PreP and you check the tests of your partners, lots of horror stories.

There's a masseur in Manchester I'd love to visit. He massages whilst naked and doesn't mind his customers getting hard!

The gentleman above me has answered beautifully already, but I'll just complement by adding that: if you are not currently downloading anything and yet you see downloads occupying your DL slots that means you have only partialy downloaded a torrent, if you want it to stop occupying such space you have to either select all files or remove it from seeding queue altogether.