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    Are you the only gay person in your family?

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      USHorizon
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      @harry3500:

      Openly or closeted? I guess you wouldn't know if someone was closeted in your family.

      I'm out. Took a while. On my mom's side, I also have two queer female cousins. One is more out and open than the other and one older gay cousin who isn't out. He's from an older generation, so I don't think he'll ever come out. But if he did, no one would be surprised.

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        Gianni89
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        Well if we are talking openly then yeah. I'm it. Although I have to laugh because most people still can't wrap their heads around it because I don't "act" gay.. thanks to sitcoms like "Will & Grace" they apparently all think ALL gay guys act like Jack. They were all betting my youngest brother was gay for sure because he totally fits that stereotype. I do have one long estranged uncle on my Father's side who was totally under homo-suspicion, he was very strange and evasive when My Father would go to visit him, would never allow him to stay with him or even come to his house.

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          kivoki
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          yes my older brother is gay and we are happy 😄

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            NickJakobs
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            As far as i know yes. But i think one of my cousan is for sure. It wouldn't suprise me let me put it that way.

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              987654
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              One cousin is out, but we have no relationship, he's always been closed off.
              Have a second cousin or whatever in the closet, saw him on Grindr.

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                ckslad
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                Yes

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                  marow
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                  yes, it seems so… I'm out and accepted tho so not complaining

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                    rossoneri
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                    yes

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                      kulope
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                      Yes, definitely I am!

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                        tiptoe88
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                        No, i have a couple of cousins that are openly gay and some closeted cases lol

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                          coolparty123
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                          yes

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                            A Former User
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                            Not by a long shot lol!

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                              jkronfuss
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                              No, both my parents' first cousins are gay too.

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                                raju82
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                                Yes, as far as I know I am the only gay in the family also in the closet. But I do suspect another cousin of mine is also a gay. But we never speak about such topics in the family.

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                                  gayaznboi22
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                                  I honestly don't know.  I only know family from my mother's side with regards to my generation and my mom's siblings.  All of them are straight.  Though to be fair, they are traditional Chinese folk who grew up in 1960's Hong Kong/coastal China.  There was an expectation that the children would marry and birth children to carry on the family name.  Hard to say then if any are gay or at least bi.

                                  Though with my brother, I once got onto his computer that he left on and looked at his email.  He posed as a woman and asked for dick pics.  I don't know if it was an experimental thing or if he has had a taste of dick before; I honestly couldn't say.  Granted this was years ago and he's now engaged to his girlfriend, so maybe he is bi or was simply curious.  Or maybe even bored and wanted to catfish some guys.

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                                    bearbearbear
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                                    @gayaznboi22:

                                    Though with my brother, I once got onto his computer that he left on and looked at his email.  He posed as a woman and asked for dick pics.  I don't know if it was an experimental thing or if he has had a taste of dick before; I honestly couldn't say.  Granted this was years ago and he's now engaged to his girlfriend, so maybe he is bi or was simply curious.  Or maybe even bored and wanted to catfish some guys.

                                    It's safe to assume that he wanted dick pics.  Can't think of many realistic motives for that besides looking at pics of dicks but it is interesting that he didn't just search for dick pics and asked for them instead.  Seems to indicate a higher and more specific level of interest to catfish and ask for them.

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                                      semurg30
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                                      My dad's half sister was a lesbian. Sort of.

                                      My aunt has been married twice both times to men. But during the 12 year gap between marriage 1 and 2 she said she was a lesbian and had 2 girlfriends.

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