@Thebigmattb
Making friends is essentially a process of mutual attraction and gradual connection, so don't put too much pressure on yourself.
First, just keep a positive and upright set of values. This is the foundation of getting along with others, and most people actually have this covered, so you don't have to worry about it.
Second, enrich your knowledge and broaden your horizons. The more you experience, the easier it will be for you to find common topics with different people.
Third, learn to listen carefully to others and guide conversations gently. Responding well is far more pleasant than talking nonstop.
At the same time, always respect others' personal boundaries—don't pry into their privacy or force them to cater to you. This is a crucial rule in getting along.
Most importantly, be sincere. There's no need to pretend or force yourself to please others. Get along slowly if you click, and let it go if you don't.
Of course, you should also stay properly vigilant. There's an old Chinese saying: Never intend to harm others, but never let your guard down against them.
Finally, just relax. Making friends is never a task; you'll slowly meet like-minded people in time.
P.S. English isn’t my native language, so please forgive me if my wording sounds a bit odd. My English isn’t very good after all.
