<![CDATA[Are you the only gay person in your family?]]>Openly or closeted? I guess you wouldn't know if someone was closeted in your family.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/34570/are-you-the-only-gay-person-in-your-familyRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 08:37:44 GMTTue, 01 Aug 2017 02:52:35 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sun, 17 Apr 2022 23:20:12 GMT]]>My dad's half sister was a lesbian. Sort of.

My aunt has been married twice both times to men. But during the 12 year gap between marriage 1 and 2 she said she was a lesbian and had 2 girlfriends.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/293237https://community.gaytor.rent/post/293237Sun, 17 Apr 2022 23:20:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 21 Aug 2020 21:05:00 GMT]]>@gayaznboi22:

Though with my brother, I once got onto his computer that he left on and looked at his email.  He posed as a woman and asked for dick pics.  I don't know if it was an experimental thing or if he has had a taste of dick before; I honestly couldn't say.  Granted this was years ago and he's now engaged to his girlfriend, so maybe he is bi or was simply curious.  Or maybe even bored and wanted to catfish some guys.

It's safe to assume that he wanted dick pics.  Can't think of many realistic motives for that besides looking at pics of dicks but it is interesting that he didn't just search for dick pics and asked for them instead.  Seems to indicate a higher and more specific level of interest to catfish and ask for them.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262846https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262846Fri, 21 Aug 2020 21:05:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 21 Aug 2020 11:36:09 GMT]]>I honestly don't know.  I only know family from my mother's side with regards to my generation and my mom's siblings.  All of them are straight.  Though to be fair, they are traditional Chinese folk who grew up in 1960's Hong Kong/coastal China.  There was an expectation that the children would marry and birth children to carry on the family name.  Hard to say then if any are gay or at least bi.

Though with my brother, I once got onto his computer that he left on and looked at his email.  He posed as a woman and asked for dick pics.  I don't know if it was an experimental thing or if he has had a taste of dick before; I honestly couldn't say.  Granted this was years ago and he's now engaged to his girlfriend, so maybe he is bi or was simply curious.  Or maybe even bored and wanted to catfish some guys.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262825https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262825Fri, 21 Aug 2020 11:36:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 27 Jun 2020 10:55:07 GMT]]>Yes, as far as I know I am the only gay in the family also in the closet. But I do suspect another cousin of mine is also a gay. But we never speak about such topics in the family.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260586https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260586Sat, 27 Jun 2020 10:55:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Wed, 06 May 2020 22:54:01 GMT]]>No, both my parents' first cousins are gay too.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/257854https://community.gaytor.rent/post/257854Wed, 06 May 2020 22:54:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 14 Feb 2020 23:05:30 GMT]]>Not by a long shot lol!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255502https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255502Fri, 14 Feb 2020 23:05:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 14 Feb 2020 20:16:33 GMT]]>yes

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255501https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255501Fri, 14 Feb 2020 20:16:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Thu, 15 Aug 2019 05:23:46 GMT]]>No, i have a couple of cousins that are openly gay and some closeted cases lol

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251526https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251526Thu, 15 Aug 2019 05:23:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Wed, 14 Aug 2019 13:17:04 GMT]]>Yes, definitely I am!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251510https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251510Wed, 14 Aug 2019 13:17:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Mon, 12 Aug 2019 08:30:44 GMT]]>yes

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251430https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251430Mon, 12 Aug 2019 08:30:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Wed, 07 Aug 2019 19:49:01 GMT]]>yes, it seems so… I'm out and accepted tho so not complaining

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251334https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251334Wed, 07 Aug 2019 19:49:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Tue, 06 Aug 2019 08:41:29 GMT]]>Yes

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251311https://community.gaytor.rent/post/251311Tue, 06 Aug 2019 08:41:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Wed, 06 Mar 2019 20:31:08 GMT]]>One cousin is out, but we have no relationship, he's always been closed off.
Have a second cousin or whatever in the closet, saw him on Grindr.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/250440https://community.gaytor.rent/post/250440Wed, 06 Mar 2019 20:31:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Mon, 24 Sep 2018 08:50:36 GMT]]>As far as i know yes. But i think one of my cousan is for sure. It wouldn't suprise me let me put it that way.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/245400https://community.gaytor.rent/post/245400Mon, 24 Sep 2018 08:50:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sun, 23 Sep 2018 09:39:01 GMT]]>yes my older brother is gay and we are happy 😄

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/245367https://community.gaytor.rent/post/245367Sun, 23 Sep 2018 09:39:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 01 Sep 2018 21:15:27 GMT]]>Well if we are talking openly then yeah. I'm it. Although I have to laugh because most people still can't wrap their heads around it because I don't "act" gay.. thanks to sitcoms like "Will & Grace" they apparently all think ALL gay guys act like Jack. They were all betting my youngest brother was gay for sure because he totally fits that stereotype. I do have one long estranged uncle on my Father's side who was totally under homo-suspicion, he was very strange and evasive when My Father would go to visit him, would never allow him to stay with him or even come to his house.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/244140https://community.gaytor.rent/post/244140Sat, 01 Sep 2018 21:15:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 01 Sep 2018 17:21:18 GMT]]>@harry3500:

Openly or closeted? I guess you wouldn't know if someone was closeted in your family.

I'm out. Took a while. On my mom's side, I also have two queer female cousins. One is more out and open than the other and one older gay cousin who isn't out. He's from an older generation, so I don't think he'll ever come out. But if he did, no one would be surprised.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/244132https://community.gaytor.rent/post/244132Sat, 01 Sep 2018 17:21:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 11 Aug 2018 23:50:10 GMT]]>So far pretty much the only one my cousin say hes bi but hearing him describe why he thinks so….it feels like he's reaching a bit but its not that big of a deal

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/243408https://community.gaytor.rent/post/243408Sat, 11 Aug 2018 23:50:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 14 Jul 2018 04:24:51 GMT]]>Pretty sure Im the only gay guy in my family my moms side is pretty southern though so they may be bit more pressed to be in the closet than I was

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242544https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242544Sat, 14 Jul 2018 04:24:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sun, 01 Jul 2018 02:08:39 GMT]]>I knew of a Great Aunt and one cousin.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242194https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242194Sun, 01 Jul 2018 02:08:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 30 Jun 2018 07:44:08 GMT]]>at least 2 other cousins on my moms side are gay, my dad has 4 kids by different women and at least 2 of us are gay

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242181https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242181Sat, 30 Jun 2018 07:44:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 06 Apr 2018 16:53:15 GMT]]>Yeah, I'm sure there's quite a few on my dad's side. Which is probably why my family is so accepting haha.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239792https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239792Fri, 06 Apr 2018 16:53:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Sat, 31 Mar 2018 16:04:43 GMT]]>a gay a lesbian and a mentally disabled.

grandparent dreams: CRUSHED

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239612https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239612Sat, 31 Mar 2018 16:04:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are you the only gay person in your family? on Fri, 23 Mar 2018 04:45:17 GMT]]>Immediate family, all 3 siblings are gay. Myself, my older half sister and my younger sister.

2 lesbian cousins that I know of. I'm sure there are more, but haven't really talked to anyone in my extended family since my mom died when I was just 18.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239245https://community.gaytor.rent/post/239245Fri, 23 Mar 2018 04:45:17 GMT