Gentle or Rough Sex?

100% if the top starts pounding like a jackrabbit the moment he enters it makes the hole sore for the rest of the night. Start slow and strong then build to rough passionate fucking.

flyboyblue

I love an intimate, passionate, and soft assfucking. Also lots of kissing.

mentaikotest

@gaypraha2:

to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.

spoken like a true dom !

but more to the point for rudolph, i think you should talk about it with your SO

jonas32

@gaypraha2:

to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.

I totaly agree. My husband is Dom/Top and im submissive and 100% bottommy husband in bed. He is in charge of our lovelife/sexlife and knows what i need and knows what he needs and how to get it

rydeguy

I totally disagree with both statements, that mindset is a huge turn off, and strikes me as totally disrepectful. I'm not trying to rape the guy i'm playing with I'm trying to enjoy a hot time with him and others. I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated. Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar, What the fuck is up with that?

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go. Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

gaypraha2

Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar, What the fuck is up with that?

that's your judgment, dont generalize. There is no good way to fuck or bad way. you like it like a teenage virgin girl ( lool alright that was mean) that's your choice, just dont pretend it's the right way to fuck and others are bad, 'vulgar ' or whatever…and to reply your question:"What the fuck is up with that?" many guys like it like that , that's all..

I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated.

so do I but we obviously dont wanna be treated the same way…

don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

I think you are mixing up, having a rough almost SM sex and really raping someone… even in SM role play you do have like a secret word if it goes too far..

everyman

As a sub bottom I generally like it rough

jonas32

@rydeguy:

I totally disagree with both statements, that mindset is a huge turn off, and strikes me as totally disrepectful. I'm not trying to rape the guy i'm playing with I'm trying to enjoy a hot time with him and others. I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated. Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar, What the fuck is up with that?

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go. Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

We have a wonderful marriage my husband and i. He is my man in every way. We are eaquels in every way except the bed. Ofcourse can i seduce him and so on, but he is the man and take charge (in a way im his women and he is my man. In the sence he is in charge)

MrMazda

Lady GaGa puts it best… "When it comes to love, if it's not rough, it isn't fun!"

SemenDemon

@rydeguy:

I totally disagree with both statements, that mindset is a huge turn off, and strikes me as totally disrepectful. I'm not trying to rape the guy i'm playing with I'm trying to enjoy a hot time with him and others. I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated. Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar, What the fuck is up with that?

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go. Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

Agreed. There are some very disconcerting views about sex, what sex "is", and where simple BDSM/role play ends and apparent self-loathing begins being expressed here… Some guys are so hung up on not "being gay", they act like complete psychopaths just to prove how "manly" they are. It's depressing.

JACK777

Like it slow and then hard.

spam17

@JACK777:

Like it slow and then hard.