Gentle, slow fucking is torture for some, while rough, fast fucking takes the edge off for an otherwise excruciatingly intense slow fuck.

Rough and raw and bare is the best.
in rubber or leather better than vanilla

:cheers:

I like Sex any way it comes.

Like it slow and then hard.

I totally disagree with both statements, that mindset is a huge turn off, and strikes me as totally disrepectful.  I'm not trying to rape the guy i'm playing with I'm trying to enjoy a hot time with him and others.  I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated.  Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar,  What the fuck is up with that?

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go.  Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

Agreed. There are some very disconcerting views about sex, what sex "is", and where simple BDSM/role play ends and apparent self-loathing begins being expressed here… Some guys are so hung up on not "being gay", they act like complete psychopaths just to prove how "manly" they are. It's depressing.

I totally disagree with both statements, that mindset is a huge turn off, and strikes me as totally disrepectful.  I'm not trying to rape the guy i'm playing with I'm trying to enjoy a hot time with him and others.  I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated.  Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar,  What the fuck is up with that?

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go.  Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

We have a wonderful marriage my husband and i. He is my man in every way. We are eaquels in every way except the bed. Ofcourse can i seduce him and so on, but he is the man and take charge (in a way im his women and he is my man. In the sence he is in charge)

Men today have no idea how to fuck, it's like you're in a fucking porn movie and it's all rough and being treated like you're a piece of shit. There's no connection, no sense of passion, it's ugly and vulgar,  What the fuck is up with that?

that's your judgment, dont generalize. There is no good way to fuck or bad way. you like it like a teenage virgin girl ( lool alright that was mean) that's your choice, just dont pretend it's the right way to fuck and others  are bad, 'vulgar ' or whatever…and to reply your question:"What the fuck is up with that?" many guys like it like that , that's all..

I treat my sex partners the way I want to be treated.

so do I but we obviously dont wanna be treated the same way…

don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.

I think you are mixing up, having a rough almost SM sex and really raping someone… even in SM role play you do have like a secret word if it goes too far..

There is nothing wrong with role play, as long as both parties agree beforehand the boundaries and there is also nothing wrong with the rougher side of sex if that's what all involve enjoy, but just treating everyone the same is not the way to go.  Also, if someone says don't force them to do something then you obey their wishes.