Gentle or Rough Sex?
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My other half sometimes gets a little too rough when making love to the point where I have to push him away as a "breather" moment. Whether its putting his tongue down my throat or pulling on my balls, he gets a bit over excited I think. I often think back to others partners Ive had and how gentle they were. Anyone have similar experiences or have a desired preference for gentle or rough sex?
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to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend. -
Have you discussed this with him? What you like/dislike.
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Gentle
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Sounds like you two might need to have a chat.
I personally like both, depending on the mood, but that requires you to say what you are after as you start getting frisky .
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It's about pacing and leveling with each other for me.
I like starting out gentle then building up to as 'rough' as both would consent.
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I enjoy both equaly. It depends on my mood whether I'm having rough or gentle sex.
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Something in-between like passionate sex :cool2:
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In between. Prefer passion over everything.
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ALWAYS ROUGH
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It depends…
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rough
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Both. It mostly depends on the situation imo. There are times where gentle is so much better than rough and vice versa.
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Both. It mostly depends on the situation imo. There are times where gentle is so much better than rough and vice versa.
:hapgay:
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Gentle has its place, but nothing beats a rough aggressive man on man, break a sweat, fuck.
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when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive.
Absolutely, I want tops to be dominant and rough with me.
It's about pacing and leveling with each other for me.
I like starting out gentle then building up to as 'rough' as both would consent.
100% if the top starts pounding like a jackrabbit the moment he enters it makes the hole sore for the rest of the night. Start slow and strong then build to rough passionate fucking.
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I love an intimate, passionate, and soft assfucking. Also lots of kissing.
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to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.spoken like a true dom !
but more to the point for rudolph, i think you should talk about it with your SO
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to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.I totaly agree. My husband is Dom/Top and im submissive and 100% bottommy husband in bed. He is in charge of our lovelife/sexlife and knows what i need and knows what he needs and how to get it
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