@eobox91103 said in Turn-on: Mixed condom use:
@bi4smooth said in Turn-on: Mixed condom use:
Several years ago, I used to host sex parties... some bottoms would insist on condoms, others would insist on bare... but my favorites let the top decide.
That said, I'd estimate that ALL, or at least nearly all, of those bottoms became HIV+ in time... being a "party bottom" is not synonymous with "safer sex practices"...
One data point: A friend of mine (gay/total bottom) preferred to fucked bare, but in the late 1990's/early 2000's many tops insisted on using a condom...so he would supply a condom, which he had punctured a few times with a very small needle. It would often break during fucking, and he'd get a load inside of him.
He became HIV+, and fortunately the meds are working for him. But I don't think many of the tops that he stealthed were very pleased.
Stealthing - back in the day - was a seriously DICK MOVE to pull! There was a whole mini-thing (fad?) about it in porn for a couple of years... I found it objectionable, in much the same way I find the real-or-simulated drug use on camera objectionable. Not my cup-o-tea, but I'm not the "porn police" (nor would I want to be!)... In fact, I don't pay for porn at all (unless you count my Internet fees and my storage expenses!), so my voice (to the providers) is negligible!
