@ianfontinell-0 I'm a former smoker actually, although I started very late and quit in less than a decade.
I dated non smokers while I was a smoker but I never just dated smokers. So yeah it can be sort of a voyeurism thing. I like what I see.
Besides some time before I quit I fell seriously ill and I was told I had mere weeks left until I die. I was only 32 and had smoked only for ten years. I had the choice between death and life, and considering how young I was, I choose the latter, and I quit smoking. I was also given a special diet and was closely under observation for a year until I was considered out of danger. Cigarettes are very lethal, even when you're young, you just never really understand the gravity of that until death comes this close to you.
Nowadays I date both smokers and non smokers. I just dislike kicking smokers out of my house merely because they need a smoke so I lend them my old ashtray and allow them to light up in my living room. This also goes with my smoking friends when they visit.
When it comes to sex, if I date a smoker, then yeah we have sex while he smokes. That does turn me on very much. I may have quit but I never stopped loving the smell.
