poltergeist: No. Wrong. And since no one else has stepped forward to put the kibosh on this nonsense, which can
cause you a life of unnecessary pain and suffering, maybe this rant will encourage others to address the issues
you raise.
Depending on age, a boy may jack off several times a day. With a regular sexual outlet, that may turn into occasional
and much less frequent wanking. Later, when you are older and no longer have morning wood to inspire a quick wakeup
wank, etc. etc., self-pleasuring, like all sexual activity, becomes less frequent. How likely do you think it is that in
a couple of decades you will suddenly regret all the sperm you have spewed?
But just as fucking does not replace oral sex and become the only path to orgasmic ejaculation (or vice versa), jacking is a
separate sexual activity. You don't have to dress up or play safely or be looking and feeling your best. You don't have to buy
dinner or leave the house. Without a partner, any space where there is room for you is basically a place you can have solo
sex. Men find this constant availability a great benefit and tend to use it. A lot.
The old stories about insanity, hairy palms, going blind, etc. are false religion propaganda. If you wank too often, yr dick
will get sore from overuse, same as ever. Same like any other excessive sex, not a distinct problem with wanking. Woody Allen points
out that self-sexing can amount to practicing at home alone. One can control premature ejaculation by learning to stop or slow down.
One can built to within a millisecond of climax and shudder happily while frozen in place and then do that again and again, edging to
provoke a more powerful climax. See EDGING videos in the torrents section.
If twice a week broke the bank, there would be less demand for Fleshlights and similar devices to insert yourself into as
a means of enhancing pleasure– or so one might think. And how did you conclude that twice a week was the maximum safe stupration
allowed? Fortunately, I missed that memo somehow.
Men who are happily coupled and have frequent sex with a partner may still climax via a handjob, whether it is their hand or
someone else's. I think anyone who has been in a circle jerk would recommend the experience if it can be arranged. Str8s
in a jacking contest watching str8 porn is not unknown. Lots of videos of hot enlisted military hunks, buff trained killers with
no doubts about their preferences can be viewed happily shooting their load on camera with friends, perhaps competing for
speed, distance, or volume.
Fraternities and other groups may use group masturbation for hazing, bonding, and general entertainment (at least for the viewers).
Doesn't rock group Limp Biskit get its name from the notion of everyone spooging a cracker or cookie, with the last to cum
being the one who gets to dine on the fresh, warm protein?
Online searches will turn up many actual authorities saying there is not really any downside to masturbation, even frequently
and repeatedly. Yes, it may accustom you to more pressure than a partner's orifices might provide, and you can get so hooked
you stop tricking, dating, cruising, or whatever you do to hook up. I was going to meet up with someone from a dating site and
sent him some images I thought might interest him. He replied that he was too busy jacking off to porn to bother with a cocksucker
he had been interested in feeding.
Someone who claims to want a sex partner and who cannot be bothered to stop watching online porn long enough to bother with
an actually interested man has a problem, if you ask me. (And no, you did not.). It is possible the attachments to this post weer
what I sent him, which according to me ought to have made him feel encouraged and eager, but since it was too much trouble
for him even to look, that was that. Phooey.
More likely than to promote premature ejaculation, an attentive hand job can boost control. The release of the power physical
forces involved is also associated with endorphins, tranquility, and emotional and spiritual connections as well, to the extent
that there are manuals on this very torrent site containing details of how to maximize the pleasure involved. There are also
instructions for Tantric exercises to prolong the climax. Some mainstream presumably str8 actors and rock stars claim to be
able to stay at peak not for seconds but minutes or even hours. Preposterous? Check the literature, going back centuries and
more. People who are interested in "magick," whether ritual or otherwise, also use orgasm as a means to release their energy
into some active goal. That might involve consciously building up energy, intention, etc. and mentally directing it to some
goal, such as love for another, increase self-esteem, or the ever popular More Money/More Sex combo for manifestation of
"all you can be" because it is a way to boost the sense that "you can have it all," as well paid bestselling gurus like to claim.
After all, whatever you think of "magick" or "positive thinking" and all that, the mind does love physical trips. Writing down,
speaking aloud, acting out, all dramatize things and bring them from "mere" notional thoughts into actual reality. If no one
knows your brilliant insight, invention, witty remark, whatever, then it does not exist outside yr own head, where
thoughts focus desire and intention, but do not by themselves get the job done and make it happen, whatever "it" is.
Which is why "everybody" agrees that setting goals will get you further in life than those who do not explicit declare their
goals, at least in private and -- if yr really committed -- in public. Certainly writing down your desires and intentions (no
need to leave a trace, it is the process that matters) and saying or reading that information aloud (to yourself, with
no one listening -- again, it is the process of unleashing yr inhibitions etc -- all makes a difference. And the diet group
Weight Watchers will testify that making a commitment public concentrates the mind wonderfully, like a loaded gun
pointed at yr head.
That does not mean to stand up in class or at work and announce, "I'm gonna be the best cum dump in town" or "I will
suck any of you because I want to be the best cocksucker ever." But a few serious jackoffs while intentionally (mentally)
sending the resulting explosion of seed, the creative male creative force of "yin" will at least help you ingrain habits of
thought and awareness that can carry over when yr dick is not directly involved and which are maybe a refined form of
the muscle memory involved in riding a bicycle. It becomes part of you. Whether there is any resulting mystical, magical,
cosmic Green Lantern force bending the world to your will is, of course, another matter entirely.
In fact, if yr dick is the only part of you involved, you are definitely missing out on the notion that sex need not be strictly
phallocentric, despite what most teen boys discover, um, first-hand. Have you seen the Simon Rex solo scenes he did
before becoming somewhat successful on television? His whole body is involved. Marine jackoff videos may show a str8
hunk overtly having his best-ever orgasm, thrashing and making noise.
Just as tennis players go "off" when they hit the ball because that boosts the power of the contact between ball and racket,
and martial arts instructors "kiya" when striking, jacking can allow you to feel up yr body, finger yr hole, tweak yr nipples
(which some lucky dudes find are attached directly to their shlong (in the same way that some lucky women can climax from breast
manipulation alone) and then deliberately let loose with enough decibel force to annoy the neighbors.
These are not learnings that restrict yr ability to provide creative, rewarding, sustaining sex alone or in company. A great
way to teach yrself that lust is natural and permissible-- but it is You that must provide the permission, no one else. There is
a liberation in writing down very, very crudely and explicitly, what you want to do sexually. You can then burn the paper,
but if you insist on typing it on a computer and then deleting without saving, you have still had the opportunity to declare
your true interests. And if you do not dare cop to yr desires, they really are unlikely to be fulfilled and you are really
unlikely to pursue them honestly and directly.
Lots of people may disagree with most or all of this somewhat random collection of notions, but porn can be instructive, as
indicated. Notice the macho military and buff jocks who climax in stoic, "macho" silence. Everything tightly controlled, maybe
because they think "real men" don't groan when they bust a nut because it might suggest emotion or something. Compare
their conclusion of handjob or blowjob with how noisier, more self-assured pleasure pursuers thrust their hips and thrash
the entire body in order to engage as much of it as possible.
I knew a str8 man who sometimes lectured on sex to a mixed m/f crowd who advised them to own their own sexuality and
take responsibility for their own lust. His example was when he was horned up in the morning but his wife had to leave for
work. Instead of complaining, he just threw the covers aside and began to beat off, allowing her to look if she wanted to
because neither was ashamed of what was happening.
As I said, even with a partner, many men (and women, for sure) will continue to please themselves from time to time. No
harm, no foul. Wilhelm Reich said: "A sexually repressed society will resort to violence." The hippie version of that apercu
was "Make love, not war." And to quote a pop song of the time, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're
with." Even when you are alone.
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