@martin526 the problem with the so called gaydar is that sometimes you just can't tell if it's genuinely triggered or if you're just projecting like you said. Walking around with a wife and kids have never been a strong indicative, that has always been precisely the point of the term gaydar ever becoming a thing... Everybody had a wife and kids until not long ago. So 'straight-passing' haven't been rising at all, if anything it's decreasing. Things really have taken a big turn in the last decades, gay men have always relied on performing a masculinity to go unnoticed, but now even straight men aren't as masculine. Looking at someone's archetype and inferring their sexuality is not having a gaydar, that is simply conforming to the social norm and allowing yourself to be tricked. At least that's how I've always perceived it, to me gaydar has always been the ability to spot the cues in how men interact with each other, from the stare to the hand gestures and whatnot, it's never really been a matter of looking and "just knowing", I think that's either just conforming to the social norms or straight out projecting.

@martin526 said in I want to have sex with all men I’m attracted to: Anytime I meet a meet another gay man I’m attracted to, I instantly want to fuck them. It’s hard to have friendships with gay men, because I want to have sex with each one I come across. Whenever I hang out with another gay male, especially if they’re attractive, I can’t help but feel a sexual tension, and sometimes, it feels like they feel the same. There’s certain actions, the ways we look at each other, it feels like our eyes are screaming rip my clothes off grab my neck and kiss me. I would love to have more friendships based off common interests, but the common interests make me feel even closer to them, and then I want to have sex with them. Does anyone else have trouble like this with their male friendships? There is a difference between "attraction," "desire," and "action." I am attracted to a LOT of men... that attraction translates into DESIRE in some of them (that is, I might actually DO something to meet or converse with them)... and sometimes I'm luck enough that the desire turns to ACTION. If I am single (and I am currently), or I'm otherwise NOT in a monogamous relationship, the number of guys I sleep with is purely a personal choice. These are the days of online hookups after all! Never let someone shame you with words like "slut" just because you get more sex than they do! Consenting adults can fuck whomever and as often as they like! We are PROGRAMMED (genetically) to like sex - without that programming, we would have been an extinct species a LONG LONG time ago! However, when there IS a relationship in play, my desires should NEVER turn to action - out of respect for my partner (and myself). I can control my desires (to a point - I have been seduced before!), and if I lose that control (say, I'm too drunk to stop myself) I usually regret it. Still, if you cannot control your desires, you may need counseling. There is nothing wrong with needing or seeking counseling (I have found it extremely helpful at various times in my life!) FWIW - I'm "easy" when I'm single... I've had sex with 4 different guys (not an orgy - separate "encounters") in a 24-hour period before! But that is a rarity... these days (COVID days) I'm lucky to get laid more than 3-4 times a month. (Oh the pain, says Dr. Smith! ) But I think your question ALSO goes to mixing friendship with sexual activity. And that can be a tricky thing... BUT, in my experience, so long as you discuss and agree on the "limits", there shouldn't be problems (though there always will be - as with any friendship). What kind of discussion? Will this be a one-time thing? Or are we gonna be FWB? If we do this, are we gonna still just be friends, or will we be lovers? If "just friends", are we both clear we're not looking to BECOME "lovers"? Or are one or both of us open to this growing into more? You get the idea... TALK about it! (My current "candidate" for a boyfriend needs to be trained to talk about HIS wants and needs... he keeps it all bottled up inside him... I'm not clairvoyant (not even in drag!)... he's gotta tell me what works best for him and what doesn't! LOL Communication is REQUIRED for good sex AND for good friends! Why wouldn't it ALSO be needed for a good FWB?

@martin526 & bi4smooth I agree with what's been said above, especially the "pulling out before you cum" stunt. One peeve of mine is bored actors. I realize that it's a paying job, and one actor might not be turned on by another actor...but hey, guys, you are acting. Act like you're enjoying it even if you aren't, but don't overdo it. Then there's lack of communication between actors. Yes, we know that the reason you switched from doggy style to missionary is because the director told you to. But again, it's acting: Have the bottom say, "I want to try it on my back." Also, let's be creative: It seems that 90% of the time the bottom sucks the top's cock first, and then maybe the top reciprocates before they start fucking. How about switching it up more 50/50 so we can be a little surprised at the outcome (so to speak). While top/bottom identification can be obvious from the start when there's some "macho" guy paired with an effeminate twink, if it's two Fratmen-type guys, leave us in suspense for a while. On a more general level, these problems don't occur as much in purely home-made porn. The lighting and camera angles aren't as good, but real people having real sex often make better videos than the "professionals." Maybe the pro directors need to get laid more often.

The HTC Vive works well but the stands can be finicky

By that time, reading Sputink may threaten to replace one's common sense. Be careful with their headlines and manner of citation, buddy

I always thought it would be hot to fill the tub with Jello, but man could that be a fuckin mess to clean up! Still it might be worth it! :cheesy2:

Is he no longer filming with the major studios?

@martin526: I am a member of the site and got my account disabled when I downloaded a scene and shared it here. Do any of you guys had the similar experience of the strictness of BelAmi? how did they know it was you?

nawww man they are fake i belive.

its ok , but i agree clips are to short.

@blackwing: Gee, you're not ignorant… No, not at all.... Maybe you should quit following trends long enough to realize not everything is about "popularity". Oh, and learn how to spell "hipster". LOL, that's all you got?  A spelling error/typo?  You need to work on your insults.  You might have better luck if you avoid the personal attacks and attack the comment.  Just a thought. Simply wearing boys' underwear doesn't make you trans. Simply wearing girls' blouses and a bit of makeup doesn't make you a trans-lesbian. Telling lesbians that if they don't suck your cock that they are homophobes and transphobes, doesn't make you trans. Occassionally wearing jeans doesn't make you gender fluid; ie mostly a hetero girl but occassionally a gay boy. Tieing tampons in your beard doesn't make you trans. Wearing blue eye shadow and your grandmother's clip on earrings doesn't make you trans.  This is even more true when you need to see someone about trimming your beard and moustache. Being born a hetero girl, who is a trans- gay boy, who identifies as a hetero girl, is nothing more than what she was born as, a hetero girl. It's all ways to make themselves feel special in their ordinary lives.  20 years ago they all would have been Emo.  A decade before that, they'd all have been Goth.

I have occasionally fantasized about having a boyfriend who would surprise me, now and then, by wearing provocative undergarments like some of these, or even women's crotchless panties.  But as you can imagine, that's not the kind of deeply personal information I would casually share on a chat board.  :crazy2:

I've got one word for you: vegetables. That's where I started with anal play. Wander through the fruit and veg section of your supermarket… all sorts of shapes and sizes  :cool2:

Is there any advise on what position to do first?

i jerked off my stepbrother… and he blew me.  we were 15..

I’m not into it as a bottom at all and personally don’t understand the appeal or enjoyment of it so that bit I do get.

Avoid regular use of medical enemas as this can lead to lasy bowel syndrome. Instead, go for water or saline enemas/washes.

One of my favorite pornstar