It's because many people attribute it as being a thing that women do. That's why there is that stupid thing: The woman of the relationship.

Its just a extremely stupid concept that many people still use.

Well since I was born I had pets in my house, hehe. Had many dogs, and some cats.

Cats are more independent, they don't need much attention. Dogs are more playful, specially when younger, so you need to give them more attention. Dogs also need you to go out with them, they don't bury their poop, and you probably will lose some stuff because they ate it, hehe.

But like I said, they play more so if you enjoy it, its better, cats many times just ignore you, hehe. Also dogs are more protective and loyal I believe. And they show more love for you than cats.

Personally, I prefer dogs than cats, they play more, they care more about you. But you will need to work a lot more than with cats, hehe.

About breeds, you should get a breed that aren't much agitated like Beagles or Chihuahua, they will give you a lot of work Oo. If you like big dogs I recommend a German Sheppard or a Labrador Retriever. They are really smart, they are good with kids, and are not extremely playful.

The smaller ones I had were all mongrels, so don't know any breed to recommend Oo.

I disagree with you. It is not a choice, if it were you would be able to change it, but you can't. You can try and live a straight life, but you will always have your gay desires.

And your example is ridiculous, if you grow up in a group like that, you will grow up another ass hole who disrespect women, but still have sex with them.

At least in my point of view, I had nothing that made me became gay, it just happened, when I reach puberty I started liking men for no apparent reason.

Hi, welcome here.

I like most kind of bears, muscle bears included obviously hehehe. My body can be defined as a twink though Oo, although I'm not extremely slim, but far from being considered fat.

Really like those guys you posted XD. Well, you probably know them but I also love Mack, Rocky Labarre, Bo Dixon and Magnus (from New York Straight Men), they are so hot  :cheesy2:.

Well, I hate extremely large torrents, first it spends a lot of my ratio. And second, yes you can choose which ones you want, but most people don't properly show what is the content.

On this packages there should be a Thumbnail of every video, so people would know whats inside them, and if they want it or not. But most people don't do this. Many packages like that I had to download the entire package to see which videos I liked, because there were no thumbnail.

So, to me you should divide it into minor collections, like 5gb each. And put thumbnail of every video. It is boring to do that, but help other users. And you can do it in parts, you don't have to put it all the same day.

Well, I understand your situation Oo. It's kind of a big answer, but I would be glad if you could read it, hehe.

I'm Brazilian, 22 years old. I could be considered a twink, although I am not that slim anymore, but way far from being considered chubby.

I realized that I was gay when I was 11-12, but we hear so much bad things about gay men, so much prejudice, that it kind of sticks on our mind so I didn't want to accept it. With time I started to pay attention to some characteristics that I liked more on men, and with 15 I saw the term Bear, it was when I finally found myself, that I could really understand what I liked. But since I was a teenager and didn't have any contact with this kind of men, I still couldn't accept myself. When I was 17 - 18 I went to the USA stayed there for a while, well there it's obvious that I saw a lot of Bears, so I started to understand more about it, but still didn't had any change to be with someone. When I came back, a few months later I became friends with a guy, same age as me, and bearish type XD. After a while I realized that I liked him, and I think it was just on that moment that I finally accepted myself Oo.

Because I took so long to accept myself, I still am afraid of coming out, never told anyone I know about it, and the fact that I am not effeminate, helps hiding it. And like you said, it's hard to explain that you are attracted to hairy overweight guys, also my body is not what i consider attractive, and it doesn`t help with my self-stem Oo. And since I never told anyone about it, I don't have to say that this friend of mine don't know that I like him, so makes it even harder.

Well, in Brazil unfortunately there is still a lot of prejudice in here. The Bear community exists, its not that small, but many people here complain about it, it's not like in the USA, or some other countries. Also here there is a lot of violence, and some other problems, and because of all that, I want to go out of the country, next year I am going to Canada. To make it harder, the friend I like is going with me, he's going to be my roommate Oo, and I am really afraid of telling him that I like him, I still don't know if he's straight or not  ….

So I understand what you feel about going to another country, about liking bears, etc..

Now, finally answering you question, hehe, you should do your best to accomplish what you want, about the money and you being accepted in the university, there is not much I can say. About the community, well the bear community is known by being receptive.

But you need to remember that this isn't your only chance to go to another country, there is nothing that stop you from going to another country, from trying other stuff. About the money, you could try to find a work, and try to raise some money to keep you there if your parents can't. Don't know how it works for Bulgarians on another countries Oo, but there are countries where the bear community is bigger and you can work and study, so it pretty much would solve your problem if you can't stay on the UK. Well, like I said try your best to accomplish what you want, but you need to know that there are plenty alternatives, you just need to want it.

Well, I hope my answer help you somehow. And if you don't mind, I would like to make a question. How can I get the courage to come out? I've been trying for a while, I want it, but I can't.

Well, I don't think it's offensive. And yes, men really like when the partner swallow it.

The only problem is just the risk of STDs, but if you trust you partner, and he have no diseases, there is no problem to swallow all the time. The semen itself doesn't have anything prejudicial for your health, so there is no problem to do it every time.

And if you don't want it because of the taste, etc.. he could just shoot on your face, or anywhere else, which is equally good for him.

Does he knows that you are gay? I think you should just make him know that you are gay, and if he wants, he talks to you.

Why not? Story is really good.

It's the problem with Steam promotions, you buy many games and play just a few, hehehe. I didn't play Bioshock Infinite, and many other great games Oo. Have to find some time to play them when I finish the ones I playing now….

Well never read anything about him Oo. But he is really hot  :cheesy2:, waiting until someone post the video.

Well, I love hairy guys so, to me it's better to leave it natural.

Like Soulsrevenge said, Everyone has a racial preference, its normal. And no its not racism to not feel attracted to someone because of their race.

As for myself I prefer white men. I'm not into Asians, or Black guys. Since I like bears, its not common to see Black or Asian bears. But there are some exceptions to this, there are a few Black or Asian guys that I find very attractive, and would date without any problems. Like there are some few men that are not bears and I find attractive, the question is its much more rare.

Spartacus is the one with the most Oo. Spartacus has any kind of sex, gay, straight, lesbian, threesome, and many other types, hehehe. Wait until you watch the other seasons.

Well other series are the ones 2222 talked about, Rome, Game of Thrones. none of them has as much as Spartacus, but they still have.

And there is Black Sails, from the same channel as Spartacus. Season 1 didn't have much male nudity, more female, but it still had some.

The same guy who posted part 1 posted part 2 today:
https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=e95a06ca5c6de26e76cb43db098b6076aa8ba61be218864c

And part one is so fucking hot  :cheesy2:, didn't watch part 2 yet.

@KITSUNECHAN:

Thanks.
But now I seem to have another problem and this might make me look stupid but how do I download the torrent file? Whenever I click on "Get this torrent", it says that I have to launch another application or something like that

I think PirateBay doesn't allow this anymore, don't know why. But you can Right Click on the Magnet Link, and save the link, them you can put it on your torrent manager.

Also, you can use KickAssTorrent. It is almost the same as PirateBay, and it allow to download the .torrent file. Also it doesn't have all that straight porn stuff, hehehe.

Well in the bear category you might find it, not only bears by the way. But it's not that easy to find though Oo. I don't recall any to tell you by now…

@nordicblue:

Aside gay subgenres, America has a huge obesity epidemic, in the eyes of the CDC and especially in other countries.  Maybe caring about fashion and eyebrow is too much, but not shaving and being overweight is bad for your health.  I want someone who wants to take care of themselves.  You don't have to care only about appearance, which is why the U.S. also lags in education.  They spend too much time watching Paul Verdi and Joan Rivers

Obesity and Overweight is completely different.

And who the hell told you that not shaving is bad for your health? If you don't take showers that might be true, but hair is the least of your problems. People have hairy bodies to protect them against the cold, that's why your body hair grows much more in the winter. It's a protection measure, so Shaving is bad, not shaving is not. Sure hair accumulates bacteria, but like I said, if you shower, that's far from being a problem.

And you tell me about healthy? People drink, people smoke cigarettes, use drugs, people do unprotected sex, people do hundreds of stuff that are bad for their health, and I damn sure you are one of them.

If you don't think they are attractive it's you problem. But do not criticize a group that you know nothing about.

And like i said obesity and overweight are different. Those men I put in those pictures are Athletes, ones that I am sure are way more healthier than you. Obesity is a disease.

@nordicblue:

It is beyond me to comprehend the existence of the category

What do you mean? You should read about it.

The bear category started because most gay guys care to much about appearances, in the media style. So the chubby guys were ignored. So they pretty much started to do things for this public. And that's why this category exists.

And now it abroad not only bears, but some other categories, like guys like me, who aren't bears but are attracted to bears.

@nordicblue:

I prefer swimmers and cyclists (muscle in lycra), although someone mentioned hockey so the Swede Henrik Lundqvist is  :cheesy2: hot.  Many people seem to mention bears.  I think I might be confused about the defintion.

Well, the easiest way to put it, Bears are mostly hairy overweight guys. Although like they said there are some variations, like muscle bears for example.

And this is why Rugby (or American Football):

I like hairy guys, the armpits are included.

As for myself I really don't care about it, but I wouldn't mind shaving if someone asked.