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    • G Offline
      gferek
      last edited by

      It's really sad to hear(?) it. I just got back after few days off and… I really can't believe it. Tears are appearing in my eyes by itself and I can't do anything about it. I'm really sorry Tim. I'll miss You. Rest in peace.

      Pleased me! Show me how its done!

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      • leatherbearL Offline
        leatherbear
        last edited by

        I spoke with David again today and the news is exactly the same as before…...

        The Coroners Office is holding Tim's body pending investigation.No services scheduled at this point for this reason.Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

        ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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        • MrMazdaM Offline
          MrMazda Global Moderator
          last edited by

          @leatherbear:

          …Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

          I don't know why, but something's telling me that the location of his whereabouts can be located out west.

          Whap The User
          The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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          • F Offline
            fanobliv
            last edited by

            I don't know you at all, but rip tim!

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            • leatherbearL Offline
              leatherbear
              last edited by

              Well, I spoke with David again today….......

              The body has been released fro the Coroner and has been cremated all ready.I have the Funeral Home Web address to leave your condolences for the family. I hope all will respect the family and be wise with your words of condolence.

              Name:
              Timothy J. Frei

              Dates:
              Birth date: December 10, 1959
              Death date: November 11, 2010

              Obituary:

              Timothy J. Frei, 50, of Lancaster, passed away November 10, 2010 at 4:15 AM in Lancaster General Hospital where he was a patient since November 1st.  Born in Reading on December 10, 1959, he was the son of George F. Frei of Myerstown and the late Doris D. (Davies) Frei.

              Timothy was a 1977 graduate of Wilson High School and attended Penn State University.

              Surviving in addition to his father is a brother David M. Frei of Emmaus.

              Service:

              Services will be at the convenience of the family. Bean Funeral Home, 3825 Penn Ave., Sinking Spring is in charge of arrangements.

              www.beanfuneralhomes.com

              BTW: I have made a call to the detective handling this case for any additional information that he may have regarding Tim's passing. If I get an update of course you gents will as well.

              ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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              • W Offline
                waltt
                last edited by

                I have not known Tim - but from the heartbroken words from his friends he sounds like a great person.
                A sad and tragic event.
                Hugs,
                W

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                  abombo
                  last edited by

                  A tragic and very sad event.

                  I have not known him, but from the words I have read here from you all,
                  Tim seemed like a very nice and a great person.

                  My condolences to all of you, his family and friends.

                  Rest in peace.

                  Kisses and Hugs,
                  Abombo

                  errare humanum est

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                  • B Offline
                    beercan
                    last edited by

                    I want to upload the picture I have but i'm not sure it's suitable for the website…
                    opinions any1?
                    the words i used ok ? don't want to aggravate any1 by using the wrong words.  :afr2:
                    ![](http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg)
                    http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

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                    • MrMazdaM Offline
                      MrMazda Global Moderator
                      last edited by

                      Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing. The only one problem with the link you posted is that spaces aren't able to be interperated in the auto-link feature. Spaces are replaced with %20 when entering a URL into an address bar for example. The actual link would be:

                      http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

                      That being said however, you do not need to enter the %20 if referencing it in a message post by using the img tags. Those will automatically adjust themselves.

                      Whap The User
                      The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                      • leatherbearL Offline
                        leatherbear
                        last edited by

                        Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing

                        :true:

                        ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                        • B Offline
                          blackdid
                          last edited by

                          Very moving, bravo beercan.

                          "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"  (Mother Teresa)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                .

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                          • B Offline
                            beercan
                            last edited by

                            thanks guys… I've always been very mindful of people's opinions and I really appreciate the comments.

                            @MrMazda
                            the link was for my own reference so I don't forget where I had the file stored. Thanks for the correction though.

                            and.. I must have been too affected ... I should be using his actual name.
                            http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIPTIM..jpg

                            p.s.
                            www.beanfuneralhomes.com apparently only accepts pictures of 300 pixels wide by 200 pixels high. So I guess it wouldn't be there as I had hoped.

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                            • T Offline
                              trukr
                              last edited by

                              I've been away for a very long time and my heart just sank when I looked at the home page.

                              My heartfelt condolences go out to the friends and family of Tim.

                              Rest In Peace Tim 😢
                              Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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                                Rok Gay Leader
                                last edited by

                                So sad. My sincere concolendes to his friends and family.

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                                • S Offline
                                  samuraiguy
                                  last edited by

                                  Did he die because of AIDS?

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                                  • MrMazdaM Offline
                                    MrMazda Global Moderator
                                    last edited by

                                    The official cause of death is not known at this time (at least not to me). From what I do know however, HIV or AIDS had nothing to do with it. As far as my understanding goes, Tim was NOT HIV+

                                    Whap The User
                                    The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                                    • leatherbearL Offline
                                      leatherbear
                                      last edited by

                                      I finally talked to the detectives investigating this incident with Tim and Ray that resulted in Tim's death.

                                      A) It is an active on going investigation. They are seeking Ray to question him about the incident still. No one has seen Ray since 11/01/2010, the night of the incident.

                                      B) There have been no charges made at this point by any Law Enforcement Agency. This does not mean that charges will not be issued.

                                      It surprised the detectives that I called but they promised to keep me updated on the case. I will report when I have some new to add to this tale.

                                      I continue to miss Tim badly but each day I make it is another day to think about Domestic Violence in our community.

                                      LOVE NEVER INCLUDES VIOLENCE OF ANY SORT. Report all domestic violence whether you are in volved or a bystander.

                                      ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                      • L Offline
                                        loveless992
                                        last edited by

                                        With a heavy heart I post this.

                                        I've been gone for quiet a while, but I always check in once in a while. This was one of those things you don't expect.

                                        May you rest in peace Tim.

                                        My most sincere condolences to family and friends.

                                        Que descances en paz eterna amigo…

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                                        • M Offline
                                          m4mh2e
                                          last edited by

                                          I did not know you, but I feel the loss of never having known you  :_(

                                          crying4.jpg

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                                          • H Offline
                                            hotflash
                                            last edited by

                                            Rest in peace TIM  :cry2:

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