Dreadful News :(

[leatherbear]

How kind and gracious you are to think of David. He is truly overwhelmed with life's issues let alone the loss he suffered. I will in deed let him know he is in our prayers again.

the entire situation is so sad it just breaks my heart   :cry2:

[MrMazda]

Inquiring minds must know

That being said however, I can definitely understand that it's not exactly an easy subject to deal with.

[boronas1]

You live forever in our memories  :cry2:

[gferek]

It's really sad to hear(?) it. I just got back after few days off and… I really can't believe it. Tears are appearing in my eyes by itself and I can't do anything about it. I'm really sorry Tim. I'll miss You. Rest in peace.

[leatherbear]

I spoke with David again today and the news is exactly the same as before…...

The Coroners Office is holding Tim's body pending investigation.No services scheduled at this point for this reason.Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

[MrMazda]

@leatherbear:

…Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

I don't know why, but something's telling me that the location of his whereabouts can be located out west.

[fanobliv]

I don't know you at all, but rip tim!

[leatherbear]

Well, I spoke with David again today….......

The body has been released fro the Coroner and has been cremated all ready.I have the Funeral Home Web address to leave your condolences for the family. I hope all will respect the family and be wise with your words of condolence.

Name:
Timothy J. Frei

Dates:
Birth date: December 10, 1959
Death date: November 11, 2010

Obituary:

Timothy J. Frei, 50, of Lancaster, passed away November 10, 2010 at 4:15 AM in Lancaster General Hospital where he was a patient since November 1st.  Born in Reading on December 10, 1959, he was the son of George F. Frei of Myerstown and the late Doris D. (Davies) Frei.

Timothy was a 1977 graduate of Wilson High School and attended Penn State University.

Surviving in addition to his father is a brother David M. Frei of Emmaus.

Service:

Services will be at the convenience of the family. Bean Funeral Home, 3825 Penn Ave., Sinking Spring is in charge of arrangements.

www.beanfuneralhomes.com

BTW: I have made a call to the detective handling this case for any additional information that he may have regarding Tim's passing. If I get an update of course you gents will as well.

[waltt]

I have not known Tim - but from the heartbroken words from his friends he sounds like a great person.
A sad and tragic event.
Hugs,
W

[abombo]

A tragic and very sad event.

I have not known him, but from the words I have read here from you all,
Tim seemed like a very nice and a great person.

My condolences to all of you, his family and friends.

Rest in peace.

Kisses and Hugs,
Abombo

[beercan]

I want to upload the picture I have but i'm not sure it's suitable for the website…
opinions any1?
the words i used ok ? don't want to aggravate any1 by using the wrong words.  :afr2:
http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

[MrMazda]

Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing. The only one problem with the link you posted is that spaces aren't able to be interperated in the auto-link feature. Spaces are replaced with %20 when entering a URL into an address bar for example. The actual link would be:

http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

That being said however, you do not need to enter the %20 if referencing it in a message post by using the img tags. Those will automatically adjust themselves.

[leatherbear]

Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing

:true:

[blackdid]

Very moving, bravo beercan.

[beercan]

thanks guys… I've always been very mindful of people's opinions and I really appreciate the comments.

@MrMazda
the link was for my own reference so I don't forget where I had the file stored. Thanks for the correction though.

and.. I must have been too affected ... I should be using his actual name.
http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIPTIM..jpg

p.s.
www.beanfuneralhomes.com apparently only accepts pictures of 300 pixels wide by 200 pixels high. So I guess it wouldn't be there as I had hoped.

[trukr]

I've been away for a very long time and my heart just sank when I looked at the home page.

My heartfelt condolences go out to the friends and family of Tim.

Rest In Peace Tim
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Rok]

So sad. My sincere concolendes to his friends and family.

[samuraiguy]

Did he die because of AIDS?

[MrMazda]

The official cause of death is not known at this time (at least not to me). From what I do know however, HIV or AIDS had nothing to do with it. As far as my understanding goes, Tim was NOT HIV+

[leatherbear]

I finally talked to the detectives investigating this incident with Tim and Ray that resulted in Tim's death.

A) It is an active on going investigation. They are seeking Ray to question him about the incident still. No one has seen Ray since 11/01/2010, the night of the incident.

B) There have been no charges made at this point by any Law Enforcement Agency. This does not mean that charges will not be issued.

It surprised the detectives that I called but they promised to keep me updated on the case. I will report when I have some new to add to this tale.

I continue to miss Tim badly but each day I make it is another day to think about Domestic Violence in our community.

LOVE NEVER INCLUDES VIOLENCE OF ANY SORT. Report all domestic violence whether you are in volved or a bystander.