Sex!!! Condom or bareback?

[cumeaternc]

Safe anal(I'm a top) but oral depends on how horny I am. I usually swallow!

[leatherbear]

We Bareback always as a couple and 90% of the time in communal play as well but have the rule" ON ME NOT IN ME " in any encounter outside of our relationship!!! BTW: no lectures please?? We consider this an informed decision!! ;D

[raphjd]

As a monogamous couple, we only do bareback.

If I were single again, I'd only used condoms.

[ziamond]

@leatherbear:

We consider this an informed decision!! ;D

Very well said leatherbear If only couples could find agreements and communicate that well.

@leatherbear:

BTW: no lectures please??

No nasty judgments but everyone's view is welcomed here

[amice]

bareback only too, amphibian .. however i must feel something to the person i'm with…

[leatherbear]

LBC welcomes all opinions and comments!!! Lectures to try and change our minds ~ not so much ;D

[gzlong]

Good, and LBC stands for?

[mgr]

@gzlong:

Good, and LBC stands for?

LeatherBearCouple?

[leatherbear]

INDEED it does!!!

[nagysanci]

I cannot imagine and understand how and why is it better bareback. I have a constant relationship and we never cheat on each other (without the other being there - I mean through a three- or foursome), but we have always used condoms for analsex for higienic reasons. The idea of not using a condom for analsex simply distracts me. Am I higienomaniac?

[leatherbear]

2 Words for you : SHOWER SHOT!!!

My boi's hole is super clean b4 we engage!!!

[nagysanci]

I know. We also use shower shot and ours is also super clean, but I still have in mind that it is the place where feces comes from, so I insist on condoms even with my steady partner. We tried barebacks, too, but we did not feel the difference.

[kenndylo]

bareback, and only bareback…
only with my bf ;3

Kinda offtopic Q:
For the bb couples...
What do the bottom do when you guys are done???
Having all the /cough/ all shot up the butt...,
i always find myself having the need/urge to 'purge' it out
Without getting it all over the bedsheets
(body feels awkward with..... if i try to keep it in)

Just wondering if i am the only one that does this?? ;\

[leatherbear]

I never come in my boys ass but rather on him!! However, I can imagine that leakage would be a problem :funny2: and would think that a"PURGE" of some sort would be required indeed!!!

[garjr71]

can somebody enlighten me on shower shot?
and no I haven't had anal yet (I actually had once, but it was too short to count)
cuddling and oral yes, but just once

~rR

[leatherbear]

Connects to shower ~ Used for deep enemas!!!

[whateva]

Condoms all the way until you go steady and get tested.

[kingcub]

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

[MrMazda]

@kingcub:

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

A wise practice. Never let your guard down with just anyone. I unfortunately had to learn that the hard way. Unless my partner becomes HIV+ (hoping he doesn't, but condoms do break), the rule is no love without a glove. Although I have to live the nightmare, I certainly wouldn't want to make anyone else have to deal with a mental ordeal, on top of a whopping $1533.53 CDN/mo just for the drugs needed to live, much less the ones to deal with their side effects as well.

[kingcub]

@MrMazda:

@kingcub:

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

A wise practice. Never let your guard down with just anyone. I unfortunately had to learn that the hard way. Unless my partner becomes HIV+ (hoping he doesn't, but condoms do break), the rule is no love without a glove. Although I have to live the nightmare, I certainly wouldn't want to make anyone else have to deal with a mental ordeal, on top of a whopping $1533.53 CDN/mo just for the drugs needed to live, much less the ones to deal with their side effects as well.

Thanks, MrMazda.
I also do tend to use these sensitive condoms.
They're thin and strong in the right measures.