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    • T Offline
      trukr
      last edited by

      I've been away for a very long time and my heart just sank when I looked at the home page.

      My heartfelt condolences go out to the friends and family of Tim.

      Rest In Peace Tim 😢
      Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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        Rok Gay Leader
        last edited by

        So sad. My sincere concolendes to his friends and family.

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          samuraiguy
          last edited by

          Did he die because of AIDS?

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          • MrMazdaM Offline
            MrMazda Global Moderator
            last edited by

            The official cause of death is not known at this time (at least not to me). From what I do know however, HIV or AIDS had nothing to do with it. As far as my understanding goes, Tim was NOT HIV+

            Whap The User
            The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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            • leatherbearL Offline
              leatherbear
              last edited by

              I finally talked to the detectives investigating this incident with Tim and Ray that resulted in Tim's death.

              A) It is an active on going investigation. They are seeking Ray to question him about the incident still. No one has seen Ray since 11/01/2010, the night of the incident.

              B) There have been no charges made at this point by any Law Enforcement Agency. This does not mean that charges will not be issued.

              It surprised the detectives that I called but they promised to keep me updated on the case. I will report when I have some new to add to this tale.

              I continue to miss Tim badly but each day I make it is another day to think about Domestic Violence in our community.

              LOVE NEVER INCLUDES VIOLENCE OF ANY SORT. Report all domestic violence whether you are in volved or a bystander.

              ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                loveless992
                last edited by

                With a heavy heart I post this.

                I've been gone for quiet a while, but I always check in once in a while. This was one of those things you don't expect.

                May you rest in peace Tim.

                My most sincere condolences to family and friends.

                Que descances en paz eterna amigo…

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                  m4mh2e
                  last edited by

                  I did not know you, but I feel the loss of never having known you  :_(

                  crying4.jpg

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                  • H Offline
                    hotflash
                    last edited by

                    Rest in peace TIM  :cry2:

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                      danthrplgst
                      last edited by

                      Tim…I did not know you, which I consider my loss; but from the posts I have seen here you sounded like an amazing person who has left a void in the hearts of many.  I am a man of faith, so I'd like to offer this prayer from the tradition of us Catholics; I offer it for you and your family:

                      Saints of God, come to his aid; Come to meet him, angels of the Lord; receive his soul and present him to the Almighty.
                      Eternal rest grant unto him and let perpetual light shine upon him.  May his soul and all the souls of the departed, rest in eternal peace.

                      I apologize to any who may be offended by shows of religion.

                      Dominic
                      New Jersey, USA

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                      • leatherbearL Offline
                        leatherbear
                        last edited by

                        :cry2:

                        ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                          notquiteme
                          last edited by

                          he was nice when i first came on site… we chatted for a bit on our mutual bear interests hehehe. 🙂  I choose to remember him that way, since it was the only way i knew him

                          sounds like a guy i would have loved to meet if given half the chance. :cry2:

                          I believe in the promise of each sunrise.

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                            CableguyLive
                            last edited by

                            Hi guys, I was wondering if there was any new news on what happen to Tim. The last thing I new was that they where still looking for Ray for questioning. :cry2:

                            Is There Anyone Out There?

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                            • leatherbearL Offline
                              leatherbear
                              last edited by

                              Nochange in that last bit of news. I will call the detectives after the first of the year they will need some time between calls. Detective Nichols asked me to cal every 45 -60 days. No quite that long yet. He has my number if there is a major development in the mean time.  :cry2:

                              ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                p90
                                last edited by

                                i didnt know the guy, i dont even use the forums but i have just been reading though this and i am truely moved by the amount of people how knew him though this site and hope that he rests in peace.

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                                  blackdid
                                  last edited by

                                  Thanks for your kind message, p90
                                  You see, days and weeks pass by and Tim can't be forgotten.
                                  I'm sure others feel the same way, each time I login here I have a thought for him.

                                  He liked to help with all his heart, and he shared with you his happiness, making you feel happy.
                                  How do you want to forget a guy that was so kind, moving and generous ?

                                  "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"  (Mother Teresa)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        .

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                                  • leatherbearL Offline
                                    leatherbear
                                    last edited by

                                    He was simply the best friend a person could hope to have.

                                    I will try to get in touch with the detectives this week for an update on this situation.

                                    ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                      leatherbear
                                      last edited by

                                      I have left messages for the detective handling Tim's death for 3 weeks now with no reply from him. I will continue to call until I get an answer from them.

                                      Sorry for the lack of new information. :cry2:

                                      ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                        beercan
                                        last edited by

                                        hopefully the case can close with a satisfactory conclusion, they would be doing tim justice by unearthing the truth.

                                        :cry2:

                                        I still think of Tim from time to time, trying to remember him without feeling that sense of loss.

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                                          blackdid
                                          last edited by

                                          @beercan:

                                          I still think of Tim from time to time, trying to remember him without feeling that sense of loss.

                                          Nice thought  :hug2:

                                          "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"  (Mother Teresa)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                .

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                                            fresnopup
                                            last edited by

                                            Reading about the circumstances of Tim's death prompts me to suggest that we all reflect on our relationships,  look into our heads and hearts and be especially, lovingly kind to someone tonight.

                                            fresnopup

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