How old were you
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19. And this is my coming out story
For me it was easy to come out. My mother caught me in bed with my boyfriend. She was suposed to be with her man. It was in the early 90s. I was 19 and my boyfriend (today my husband) was 32. She open my bedroomdoor and i was standing toward the door on my bed on all four, with my boyfriend fucking me from behind.
"Okey so youre fucking" was all she said. "When youre done, we can talk" and closed the door. Afterwards we talked (well first she wasnt thrilled about he was 13 years older than me) but she want to know if we protected us. And when we said, we are only with each other, she answered "Thats okey. You dont have to spend money on condoms!" She also said "No iknow where you went every time you were out with "a friend" I didnt have many or (any at all) friends when i grow up.
When i asked if i could follow my boyfriend home, he lived by him self. She said ofcourse. And asked if i would stay over. " I guess you two dont get mutch sleep" she smiled. I was so red in my face when we left. But we hadnt left the driveway before i take out my boyfriends cock and sucked him while he was driving.
My father died when i was young, and he was religious, so i didnt have to come out for him.
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15 now im 23
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I was 19, but it was more like coming out to me. From that point on I never hid my identity again but I've never felt obliged to inform people about it.
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19… it was all very spontaneous. ::)
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I was 12 when I told my parents. They didnt believe me. They were in denial about it and didnt take me seriously. So in high school I invited some of my guy friends from my water polo team to my house for a study session. My parents were out so Let's just say I got really busy and to my lack of getting carried away in the moment my parents returned and caught me in the act. After that day they believed me fasho.
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I was 21, and came out as "bisexual", as if i was clinging to something, haha. About a year later I accepted I was just gay.
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I was 18 and I think both of my parents took it well. They don't like how I chose this "lifestyle" but other than that, They're pretty cool with it.
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25
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22, I fell in love with my boyfriends 2 months before so it was necessary, or at least, I felt so. It was difficult for a couple of years, especially with my mother but then she met my other boyfriends and she is OK with this.
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19 to family, 20 to friends
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When I was 17, to my family, and they were fine with it
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17… keep in mind that was in Brazil at a time where it wasn't as accepting as today (10 years ago).
I'm sure mom knew it but didn't think much of it until I started sneaking out to meet with a "friend" and one night I came home beaten up with bruises. My first boyfriend was very insecure about his sexuality and was physically abusive. He already had me locked up in a room for a whole day before, but the beating was sort of the end. Mom saw through what was happening and confronted me about it.
I was honest and she didn't take it very well at first, tried to convince me to try to be "straight" and find a nice girl... when I said that was not a possibility, she tried bribing me with a new car that was supposed to help me with the girls.
A year later she ended up accepting me and apologized for her past behaviour, explaining that she didn't know any gay couples at the time and that my first same-sex relationship being so abusive was really scary for her.
She became a huge ally and I still got to keep the car after that... :laugh:
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17… keep in mind that was in Brazil at a time where it wasn't as accepting as today (10 years ago).
I'm sure mom knew it but didn't think much of it until I started sneaking out to meet with a "friend" and one night I came home beaten up with bruises. My first boyfriend was very insecure about his sexuality and was physically abusive. Mom saw through what was happening and confronted me about it.
I was honest and she didn't take it very well at first, tried to convince me to try to be "straight" and find a nice girl... when I said that was not a possibility, she tried bribing me with a new car that was supposed to help me with the girls.
A year later she ended up accepting me and apologized for her past behaviour, explaining that she didn't know any gay couples at the time and that my first same-sex relationship being so abusive was really scary for her.
She became a huge ally and I still got to keep the car after that... :laugh:
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34. Came out to my family two months ago. Came out to "myself" back in December.
Still not out to my friends yet. I'll probably come out to one of them pretty soon.
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I was 17, it was the first time I really fell in love with someone and I had to "cry it out". I told my brother first, then my mom and finally my dad and all of them took it pretty well… I guess they already knew it and they were just waiting for me to come out. My friends knew it too in that moment and they took it well, as well. I have never felt rejected by my friends or family. I was lucky, I know many people can't feel the same way.
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I came out at 23. i am 50 now.
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Went to my first gay bar a few blocks away at 15, and the bartender would only let me get one drink. Brought Mom the second time and whatever she said worked to get at least three drinks a night and he kept the worst cases away from me. Never had to hide from Mom, but never really felt it was something to tell anyone else anything about. At least half of my family were pretty much not supportive or simply did not know.
15, I guess.
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