<![CDATA[How old were you]]>…when you came out?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/38803/how-old-were-youRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 06:44:32 GMTFri, 13 Apr 2018 09:04:40 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Wed, 31 Dec 2025 21:30:48 GMT]]>18 years of age

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/335868https://community.gaytor.rent/post/335868Wed, 31 Dec 2025 21:30:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 18 Aug 2025 22:41:38 GMT]]>16 years old. everything went fine

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/333762https://community.gaytor.rent/post/333762Mon, 18 Aug 2025 22:41:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 19 May 2025 22:29:49 GMT]]>I think I was around 17 when i came out. since then I don't "come out". if you find out my sexuality it's because I let it slip in a conversation naturally

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/332084https://community.gaytor.rent/post/332084Mon, 19 May 2025 22:29:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Tue, 29 Apr 2025 17:48:09 GMT]]>I was 17

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331636https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331636Tue, 29 Apr 2025 17:48:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Tue, 29 Apr 2025 11:15:34 GMT]]>@ckslad Late 20s

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331621https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331621Tue, 29 Apr 2025 11:15:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Wed, 09 Apr 2025 19:17:15 GMT]]>i was 20 when I told my family i was bisexual.
I was in high school (I think 16?) when I told a guy i was interested in and we started hooking up.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331048https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331048Wed, 09 Apr 2025 19:17:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Tue, 08 Apr 2025 03:53:28 GMT]]>I was 21

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331008https://community.gaytor.rent/post/331008Tue, 08 Apr 2025 03:53:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sun, 12 Jan 2025 09:23:26 GMT]]>i was 25 when came out

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/329140https://community.gaytor.rent/post/329140Sun, 12 Jan 2025 09:23:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 29 Apr 2024 16:09:24 GMT]]>I'm 34 years old

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/320484https://community.gaytor.rent/post/320484Mon, 29 Apr 2024 16:09:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sat, 06 Jan 2024 16:45:30 GMT]]>I was still 17 when I started telling other people. Scary as it was it was the best decision I ever made.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/316919https://community.gaytor.rent/post/316919Sat, 06 Jan 2024 16:45:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sun, 10 Sep 2023 04:36:37 GMT]]>i never hid the fact i wasnt gay growing up but i guess my official age would be 14--i skipped school went home with a friend while parents at work--my mom came home early from work and caught me and him in the act--funny thing was--she was more upset i skipped school than knowing i was gay

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/313168https://community.gaytor.rent/post/313168Sun, 10 Sep 2023 04:36:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sat, 02 Sep 2023 19:01:09 GMT]]>A lot of the posters are in their 20's. How about posting images of yourselves? hehe

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/312997https://community.gaytor.rent/post/312997Sat, 02 Sep 2023 19:01:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sat, 02 Sep 2023 16:12:02 GMT]]>I never came out.. in my family it's always been normal..

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/312989https://community.gaytor.rent/post/312989Sat, 02 Sep 2023 16:12:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 12 Jun 2023 20:25:29 GMT]]>I was 24

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/310412https://community.gaytor.rent/post/310412Mon, 12 Jun 2023 20:25:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 12 Jun 2023 17:25:31 GMT]]>I was 40, and my partner had cancer, so we cut the crap, as we knew the most important thing was we bring together through that hard time. He didn´t make it, sadly.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/310407https://community.gaytor.rent/post/310407Mon, 12 Jun 2023 17:25:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Tue, 16 May 2023 18:18:14 GMT]]>I knew when i was very, very young. Basically from the first time i saw a big dick. Came out in my early twenties

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/309152https://community.gaytor.rent/post/309152Tue, 16 May 2023 18:18:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 15 May 2023 18:09:52 GMT]]>I was 16, and it was more exploded out... my dad found my porn stash lol

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/309138https://community.gaytor.rent/post/309138Mon, 15 May 2023 18:09:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Thu, 23 Mar 2023 22:47:33 GMT]]>
  • Didn't come out until I had my first gay kiss because I didn't see the point lol
    • ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/307109https://community.gaytor.rent/post/307109Thu, 23 Mar 2023 22:47:33 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Sat, 18 Feb 2023 13:13:53 GMT]]>I was 13 and my mom started laughing saying she knew since I was little.
    I mean, crying a whole year that you hate soccer and wanna sign up for ballet instead at 7-8 years old is kinda a hard giveaway and then there was also my tomboy lesbian sister who was more butch than I, so it was hard to seem masculine next to that. Lol

    And this reminds me it's my 21st coming-out anniversary, it's weird to think it has been that long.

    I will say I was super lucky to have a super liberal and progressive mom, who basically became the LGBTQ ambassador in my hometown and is like the biggest faghag I know. (Thankfully not with me, she has a whole bunch of her own gay friends...)
    I feel for people who are in the opposite position, but that's also why I have always offered my support to people coming out.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/305809https://community.gaytor.rent/post/305809Sat, 18 Feb 2023 13:13:53 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 07 Nov 2022 00:07:44 GMT]]>I never really came out to my family. Never had "the talk" with them. I was just me, and lived with my "roommate" for so long and they put 2 and 2 together.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/300977https://community.gaytor.rent/post/300977Mon, 07 Nov 2022 00:07:44 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 31 Oct 2022 12:37:16 GMT]]>I was 27.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/300638https://community.gaytor.rent/post/300638Mon, 31 Oct 2022 12:37:16 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Thu, 29 Sep 2022 18:21:25 GMT]]>I was maybe 12 when I had feelings for other boys. I don't know that I recognized those feelings as sexual for another couple years. Growing up in the rural south of the US I had zero exposure or information on sexuality (aside from friends misinformation and a few magazines) much less gay sexuality. I recall seeing drag queens on tv for a gay event as a teen and thinking that wasn't me. Again, that attitude was a vestige of being raised in a conservative area that demonized other and was openly racist, sexist and homophobic. By the time I was 16, I knew exactly what I was and was starting to understand that: I wasn't alone, it was likely just an uncommon expression of nature, and it was a crappy unfair situation to be in. A counselor was the first person I came out to that year. Lucky for me they were cool. I told my family in the next year or two. By that time I had GTFO and moved to a big city 1200 miles north. I was quite angry about all this for many years, which was my coping mechanism. Eventually I got tired of being angry and chilled out. I hope anyone else who has experienced violence and/or oppression over sexuality can make the connections between their experiences and those of other oppressed peoples. It mystifies me that gay Republicans exist.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/299538https://community.gaytor.rent/post/299538Thu, 29 Sep 2022 18:21:25 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Thu, 15 Sep 2022 13:25:10 GMT]]>Was around 13 when I found out shit was different with me, came out at 18.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/299018https://community.gaytor.rent/post/299018Thu, 15 Sep 2022 13:25:10 GMT    <![CDATA[Reply to How old were you on Mon, 12 Sep 2022 18:21:32 GMT]]>I first expressed the idea at around 11-ish but didn't really have the proper words. Both parents had pieced things together fully at 13 or 15. Still not fully out as of now, haha.

    ]]>    https://community.gaytor.rent/post/298939https://community.gaytor.rent/post/298939Mon, 12 Sep 2022 18:21:32 GMT