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    Did you choose to be gay?

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    • M Offline
      Minerboh80
      last edited by

      If that's any comfort to you… There are time i wish i was born as a woman.
      I got over it though and i learned to love my choices. 😉

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        LEVI
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        If one can choose to be gay than one must be able to choose to be straight.

        Sleeping with the same sex doesn't make you gay, being in love with the same sex doesn't make you gay. Finding the same sex attractive in an erotic/sexual way and not the opposite sex attractive in an sexual way is what makes you gay.

        A man can sleep with every man he bumps into that doesn't mean he is gay.

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          Fisto
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          A year ago, I didn't think I would be bi. I had experimented with solo masturbation videos but I realised that I was actually really attracted to bears. I had really thought I was straight but I had never really been around the type of men I was attracted to. This made me really confused and I thought really hard about whether I was always bi the whole time. I've accepted that I really must have been bi the whole time although it feels a bit weird. I guess it shouldn't be as weird as me realising I like vegemite without having tried it for most of your life.

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          • tigerrawrT Offline
            tigerrawr
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            I often wish I was a woman, cuz it seems so nice to have a dick in ur pussy.

            And it's way easier getting laid, if you just go for it.

            As a gay I have to search, and there are not so many gay musclebears, there are just more straights.

            Buuuut, it's so much fun being gay, I feel so special. I definitly did not chose it but am extremly happy I am 🙂  :jaj: :bsex:  :twg:

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            • M Offline
              masanopat
              last edited by

              I did not choose to be gay.. I think I was born this way

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              • M Offline
                Minerboh80
                last edited by

                It is common sense that it is a natural thing rather being a ''choice''.

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                • raphjdR Offline
                  raphjd Forum Administrator
                  last edited by

                  I can remember always being attracted to guys.

                  I never made a "choice", it just was.

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                  • P Offline
                    pr0cess
                    last edited by

                    Hell nah.
                    Silk Stockings-era Rob Estes confirmed it though  :cool2:

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                    • M Offline
                      Minerboh80
                      last edited by

                      In my case, it was him that confirmed it.

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                        harrisbren
                        last edited by

                        I didn't "choose" to be gay and if given a chance, I wouldn't change a thing.
                        I like the way I am, flaws and all.

                        I bite ;)

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                          Minerboh80
                          last edited by

                          @harrisbren:

                          I didn't "choose" to be gay and if given a chance, I wouldn't change a thing.
                          I like the way I am, flaws and all.

                          :mbounce: :mb2:

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                            parsek
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                            EPIC FAIL!
                            This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
                            Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

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                              tigerrawr
                              last edited by

                              @parsek:

                              EPIC FAIL!
                              This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
                              Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

                              True that. But you can ofcourse chose to belong in a culture. But then you are just pretending. Although that does not need to be right or wrong, it's just you wanting to try a lifestyle. But in the end instinctually you are not gay.

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                                Minerboh80
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                                @parsek:

                                EPIC FAIL!
                                This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
                                Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

                                Couldn't agrre more.

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                                  kwe4r
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                                  Is that even a question? lol

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                                    harrisbren
                                    last edited by

                                    Hey, the guy did ask a question. I don't know if he was being ironic or something but it's in the "Chit Chat" section. Maybe he just wanted to start a conversation.

                                    I bite ;)

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                                      Minerboh80
                                      last edited by

                                      Also a fact.

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                                      • raphjdR Offline
                                        raphjd Forum Administrator
                                        last edited by

                                        @parsek:

                                        EPIC FAIL!
                                        This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
                                        Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

                                        This question, when posted, was right on topic due to that nasty lesbian saying that we (LGBTS) choose to be gays because we want to be anti social.

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                                          zulfarrakk
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                                          Definitely no, it's not a choice  😉

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                                            Masonmason
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                                            I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction.  I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins  one gay one not).

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